Yall believe in love at first sight?

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if love is just a chemical reaction, doesnt that mean love at first sight is actually possible? :jbhmm:




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i wanna make love to this slim yellowbone with a shaved head at my job. she's very sweet and has nice lips.
is this love? :jbhmm:
 
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go deeper. why not? :jbhmm: do you look at love as just a spark in the brain or some soft shyt?

You said love is just a chemical reaction.
But when you first see a person you cannot love that person, the feeling you have is just attraction.
Attraction can be instantaneous while love occurs over time.

How can love at first sight be possible when love cannot happen at first sight?
It cannot happen because love by definition does not happen instantaneously,.
You cannot love someone you don't know yet.
And if something did happen, that's only what can happen instantaneously, which is attraction.
 

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You said love is just a chemical reaction.
But when you first see a person you cannot love that person, the feeling you have is just attraction.
Attraction can be instantaneous while love occurs over time.

How can love at first sight be possible when love cannot happen at first sight?
It cannot happen because love by definition does not happen instantaneously,.
You cannot love someone you don't know yet.
And if something did happen, that's only what can happen instantaneously, which is attraction.
where do you see that love happens over time? who determines how long is long enough to love someone?

you're not convincing me of anything you're just saying no because no.

and how can love have a definition when love can not be defined as a tangible thing? what is that large difference between the chemical reaction of dopamine for love and attraction?
 

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where do you see that love happens over time? who determines how long is long enough to love someone?

you're not convincing me of anything you're just saying no because no.

and how can love have a definition when love can not be defined as a tangible thing? what is that large difference between the chemical reaction of dopamine for love and attraction?

Bro love happens over time.
That was the whole point of my post. It cannot happen instantaneously, that's just attraction.
And how can you say love is not a tangible thing but at the same time trivialize love to being just a release of chemicals?
If love is a release of chemicals then it can be measured, if it can be measured then it is tangible.

Each reaction produces different chemicals.
It's proven that Oxytocin and Vasopressin is releasing once bonding occurs, and bonding is something that occurs over time.

Testosterone and estrogen drive lust; dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin create attraction; and oxytocin and vasopressin mediate attachment.
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A: The testes and ovaries secrete the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen, driving sexual desire.
B and C: Dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin are all made in the hypothalamus, a region of the brain that controls many vital functions as well as emotion.
D: Several of the regions of the brain that affect love. Lust and attraction shut off the prefrontal cortex of the brain, which includes rational behavior.

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^^^

exactly…cats confusing lust with love.

I would rep but it looks like you’re damaged goods
 

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go deeper. why not? :jbhmm: do you look at love as just a spark in the brain or some soft shyt?
because my first thought was to fukk em.

after that i had the thought to step to em. Seems like that should be standard procedure to how alot of relationships start but i could be wrong
 

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If there was a concept of hate at first site people would say that’s ridiculous. Love at first site is equally ridiculous

idk about that…far easier to hate than to love…a racist can hate a person immediately based on appearance…granted it is foolish/stupid
 
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