Yo women end up hating dudes that rejected them

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Girls get mad if you don't even look at em. Particularly those girls that think they're cute and are used to dudes gawking at em.







How was the p*ssy? They say those psycho bytches are the best sex:ld:

This right here is the truth! Back when I was tired of chicks feigning interest and flirting just for attention and an ego boost, I wouldn't look at women for the most part when I was out and about. A lot of women who are used to most dudes gawking at them would purposely try to get my attention, like staring at you hard af for long periods of time, bumping into you and acting like it was an accident or some sh.

At my school you can take out text books for two hours, and this really bad chick worked behind the counter when I would be in the library studying. Every time I took a book out I would just keep it casual. I was already seeing some other chick, I thought she was bad but I was like whatever I don't care. Me ignoring her and not trying to spit game or whatever made her want me. But a while after the chick I was seeing was acting funny I started to show this chick interest, then she would just ignore me and purposely try to avoid me like I'm some annoying pest when all I did was look and not say sh to her.

Surprisingly she's in one of my classes this semester and I went back to ignoring her, and now she's looking at me again. These girls out here really don't see any value in themselves outside of their appearance. When this chick wasn't all done up, you can tell she didn't feel as confident in herself compared to when her hair was done and she had on a cute outfit.
 

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Some chick I was dating started acting funny. Ignoring my texts, taking hours to respond, cancelling dates with bs reasons etc. So I decided to charge her to the game. I used to text her every day or every couple of days, then I just completely backed off cause I was getting tired of her bs.

Then she starts chasing the fuk outta me. I still wasn't with it but ended up giving her another chance about a month of her chasing cause there were no other chicks I was talking to. Everything seemed cool, then she hit me with the "I'm not attracted to you" and gave me some ultimatum that if I didn't follow we couldn't be friends.

:mjlol: Told her she might as well lose my number LOL. I'm guessing there was some other dude that came back in the picture or she couldn't handle rejection and had to have the "last laugh".
 

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My freshman year of high school this chick would flirt with me hardcore everyday. I was inexperienced and didn't even know how to flirt lol.

Eventually she got mad that I wasn't responding to her flirting. I ask her out one day and she says no, then I find out she had a boyfriend the entire time.

Bish still tried to get my attention after that. :rudy:
 

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Women in general handle it emotionally worse than men, I've only rejected two girls in my life (ugly gang) and one girl almost killed herself afterward. That may be more of a toss-up between depression and the rejection though.
Men tend to be the ones that kill women who reject them though, so I have to give it to the guys on this one.
 

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Women in general handle it emotionally worse than men, I've only rejected two girls in my life (ugly gang) and one girl almost killed herself afterward. That may be more of a toss-up between depression and the rejection though.
Men tend to be the ones that kill women who reject them though, so I have to give it to the guys on this one.
Could this be mental illness?
 
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I think we handle rejection worse because after the rejection we spend a lot of time trying to figure out if something is "wrong with us" rather it be physical or personality wise.
I know personally I over analyze things and if I like a guy, I'm going to think it through before I approach him. There's all this build up and once the approach is done and there's rejection :yeshrug: I try to physically and emotionally remove myself from and interaction with the guy. So that's why I think women may block guys, stop talking to them, unfollow on social media, etc
I think most women assume that after a guy rejects them, that the guy may have an ego boast afterwards
Trust, I let a guy know that I was interested in him once and he made me feel like shyt for liking him and went on social media and bragged on some " hoes all on me" type of shyt.
:whoa: And before anyone says it, I know that women can act this way too. It's not right when either gender does it.
 

