Yall believe in love at first sight?

[Prince.Skeletor]

If you discover one day that someone you have loved for years lives a double life, and is in reality a totally different person than the one you thought they were...

Have not been in love for years still? Were your feelings not real somehow?

Yours?
Ya yours were real

 

[MischievousMonkey]

if anything that supports the notion that “truly knowing” someone is relevant to love and not the reverse imo bcuz now that you truly know her (and are aware of said double life) do you still love her? bcuz if not then yes those old feelings basically become invalidated/meaningless

I mean yeah, they might have lost their value today because you were mistaken... But you can't retroactively erase what you felt yesterday, or what you felt all these years. That has already happened and that was love at that moment, right?


I just think it's hard to ever know somebody a 100%. But despite not knowing everything, you can still love.
Whether or not you love a real person or a fake persona... Your love is definitely not fake. You can't fake that

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Yours?
Ya yours were real

So you can love without truly knowing the person

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

So you can love without truly knowing the person

But you thought you did.
It's not about knowing the person as much as it is about bonding.
And even after you find out you may still love the person.

Think about Drake, after his fans found out he uses ghostwriters he still maintained a fanbase.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

NAH

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Yes but with more than one woman

 

[Why-Fi]

absolutely

 

[Bossino]

If OP is seriously asking this as a grown black man in Amerikkka in 2021.......

Won't even finish, my statement I have nothing but bad shyt to say here

 

[CW_1991]

I can tell a lot of you dudes are either on the younger side or just naive. You willing to give a kidney to somebody you just met? You willing to stick by them if they have a car accident the next day and they can no longer walk? If she develops breast cancer are you willing to stick by her side through the procedures?

All of that just from a first glance?

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

I can tell a lot of you dudes are either on the younger side or just naive. You willing to give a kidney to somebody you just met? You willing to stick by them if they have a car accident the next day and they can no longer walk? If she develops breast cancer are you willing to stick by her side through the procedures?

All of that just from a first glance?

Nice!

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

Love no. Super deep lust that both of you share that feels like love? Absolutely.

Some of the best times of my life.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I barely believe in love at all, let alone at first sight

 

[SunZoo]

Yes, but then again most people have no idea what love actually is, 'on sight' or otherwise.

 

[Why-Fi]

 

[HabitualChiller]

If OP is seriously asking this as a grown black man in Amerikkka in 2021.......

Won't even finish, my statement I have nothing but bad shyt to say here

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