Dated this chick briefly in the fall of 2014. She said she was a RN. Big ass titties. Cool chick. We dated for like two months. Her problem was that she liked to argue combatively over trivial shyt. Then break up so we can make up. She lived off that shyt. I personally am not built for all the yelling and arguing. I live a nice peaceful life. So I told her. . AiyoNext time you want to start a argument and break up will be the last.
She tried me again and IIt was a easy decision to make because I had just busted her in a big lie too.
My brother and sister in law had just moved from Pittsburgh down here to Jax. My sister n law has two masters degrees. She is a RN. Her new job is Director of Nursing at a hospital here in Jax. When she found out my friend is also a RN she wanted to link up with her naturally. My friend kept ducking her.
Would never answer her call etc. . So my Sis n law looked her up. Bish aint in nobodies system as a RN.
When I confronted her she came clean and said she is a CNA.
Which I really don't care about. . But she had been telling that lie for so long it was natural I guess. Then she tried to start a argument over some dumb shyt and said lets take a break from each other. I said Word!
And I was ghost.
The next day she is at my door like its all good. I told her we are no longer together.She laughed that shyt off. Kept calling wanting to talk about it over and over. . I told her straight up. . We are not compatible. You are a cool chick but not what I am looking for. She then starts going off and calling my phone over and over and over and over.
I was at work at the time. I get off late. I choose to ignore her. I am leaving the building at 3am. . Her car is in the cut parked next to mine.
She is still mad and wants to argue it out. I tell her this is nuts and do not ever come to my employment again and to leave me alone. She calls me a fakkit and a fukkboy and gets in her car and peels off. I get in my whip and start rolling out of the parking lot. .
I really don't feel like fixing a flat at 3am. . fukk! I grab my spare and my jack. . Change out the tire. Get back in the whip to pull off.
Did not notice she flattened two tires.
I did not want to wake my brother up. . I just trekked the three miles home. The next day I come back with my brother. He took me up to my job so I could grab both tires. . .from there we would go to the tire spot so I could buy two more and get them mounted then he would take me back to my job so I could put them in. . I look at my whip in the daylight. . She had keyed my shyt on the drivers side door too.
ALL BECAUSE I DID NOT WANT TO STAY WITH HER!We only dated for like two months and she is the one who was lying.
wowthis makes no senseYou coli nikkas tell dudes to just forget a chick anytime she says we "just friends" and to cut her off but now woman are the emotional ones?
The relationship wasn't headed where she wanted it to go so she decided not to u vest anymore time into it. How is that an emotionally charged decision?
This place, man
What if it's just not a good time for me to date...Nothing wrong with wanting to get on your feet. I just think if someone is really into you they would want to grow with you. Dating shouldn't trump your goals just kinda coincide with them.
...like, I'm between jobs (in the midst of landing a great job) and living with my father (whom I'm willing to slapbox after only 2 weeks) til I get my own spot--I'm stressed.
...like, I'm between jobs (in the midst of landing a great job) and living with my father (whom I'm willing to slapbox after only 2 weeks) til I get my own spot--I'm stressed.
Exactly. The wrong dude would have either tore her car up or hit her. I was just flabbergasted at the whole event. Its not like we had years of history. I just met the chick. Two months of dating. smh. She told me that her previous boyfriend put his hands on her. Most of the time you hear that you auto think the dude is a piece of shyt. But I can see how she provoked that man into doing something out of his zone and he got jail time and a record because of it.
, if she likes you and you don't like here, there is no reason for her to sit in your friend zone, she moved on to find someone who likes her, that doesn't mean that she hates you. Everyone should move on if they find out they're in the friendzone when they don't want to be. There is no point in being "friends" with someone you like/have a crush on and you know they don't like you back.
Preach!!!! Dudes treat relationships like a damn Best Buy sweep contest. This is why no one feels sorry for heartbroken men unless their were married. Why feel sorry for someone who put little to no emotional effort in the relationship in the first place.
so its whatever. One time I went up her way to get her and her cousin to twist my dreads (at the same damn time). So after they finish I was gonna drop them at mcdonalds to "meet up and smoke with some friends" then go on about my business. We get to the counter and start ordering when a car pulls up. shorty looks over and starts acting funny all of a sudden, apparently their friends arrived early. I peep the nervousness early and immediately start actin an ass 
clowning thinking it was just a nikka from her past. The dudes in the car were fried and took forever to come inside so I take my food and dip telling her I'm gonna spare her the awkward moment . he saw me and dumped her a week later. Didn't take long for her to find another and cheat on him before the year was out. women
