Yea I fukked up, being alpha and beta

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U don't have to fukk every girl u come across. Sumtimes its OK to tell a chick no if u not all the way attracted to her like that.
Im all the way attracted lot of qualities and sexy af ive had nothing meaningful brew after fukk early i know she still sees her ex so its like am i gonna be just a fukk?
 

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listening to your stories..
i advise 2 things

1) you need to develop 2-3 go-to moves that close the deal with willing women
either sell her on saying yes, or let her sell you that it's not happening
but do it cleanly- nothing long or protracted

2) you need to screen better
you can't keep putting yourself in these risky situations
women who run hot-cold-confused-eager-unsure..
might say "yes kind of" but regret it later
 

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listening to your stories..
i advise 2 things

1) you need to develop 2-3 go-to moves that close the deal with willing women
either sell her on saying yes, or let her sell you that it's not happening
but do it cleanly- nothing long or protracted

2) you need to screen better
you can't keep putting yourself in these risky situations
women who run hot-cold-confused-eager-unsure..
might say "yes kind of" but regret it later
#1 is usually
My game... And always get play but with this... I for sure thought she would want to be close and she was even saying things but ive learned actions are better than any words. I think i'm going to just fall back from
Her and give her space and not be weird about it. I'm mad at myself for this one was no reason why I shouldnt have tried to eat her or something.. I deep down felt like she could be someone I could get with relationship wise so not wanting to fukk that up I did what I did.
 

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Why do

you write sentences

like this?

LOL Naw I'm playing. First I wanna say is.. Western Women Y'all! If you ain't try and smash on the first date she thinks your gay or not interested :dead:

Anyways.. you acting real BETA breh :dame: You hung out with this chick what once, and you already going crazy thinking about how you screwed shyt up.

You ain't smash who cares. What do you want? You wanna smash? Then go ahead and make it happen. Tell her to come thru to your place or to hers.

You wanna keep seeing her? Then hit her up and make shyt happen, plan dates, get togethers etc. fukk all walking on egg shells shyt breh, and just be you man.

Don't over think things and just be yourself. You don't owe her anything let alone an explanation for why you didn't have sex with her. Her body language could have been

due to something else and not necessarily you not having sex with her that night.

PS were y'all flirting, touching, kissing etc during the group date?
 

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Why do

you write sentences

like this?

LOL Naw I'm playing. First I wanna say is.. Western Women Y'all! If you ain't try and smash on the first date she thinks your gay or not interested :dead:

Anyways.. you acting real BETA breh :dame: You hung out with this chick what once, and you already going crazy thinking about how you screwed shyt up.

You ain't smash who cares. What do you want? You wanna smash? Then go ahead and make it happen. Tell her to come thru to your place or to hers.

You wanna keep seeing her? Then hit her up and make shyt happen, plan dates, get togethers etc. fukk all walking on egg shells shyt breh, and just be you man.

Don't over think things and just be yourself. You don't owe her anything let alone an explanation for why you didn't have sex with her. Her body language could have been

due to something else and not necessarily you not having sex with her that night.

PS were y'all flirting, touching, kissing etc during the group date?
Yes flirting very naturally and touching was mostly from
Me but I think when outside I touched her she came
In closer and wrapped her arm around me as well. Like it should have went down i wouldn't have denied her of she initiated anything. Once I asked if she wanted be held And that was thrown to the bushes I left it alone because I was gonna hold+kiss+ push boner on the back+ etc

But I feel I gotta fall back, my flirting now with her isn't met with the same energy.. And she was saying lots of things that hinted to future things thats why I told her hey.. i want you to know i am interested and it was met by a good response... However the response said nowhere in it "im interested in you too"
 

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Ima make this story short n sweet, chick from somewhere we go during the week we went out to
An event with another couple night was perfect this was first
Hang out and I really wanted to do everything right. Chemistry was crazy even the couple like.... "Yea yall really hitting it off" i was thinkin how I was gonna kiss her end of night and we all
Stayed in same place and me and chick had a room
And bed and nikkas was congested and i aint try to fukk or do nothing bexause I actually was feeling her and i think i fukked up because afterwards she seem like she think I was not interested so i made sure tell her.... Runnin thru my
Mind is
If she rejects i gotta see her during the week
And risk
Dirtying my face. Also thinking she'd find it respectable she was tryin to sleep so I wasnt being creepy but def wanted to hit but now its seeming lack of interest on her part. Trying to get that second hang out taking effort. Would have cuffed and had she let
Me
Hit first night prolly wouldn't cuff but she is cool so maybe anyways I think I fukked up. I kinda want to just ask
Her... "Were you expecting me to try to do stuff that night?" Although id rather it be like this without fukking then have this happen after fukking thats the worse

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Yooo. What the fukk are we supposed to do with this unintelligible wall of text? No grammar, no punctuation, nothing.
Pressing enter randomly as you type :whatmayne:
words missing :whatmayne:
missing commas and full stops :whatmayne:
fukk the delivery peep the message
 
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