Yall check out the illcommunity lately? (forum member Kai passed away)

LevelUp

Born To Mack
Joined
Nov 5, 2013
Messages
79,651
Reputation
38,068
Daps
114,393
Here's more in regards to the story


sahra-bulle.jpg



Heartbroken mom whose daughter was killed says she's still waiting to wake up from the nightmare


Mornings are the hardest time for Fartumo Kusow since the death of her daughter Sahra Bulle. Each morning she's forced to remember her nightmare is real.

Kusow said her family is struggling in the wake of Sahra's death — but she is hoping to reach other women who might be facing intimate partner violence.

"It's still not really real," Kusow said. "I'm still waiting to wake up from this nightmare."

Bulle repeatedly tried to leave relationship, stayed at local shelter


Sahra's body was located on June 6. It came a day after Windsor police announced a first-degree murder charge against her estranged husband, Brian Aaron Marbury. Sahra had been missing since May 26.

The allegations against Marbury has not yet been tested before the courts.

Kusow said her daughter was with Marbury since she was 18 — the couple had even lived with Kusow for a time. Her daughter was once again attempting to leave, she said, and was staying at Windsor's Hiatus House when she went missing.

Kusow said she last spoke with her daughter on Friday, May 26, while Sahra was on her way home from work.

"She seemed really to be turning a corner and happy," Kusow said.

As the mother of an adult, Kusow said she wasn't allowed to communicate with doctors and other advocates to share with them what she knew. If she had, Kusow said she believes her daughter would be alive today


I think my daughter has never received a full risk assessment, somebody in authority to tell her, 'this is the risk you're facing,'" Kusow said. "I was the only one saying (it) and and you know … you always think (your) mother is exaggerating.

"I could never really get anybody outside of the family to sit with her because she wasn't giving a full account of what has been happening, at least as far as I could tell."


Kusow said she feels the system isn't set up to work for women who are trying to leave unhealthy relationships. Sahra was smart, her mother said. But she was also "loyal to a fault," something that hindered her efforts to leave.

"If she saw another woman that (this) happened to, she'd be the first to stand up," Kusow said. "It was so hard for her to see it in herself and to see that she was also a victim ... I don't think she appreciated the magnitude of the danger she faced."

Bulle a 'smart, bubbly' woman nearly finished her University of Windsor degree
Sahra was incredibly smart, her mother said, a natural caregiver who nurtured her younger siblings. She called her youngest sister "sweet angel." She loved Russian literature.

The family came to Canada when Sahra was seven, leaving civil war in Somalia.


 
Last edited:

Yaboysix

That nikka
Joined
May 28, 2012
Messages
20,738
Reputation
3,530
Daps
50,902
Reppin
Tampa Florida
Oh snap! I remember allhiphop. Com! I stopped Fckin with it when "illseed" was swapped out with another person...like Nyggas wasn't gone notice!
 

Budda

Superstar
Joined
Jun 12, 2013
Messages
10,653
Reputation
882
Daps
27,676
Here's more in regards to the story


sahra-bulle.jpg



Heartbroken mom whose daughter was killed says she's still waiting to wake up from the nightmare


Mornings are the hardest time for Fartumo Kusow since the death of her daughter Sahra Bulle. Each morning she's forced to remember her nightmare is real.

Kusow said her family is struggling in the wake of Sahra's death — but she is hoping to reach other women who might be facing intimate partner violence.

"It's still not really real," Kusow said. "I'm still waiting to wake up from this nightmare."

Bulle repeatedly tried to leave relationship, stayed at local shelter


Sahra's body was located on June 6. It came a day after Windsor police announced a first-degree murder charge against her estranged husband, Brian Aaron Marbury. Sahra had been missing since May 26.

The allegations against Marbury has not yet been tested before the courts.

Kusow said her daughter was with Marbury since she was 18 — the couple had even lived with Kusow for a time. Her daughter was once again attempting to leave, she said, and was staying at Windsor's Hiatus House when she went missing.

Kusow said she last spoke with her daughter on Friday, May 26, while Sahra was on her way home from work.

"She seemed really to be turning a corner and happy," Kusow said.

As the mother of an adult, Kusow said she wasn't allowed to communicate with doctors and other advocates to share with them what she knew. If she had, Kusow said she believes her daughter would be alive today


I think my daughter has never received a full risk assessment, somebody in authority to tell her, 'this is the risk you're facing,'" Kusow said. "I was the only one saying (it) and and you know … you always think (your) mother is exaggerating.

"I could never really get anybody outside of the family to sit with her because she wasn't giving a full account of what has been happening, at least as far as I could tell."


Kusow said she feels the system isn't set up to work for women who are trying to leave unhealthy relationships. Sahra was smart, her mother said. But she was also "loyal to a fault," something that hindered her efforts to leave.

"If she saw another woman that (this) happened to, she'd be the first to stand up," Kusow said. "It was so hard for her to see it in herself and to see that she was also a victim ... I don't think she appreciated the magnitude of the danger she faced."

Bulle a 'smart, bubbly' woman nearly finished her University of Windsor degree
Sahra was incredibly smart, her mother said, a natural caregiver who nurtured her younger siblings. She called her youngest sister "sweet angel." She loved Russian literature.

The family came to Canada when Sahra was seven, leaving civil war in Somalia.



OMG :ohhh:I remember her RIP
 

GoAggieGo.

getting blitzed.
Joined
Dec 27, 2017
Messages
12,935
Reputation
5,169
Daps
59,608
Reppin
ATL via Tre 4
Damn, I remember Kai from posting on Allhiphop 2010-2016. Someone mentioned Kat, I remember her too.

Sad story. RIP and prayers to her family.
 
Top