Yall Brehs Ever had a Woman Come Back After She Vowed Not to?

[HookersandIceCream]

Lmaoo every single one of the if you been with them for 3 months
Women just like familiarity more than anything

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Go strictly no contact breh. No call, no text, just give her a slight head nod if you see her at work but always just keep it pushin. After she sees you really ain't fukkin with her, she'll try to hit you up to see if she still got that power over you.

I aint got no problem not callin nor texting but im lost on the ignoring her at work thing. On one hand, it could show i dont care no more; on the other hand it could seem like im in my feelings. Still talking to her at work could show that im still being myself and not phased; on the other hand it could seem like im still having hope

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I was a perpetual dikkhead when I was young and EVERY girl gave me 3, 4, 5 chances. Every last one.

These days I’m old and actually try to do right by my woman so maybe you should leave her alone if you know you’re the problem.

Now, they do get to a point of numbness where they move on for good but she still giving you access so she isnt quite there.

Its normal to be down and wanna reach out especially when you really like her but drown yourself in some non destructive hobbies and don’t expect her to come back even though I bet she will.

Yeah i been back on tagged and pof to try and find a clingy woman that'll hit me up all day.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Lmaoo every single one of the if you been with them for 3 months
Women just like familiarity more than anything

Yeah. I think when she realize im gone she gone start reminiscing

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I hope she comes back OP....






























so you can reject her like a real pimp posed to.

An OG told me a long time ago.... if a woman leaves you, never take her back. If she actually leaves, cancel her.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Some do and some don't. Every single breakup I've had was traumatic. The two i dumped came back, the one that dumped.me didn't or hasn't yet (it's been a year now). It's weird too because I truly expected her to come back, but she never did. A mutual friend of ours sent me a conversation they had had about me, and in it she says she is still heart broken but that it "had to happen". Then she threw in there that she's not dating anyone. Now the mutual friend rarely if ever talks to my ex, so her reaching out to her and bringing up our breakup months later was really weird. What's weirder is the woman who sent me.the message initially asked if we were back together, even though she knew we weren't because she had just had that conversation with my ex. It's obvious my ex sent that message because she wanted her to send it to me and knew she would. But some people believe that they talked behind my back and the mutual friend was trying to gauge my interest on her behalf. I'm.not sold on that but some people really think that's what happened? What y'all think?

Anyways that was August of last year, 3 months after we broke up. Around December I had this really really strange dream about her and about a few other things.
I instantly felt from that dream that she would reach out eventually. So I ran to metro PCS the very next day and blocked her number. The dream had it that things would.turn out really.bad if I let her come back....or that's how I interpreted it. I'm glad i.blocked her shyt because Lord knows that relationship was toxic as fukk

 

[SheWantTheD]

I just got over a REALLY bad break up.... it was depressing,I cried many nights, I used a lot of drugs (I literally don't remember 90% of last semester cause I was geeked on stimulants, and benzodiazepines), but I finally got over that hump, got over her, and got my shyt together and graduated college.

You'll get over that bytch with time..trust me...

Listen, if a chick leaves you, YOU DONT WANT HER BACK..... No real chick that loves you would leave you.. PERIOD.... and if she leaves you and comes back, she got fukked and the nikka dipped so she going back to the weak nikka she know will take her back.

fukk that hoe bruh......


do you really want a girl back after she got fukked? Women will keep secrets to the death. Remember that.

Facts.. once a chick leaves me it's over.

Don't care how fine or bad she is, I'm moving on to better and greater things with a badder shorty.

I feel like I'm moving backwards if I go back to a chick that left me with no good reason.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Some do and some don't. Every single breakup I've had was traumatic. The two i dumped came back, the one that dumped.me didn't or hasn't yet (it's been a year now). It's weird too because I truly expected her to come back, but she never did. A mutual friend of ours sent me a conversation they had had about me, and in it she says she is still heart broken but that it "had to happen". Then she threw in there that she's not dating anyone. Now the mutual friend rarely if ever talks to my ex, so her reaching out to her and bringing up our breakup months later was really weird. What's weirder is the woman who sent me.the message initially asked if we were back together, even though she knew we weren't because she had just had that conversation with my ex. It's obvious my ex sent that message because she wanted her to send it to me and knew she would. But some people believe that they talked behind my back and the mutual friend was trying to gauge my interest on her behalf. I'm.not sold on that but some people really think that's what happened? What y'all think?

Anyways that was August of last year, 3 months after we broke up. Around December I had this really really strange dream about her and about a few other things.
I instantly felt from that dream that she would reach out eventually. So I ran to metro PCS the very next day and blocked her number. The dream had it that things would.turn out really.bad if I let her come back....or that's how I interpreted it. I'm glad i.blocked her shyt because Lord knows that relationship was toxic as fukk

A lotta women don't have the balls to outright say they wanna get back together or start over.

They gon do some indirect shyt hoping you hop on it.

 

[NobleDrewAli]

I aint got no problem not callin nor texting but im lost on the ignoring her at work thing. On one hand, it could show i dont care no more; on the other hand it could seem like im in my feelings. Still talking to her at work could show that im still being myself and not phased; on the other hand it could seem like im still having hope

I hear you. You definitely don't wanna be an a-hole to her cause that will show that you're in your feelings. You can be cordial with her at work, but no extra shyt like going over to her area, speaking with her too long, etc. Just act like the break up isn't bothering you at all. The easiest way to go about is to live you life like she's never going to be a part of it again(which she may not be anyway since she says she's done). Just let her be and enjoy your life. Once she sees you ain't trippin over her, she'll either try to come back or just leave you alone for good. The thing is, you have to be cool with leaving her alone for good and avoid all contact unless she hits you up first.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

A lotta women don't have the balls to outright say they wanna get back together or start over.

They gon do some indirect shyt hoping you hop on it.

Honestly, had she just came out and said she's sorry and she's hurting and she misses me to our mutual friend, I would have went back to her....but when I read the message (mutual friend copied and pasted it) and read the "it had to happen" I got PISSED. Also she tried to say it was a no fault breakup when clearly she fukked up and then dumped me. Anything to save face. Her pride wouldn't allow her to tell the truth, which told me nothing would have changed with her.

I fb stalked her months later (January of this year) and saw that she looked like absolute shyt in pics from december...saw in her eyes that she was miserable. Then I saw some dude on the comment section call me a dip shyt .

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I hear you. You definitely don't wanna be an a-hole to her cause that will show that you're in your feelings. You can be cordial with her at work, but no extra shyt like going over to her area, speaking with her too long, etc. Just act like the break up isn't bothering you at all. The easiest way to go about is to live you life like she's never going to be a part of it again(which she may not be anyway since she says she's done). Just let her be and enjoy your life. Once she sees you ain't trippin over her, she'll either try to come back or just leave you alone for good. The thing is, you have to be cool with leaving her alone for good and avoid all contact unless she hits you up first.

Yeah thats what ima do. Im not gonna make it seem like im going outta my way to be mean or to ignore her