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I think we handle rejection worse because after the rejection we spend a lot of time trying to figure out if something is "wrong with us" rather it be physical or personality wise.
I know personally I over analyze things and if I like a guy, I'm going to think it through before I approach him. There's all this build up and once the approach is done and there's rejection :yeshrug: I try to physically and emotionally remove myself from and interaction with the guy. So that's why I think women may block guys, stop talking to them, unfollow on social media, etc
I think most women assume that after a guy rejects them, that the guy may have an ego boast afterwards
Trust, I let a guy know that I was interested in him once and he made me feel like shyt for liking him and went on social media and bragged on some " hoes all on me" type of shyt.
:whoa: And before anyone says it, I know that women can act this way too. It's not right when either gender does it.
I think you touch on something. Both genders go through the what's wrong with me thing. But could that be a positive? Maybe you start hitting the gym or reading more, learning more. Improve for you then when the next person comes around and you know you're at a good place you know the rejection isn't about you. But their own insecurities. Or you may not get rejected.
 

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This right here is the truth! Back when I was tired of chicks feigning interest and flirting just for attention and an ego boost, I wouldn't look at women for the most part when I was out and about. A lot of women who are used to most dudes gawking at them would purposely try to get my attention, like staring at you hard af for long periods of time, bumping into you and acting like it was an accident or some sh.

At my school you can take out text books for two hours, and this really bad chick worked behind the counter when I would be in the library studying. Every time I took a book out I would just keep it casual. I was already seeing some other chick, I thought she was bad but I was like whatever I don't care. Me ignoring her and not trying to spit game or whatever made her want me. But a while after the chick I was seeing was acting funny I started to show this chick interest, then she would just ignore me and purposely try to avoid me like I'm some annoying pest when all I did was look and not say sh to her.

Surprisingly she's in one of my classes this semester and I went back to ignoring her, and now she's looking at me again. These girls out here really don't see any value in themselves outside of their appearance. When this chick wasn't all done up, you can tell she didn't feel as confident in herself compared to when her hair was done and she had on a cute outfit.
One thing I've learned in life is that even when women aren't interested in you they're still interested in your attention


The minute that the attention stops all hell breaks loose. Women will actually start doing things like "faking interest " in you or anything possible to bait you into talking to them
 
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I think you touch on something. Both genders go through the what's wrong with me thing. But could that be a positive? Maybe you start hitting the gym or reading more, learning more. Improve for you then when the next person comes around and you know you're at a good place you know the rejection isn't about you. But their own insecurities. Or you may not get rejected.
I do all those things that you suggested already and have always done them. I could be wrong but I think that the couple of times that I've been rejected was because I happen to be dark. I know people on here will hate that and say that I'm insecure. But it's what I feel.
 

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I do all those things that you suggested already and have always done them. I could be wrong but I think that the couple of times that I've been rejected was because I happen to be dark. I know people on here will hate that and say that I'm insecure. But it's what I feel.

I believe you. I got turned down a couple of times way back for the same reason. I didn't have to speculate though, they told me to my face :russ:

fukk them though. There were other women who liked my skin/complexion
 

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Be thankful for rejection and/or men who don't approach, Ladies. It is a very good thing in most instances where it occurs:

I met this guy the other day and chatted with him about his car; it was very, very nice. He wanted to get more acquainted, I did too so we exchanged numbers. That same day he sent sexually suggestive texts, a picture of his erect penis, & asked to come over. Damn...working overtime. When I responded with radio silence, he stated that he was only "teasing" and he "guess that wasn't a good idea." I confirmed that it wasn't. Thinking after that he got his head right, I reset my thoughts about him...but...next day he's at it again...asking to come over. This time I probe him a bit (lost all interest but just wanting confirmation of my assumption of his behavior) and he tells me he has a "live-in baby mama that is driving him crazy." :stopitslime:
Rejection would have been welcomed with :blessed:all day and twice on Sunday from a dude like this. :yes:
 

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One thing I've learned in life is that even when women aren't interested in you they're still interested in your attention


The minute that the attention stops all hell breaks loose. Women will actually start doing things like "faking interest " in you or anything possible to bait you into talking to them
This sounds like an illness.
 
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