THOT has been a dumb term from the jump. NEVER used that shyt. I lump it in with the current usages of:
-Pause
-Petty
-Fleek
Buncha stupid shyt. Now to the point, I agree. I have vibed with girls who hid things about themselves worried about how I would categorize them. We all know women like sex, and it is strange these ignorant nikkas walking around talking about not marrying a whore, while expecting a woman down the line who hasn't given it up to a few people. Given the chance, there are a lot of women I would have casual sex with, and often, and would hope when it is time to settle, I wouldn't be judged endlessly for sexually enjoying women of differing tastes, backgrounds, and stations in life.
I have no problems with women doing them and getting the sex they like. The only caveat is that her history, if you get insight into her partners, can warn you of the kinda girl you have on your hands. It isn't an automatic negative, but when your good, clean girl has odd run-ins with scummy, ill mannered men, you have to wonder what mental damage will surface later in your relationship.