if your wife fukks another nikka because you didn't bring her a sandwich and he told her that he would, then she was only there for the sandwiches.
Sandwiches>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>you
LOL that's not pampering. When I say pampering, I mean buying her nice things and treating you and her to good food, vacations, etc. I ain't talking about being no butler, waiting on her every want and call nikka.
......but still, no 
uhhh yea?? its called showing her attention. if she doesnt get it from you then she will seek it elsewhere,

vibe from shorty. lol