Yall ****** up here act like broads cant make a mistake at 18 ,19 , or 20.

[Brandon M.]

I am not taking this thread seriously anymore

Yo honestly yall helped me out in this thread....im not gonna fukk with her no more. ...its gonna be hard though....she beautiful. can sing .blue eyes ,yellow skin. but i just gotta find women with those traits whos not a video or attention whore or that has a kid.............where can i find them is the problem.

 

[jadillac]

if i would have met her first, she would have had my kid first...the timing was wrong...im not a back up plan

she done broke up with me madd times because she thinks her child is a burden ...she doesnt wanna put me through that and sometimes i have to convince her that its all good , her exact words to me sometimes are " youre too good for me, why couldnt i have met u when i was in highschool or freshman in college" ...

Abort mission right now breh. Abort!

No woman ever would tell a man she really wants, "you're too good for me"

 

[jadillac]

This thread makes me sad. I hate to see a coli n**ga lose this bad. We need to create a list of things to watch for that women pull on dudes. We always focus on game but this thread proves we need to focus on signs and saying women use that mean something different and negative.

I dont know why but that made me

But yeah, on the real, "Quick lil gems for dealing with women" thread covers everything 100%

"You're too good for me."

A.K.A.

"I'm fukking my baby daddy on the side & don't want to hurt you."

Possibly.

Or if it's not that, she's messing with other dudes on the side and is trying to absolve herself mentally by telling herself, "well I told him he's too good for me....and he still stayed around"

I mean, let's be real. Why would a woman ever tell you ur too good for her if she's not out cheating or doing some other foul stuff to you? If all she was doing was going to work everyday, taking care of her kid, and coming home to you....what's there to feel bad about?

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

I dont know why but that made me

But yeah, on the real, "Quick lil gems for dealing with women" thread covers everything 100%



Possibly.

Or if it's not that, she's messing with other dudes on the side and is trying to absolve herself mentally by telling herself, "well I told him he's too good for me....and he still stayed around"

I mean, let's be real. Why would a woman ever tell you ur too good for her if she's not out cheating or doing some other foul stuff to you? If all she was doing was going to work everyday, taking care of her kid, and coming home to you....what's there to feel bad about?

Bingo.

 

[Super TD Jakes]

Would they fukk with me if I made a few mistakes?

Like I still live with my momma at 24

And work at the local Waffle House part time

No car but, I keep that monthly bus pass on deck

Would she still fukk with me? huh?

and @the smilies...

 

[Pazzy]

Damn, so now nikkas are lowering their standards like this? Threadstarter is in need to travel around the US of A and even the world. Get out of ya comfort zone.

and once again, when the guys do it where they have a kid with a woman that they don't plan on staying with in the long term, they expect some woman outthere to take him in and get involved with their asses. it's funny hearing those same dudes holding up high standards from women that they don't even hold for themselves. it goes both ways.

it's funny how dudes in here are so hateful towards women that they can't see that it's not just women that are the ones fukking up.

 

[Just like bruddas]

Just because a woman has a child without being married doesnt mean she's a bad woman. Seems yall wanna put them into this hoe category. Dont get me wrong now if she running around with 3 kids but different dudes and just smutting it up then yes i would agree thats a bad choice.

But if she got her head on straight, working and got her own pockets while supporting her seed then why not be with her? She's doing the same thing a good woman would but x2

 

[Two Stacks]

women with kids...dont do it....i tried that in 09...she threw me in the bushes to marry some dude who has either one or 2 kids. and she had a kid for him...now they got like 5 kids...she had 2 kids prior to fukking with him.

i learned at that time that my value as a black man with no kids>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

these ratchet bytches try so hard to hide that shyt that they should be using that skill to actually acquire a marketable skill.

 

[Chris.B]

Every single mom is fukkking her baby daddy, I don't care what she tells you....she is fukking that n!gga.

 

[Two Stacks]

Every single mom is fukkking her baby daddy, I don't care what she tells you....she is fukking that n!gga.

the same applies to a chick that says she still talks to her ex.

 

[YBE]

Just because a woman has a child without being married doesnt mean she's a bad woman. Seems yall wanna put them into this hoe category. Dont get me wrong now if she running around with 3 kids but different dudes and just smutting it up then yes i would agree thats a bad choice.

But if she got her head on straight, working and got her own pockets while supporting her seed then why not be with her? She's doing the same thing a good woman would but x2

Its not like we saying single moms aren't human Everybody needs love b. Everybody. Just dont make sense to have all those kids & be tryna get with someone who dont have none. Go holla at a dude with kids. My aunt (not blood but, still) had two daughters & their dad wasn't about shyt. She eventually met a dude who had a teenage son & a young daughter. They got together on some brady bunch shyt and been happy for the last 11 years now. My favorite older couple, I love going over their house yo

 

[Just like bruddas]

Its not like we saying single moms aren't human Everybody needs love b. Everybody. Just dont make sense to have all those kids & be tryna get with someone who dont have none. Go holla at a dude with kids. My aunt (not blood but, still) had two daughters & their dad wasn't about shyt. She eventually met a dude who had a teenage son & a young daughter. They got together on some brady bunch shyt and been happy for the last 11 years now. My favorite older couple, I love going over their house yo

If you feeling a chick then kids shouldnt be a factor. It kinda harsh to say they shouldnt date who they wanna date.

 

[kevm3]

The father of a woman's child will tell you a lot about her and her choice in men. Having a baby by someone isn't a 'mistake'. If she had a baby by a drug dealer, that gives you direct knowledge of what kind of man she really likes to deal with. She didn't walk down the street one day, slip on a banana peel and accidentally backflipped onto some thug johnson. She willingly opened her leg to that drug dealer numerous times on her own accord. The only reason she is looking for a 'different guy' is because mr. dealer over there usually has multiple hoes and moved on... He's probably not paying child support. The only reason she stopped dealing with him is because he stopped dealing with her and won't handle his responsibilities or she can't deal with all the drama he brings around... but best believe him and similar thug types still turn her on, and she will continue to spread her legs for them.

On the other hand, she is also looking for a provider negro to take care of her children and to deal with her emotional baggage. Thug baby daddy is still beating it up, but her man is the one who is ending up with the responsibilities. And let's talk about something very important. Even if you aren't the biological father, you can be slapped with child support if you start playing that daddy role and doing all that cohabitating... and don't think these so called sweethearts of women won't put you on it.

 

[marcuz]

If you feeling a chick then kids shouldnt be a factor. .

why it shouldn't? if you really feeling a chick, you intend to be with her for awhile. eventually, you have to address the elephant in the room and decide if you're going to be a real father to that girls kid.

don't see why this is even debatable. let these women sleep in the beds they've made. just like i don't understand how the lowest form of black males collect the most p*ssy. i also don't understand how these single mothers are able to find idiots to lock them down.


btw, when i first saw the thread title. i thought you made it

 

[Just like bruddas]

why it shouldn't? if you really feeling a chick, you intend to be with her for awhile. eventually, you have to address the elephant in the room and decide if you're going to be a real father to that girls kid.

don't see why this is even debatable. let these women sleep in the beds they've made. just like i don't understand how the lowest form of black males collect the most p*ssy. i also don't understand how these single mothers are able to find idiots to lock them down.


btw, when i first saw the thread title. i thought you made it

Breh most single mothers arent looking for a father for their child, the just looking for a man to be there for them. They have the child part covered. From my experience man, most of them dont want a man besides their father to anywhere near the seed, i didnt meet my ex son until 4 months after we got together.

Seems yall biggest fear is being given a position that yall didnt ask for when in reality, you probably wont be given it in the first place