Y'all ever had a homeboy that disappear when they get an old lady, I mean can't invite him anywhere cause he bring his girl, I'm not into men

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I've heard of women doing this when they get a man but I'm not sure I've ever had a male friend disappear cause he got a girl
If someone stopped going out as much it's more so because they have a FAMILY and in their 30s or 40s. Even those types still have guy nights or come to the spot to watch the game, etc

Weird phenomena, breh can't do nothing without his girl tagging along
 

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At a certain point, thats how its supposed to be. Sure you still make time for the fellas but eventually those days of just hanging all night all the time, chasing broads ironically, come to an end.
 

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Is this about dudes that bring their girl to everything? If so then I understand. If dude just doesnt come out at all then nah he just dont fukk with you or his girl dont fukk with you. Somebody dont fukk with you lol.
We have events where the homies bring their ladies and everybody chop it up like a kickback. Then we have some dude only shyt like we went to see the Dragon ball super movie st the theater left the ladies in the house cuz we aint want them to kill the vibe lol.
 

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Man im married with 2 kids. In the beginning its easy to get caught up and lost in the whirlwind of the family and new responsibilities. However, it is important to have some you time. Not couple times but ME time. I encourage my girl to go out and catch uo with her homegirls some times. I do the same for myself. Me and my friends hit fights or just get up to watch games from time to time. We took a fellas fishing trip in the keys last year. shyt was fun as hell. Im at the age alot of my friends got old lays wives and now they want to invite them everywhere. I just say, hey ill get up with you when im on some couples shyt. My partnas that can get away dolo we kick it. My wife cool as hell, last time I hit the strip club was with her.
 

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I'm the opposite though when I was younger my girlfriends were like my left hand. I'd roll with them heavy and bring them around all the time.

My girlfriends sometimes would be the only female with the click.


They'd be doing whatever TF I was into.


If my girl can't be around the crew/family she not my girl
 

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My boys' done it and I've done it lol. I understand when you're younger not getting it but man in my 30s my guys don't understand
  • you can't just pull up to the crib every weekend at 11pm and stay until ungodly hours of the night
  • call me at 2am to come to an after party or engage in any fukkery lol
  • Invite me to places you know that's gonna cause problems lol, I haven't been to a strip club in 15 years and some of my guys stay trying to get em to go
  • Saying the wildest shyt when my misses around lol
The saying misery loves company is so true,, it's always my guys who complain about women on the internet doing this to me too
:mjlol:

Now that I'm older I've noticed the divide between homies who are still single versus brehs who got a family.


There just isn't a common ground like that anymore. the lifestyles are so different.


its all love still but what a difference.
 

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Instead of hating on your boy. Congratulate him and see if she got some friends to put on to you. You worried about him coming to see you when you could be pushing up on her friends :what:
Man yall gotta chill with this. I dont think he's necessarily hating. I think he's just upset cuz he cant kick it with his bro cuz the vibe is off now. Dudes be changing when they get in relationships sometimes for the worse. Let's be for real too, not every dude gets with a woman that is likeable. Lol he might have a girlfriend everybody hates but he bringing her to every single hangout and it's killing the vibe if he does come around. Even the other girlfriends in the friend group might hate her lol :mjlol:
Those dudes absolutely do end up getting cut off subtly cuz people stop inviting him cuz they don't wanna see her too. It's unfortunate but it happens.
 
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