You Are Pregnant And The Bro Asks For DNA Tests

[Wild self]

You think I'm about to keep getting subjected to humiliation by own husband? Naw. Our first child would be our last child together so he'd never have to worry about whether he is raising children that aren't his own.

And if the DNA test come out that the baby ain't the husband? What he should do then?

 

[SouthernBelle]

And if the DNA test come out that the baby ain't the husband? What he should do then?

That wouldn't NEVER happen with me because I have never cheated on anyone nor have I ever been in a sexual relationship with more than one man at a time. That's why it would be so insulting.

I don't even engage in causal sex when I'm single/I'm abstinent when I'm not in a committed relationship. You don't get the benefits of having a wife and treat me like a whore. I'm going to treat your ass like a common negro and you go back to boyfriend/condom status for life.

 

[Karume]

Considering that I know myself and I'm not a cheater, it'd give me reason to question him and let him know that I need std test, marriage counseling and condom use before I trust having sex with him again.

If you don't want those problems then do the test behind my back.

I am not questioning your or any woman's integrity. What I am suggesting is that there may be things that a woman does that triggers insecurity in a man, thus leading to a DNA test request.

 

[Wild self]

That wouldn't NEVER happen with me because I have never cheated on anyone nor have I ever been in a sexual relationship with more than one man at a time. That's why it would be so insulting.

I don't even engage in causal sex when I'm single/I'm abstinent when I'm not in a committed relationship. You don't get the benefits of having a wife and treat me like a whore. I'm going to treat your ass like a common negro and you go back to boyfriend/condom status for life.

For life? You that bitter?

 

[blackdahlia]

I am not questioning your or any woman's integrity. What I am suggesting is that there may be things that a woman does that triggers insecurity in a man, thus leading to a DNA test request.

Out of genuine curiosity, like what?

I think we look at it from different angles. B.c to me, if you say there is something that I'm doing that causes you to question, that is you questioning my integrity.

 

[theflyest]

It's business, it isn't personal. This is why I educate any woman that I'm dealing with that there is a business aspect to a relationship.

 

[Karume]

Out of genuine curiosity, like what?

I think we look at it from different angles. B.c to me, if you say there is something that I'm doing that causes you to question, that is you questioning my integrity.

hmm, let me put it this way. if a woman were involved with a man who didn't always let them know where he was or what he was doing, would she have cause for insecurity?

 

[Desirous]

Id submit 4 testing....iknow my history of scandal. But id have the last laugh cuz paternity tests cost a grip to find out ur child is indeed ur child.

Doesn't cost as much as paying to raise a child for 18+ years that isn't yours though.

 

[SouthernBelle]

For life? You that bitter?

It hasn't happen to me so I'm not bitter, but yes, I would never again risk having a child or getting an STD from him (since as you all say, you never know what your partner is doing/you can't take their word).

I thought point of marriage was the have a certain level of trust with someone. Once I know we don't have that level of trust then I wouldn't trust him just like he doesn't trust me nor would I want anymore children since our marriage is likely to fail anyway (he'll be the bitter once he realizes he also no longer gets some of the benefits of marriage).

That's just me though...not every woman will be the same.

 

[SouthernBelle]

hmm, let me put it this way. if a woman were involved with a man who didn't always let them know where he was or what he was doing, would she have cause for insecurity?

No she wouldn't. He shouldn't have to report his every move just to get some trust. I personally don't have time to monitor every more an adult makes.

 

[SouthernBelle]

I am not questioning your or any woman's integrity. What I am suggesting is that there may be things that a woman does that triggers insecurity in a man, thus leading to a DNA test request.

Well asking for that would trigger my insecurity that you are a lying cheating negro who is feeling guilty and putting it back on me (this does happen) so you would from now on be treated like a lying cheating negro...but you'd get your test.

 

[Karume]

Well asking for that would trigger my insecurity that you are a lying cheating negro who is feeling guilty and putting it back on me (this does happen) so you would from now on be treated like a lying cheating negro...but you'd get your test.

if this level of aggression is how you respond to things consistently, would it not be wise to consider how a person would respond to that?

 

[Wild self]

It hasn't happen to me so I'm not bitter, but yes, I would never again risk having a child or getting an STD from him (since as you all say, you never know what your partner is doing/you can't take their word).

I thought point of marriage was the have a certain level of trust with someone. Once I know we don't have that level of trust then I wouldn't trust him just like he doesn't trust me nor would I want anymore children since our marriage is likely to fail anyway (he'll be the bitter once he realizes he also no longer gets some of the benefits of marriage).

That's just me though...not every woman will be the same.

Well, the woman got to share that burden with a man. Can't let the man get all the blame.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

Doesn't cost as much as paying to raise a child for 18+ years that isn't yours though.

u shouldnt be going raw with untrustworthy brawds in the 1st place tho, id taKE the child over an uncurable disease ne day

 

[SouthernBelle]

if this level of aggression is how you respond to things consistently, would it not be wise to consider how a person would respond to that?

Aggression? Me asking for an std test and life long condom use in a trustless relationship is aggression? Okay sir. At that point I wouldn't give a damn. He doesn't want to risk raising a child that isn't his and I don't want to risk catching an incurable disease (since we really never know what our partners are doing behind our backs).