You CAN Stop A Ho From Being A Ho!!!!

[A Woman's Opinion]

nikkas, it's simple. Can't turn a hoe into a housewife, hoes don't act right.

Congrats on the wedding[/QUOTE]
















Thanks.

It's was at the beginning of this month.

I would post pictures, but... Yeah.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

wow. this is too real. but i will say, no shot at you or anything, but maybe the reason u never cheated on a man is because u didn't have good enough options to cheat with? or you werent pretty enough to have men throwing themselves at you? or u had a man with money and u knew not to act stupid.

women can always get a guy with looks, but getting a guy with real money who actually likes u back, now, that's not as easy.

there are some women who think they can break up with thieir current guy to go fucck someone else and in their minds, they think, "well, i didn't cheat on him. i broke up with him first". lol. thats still cheating. u shouldn't have put urself in a position to have a backup plan .u could be one of those women claiming "bbuuut i didnt cheat". lol

nevertheless, i do respect the qualities u mentioned. that are 100% accurate.

Not True. For the most part.


Early in life, I struggled with my weight. However, I always had a boyfriend. I always had guys who wanted to date me, or at the very least. Sleep with me.

I lost a lot of weight in 2010, and my options did TRIPLE. But it didn't change me! If anything, it made me more stubborn about dating. Cause I was bitter. I remember when certain kind of guts ignored me before, then wanted to date me when my appearance changed. I was offended. Not flattered.


A couple of things stopped me from being one of "those girls"...


I was deeply afraid of being LABLED a HOE. I have a brother who is very close in age. We were close. I didn't want him to hear things about me. So, I didn't date. When I did have a boyfriend, he was from another hood. Across town.




I am extremely reclusive. I'm kinda shy. I don't like to be around too many people. I have had the same friends since 6th grade.

When I would go out, it would be to a small local hood bar. Where I know everybody.



I would never say it was a lack of options, and opportunities. It just ain't me.


Besides, I know fat ugly bishes who cheat. And PHUCK everybody.

Looks mean nothing...

 

[SheWantTheD]

Who wants to go through all that unnecessary drama, stress, energy wasted etc?

Just charge her to the game or relegate her to jumpoff status

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

nikkas putting rotten meat in Saran wraps thinking it's gone be fresh tomorrow

 

[SheWantTheD]

I'm going to this nice Ethiopian restaurant with a friend off Miracle Mile today.

What that gotta do with this thread?

 

[Diondon]

If the bytch is yours but she a ho

stopped reading here

 

[SheWantTheD]

Nah Bruh. I'm a woman, and let me tell you...



IF SHE GOING. SHE GOING!



Now, the "hoe" may stop for a lil while.

She may fall in love, and calm down some, but hoes" rarely change.





Even the "hoes" that do change...

It's a 95% chance they will relapse.



These women simply require more attention and male affection to feel fulfilled. It's a lot of them.

Men have a hard time understanding this, because they believe that ALL women are designed to be virtuous. Or should be.


NOT TRUE.


Just like some men can't be with one woman.
Some women can't be with one man.


And the women who are like this are rarely going to admit this to you, because they can't even admit it to themselves.


WOMEN HAVE BEEN TRAINED TO LIE ABOUT THIS, OUT OF FEAR OF BEING LABLED.


Just pay attention to the signs...


-Does she always hop from relationship to relationship?
(She can't be alone. Needs a lot of attention)

-Is she SELFISH and self absorbed?
(This is a BIG one. Her desires will always be more important than doing right by others)

- Is she the type who's never satisfied? Always looking for something, MORE.

(You won't be enough either at some points. She will look for "more". Even if she stays with you)






These are just some main focus points, but y'all get my drift. I know a lot of women. All types, from various walks of life. NONE OF THEM ARE 100% FAITHFUL


I am the only girl I know who has never cheated on a man before.

I just got married recently, and I'm happy.

You broke it down sista! WHOOO and a sista dropping game for us brothers too!

That part you bolded though

 

[SheWantTheD]

Not True. For the most part.


Early in life, I struggled with my weight. However, I always had a boyfriend. I always had guys who wanted to date me, or at the very least. Sleep with me.

I lost a lot of weight in 2010, and my options did TRIPLE. But it didn't change me! If anything, it made me more stubborn about dating. Cause I was bitter. I remember when certain kind of guts ignored me before, then wanted to date me when my appearance changed. I was offended. Not flattered.


A couple of things stopped me from being one of "those girls"...


I was deeply afraid of being LABLED a HOE. I have a brother who is very close in age. We were close. I didn't want him to hear things about me. So, I didn't date. When I did have a boyfriend, he was from another hood. Across town.




I am extremely reclusive. I'm kinda shy. I don't like to be around too many people. I have had the same friends since 6th grade.

When I would go out, it would be to a small local hood bar. Where I know everybody.



I would never say it was a lack of options, and opportunities. It just ain't me.


Besides, I know fat ugly bishes who cheat. And PHUCK everybody.

Looks mean nothing...

What do you mean by 100% faithful? Would you consider a woman flirting with other men and using them for attention to boost her ego as not being 100% unfaithful? Why do you think women yearn so much for male attention and affection? I truly don't understand it, a lot of women out here are thirsty as hell for attention it's scary.

The amount of women that will get naked and sexually pleasure themselves on camera for hundreds of strangers for attention and validation is scary. Ranging from little girls to old ladies

Oh and since you always had a boyfriend does that mean you jumped from relationship to relationship? Oh and just because a woman doesn't jump from bf to bf, doesn't mean she doesn't have fukk buddies in between. How can I go about spotting chicks like this?

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

You broke it down sista! WHOOO and a sista dropping game for us brothers too!

That part you bolded though

Yup. But don't think that a woman doesn't love you, because she cheated.

I know women who have cheated on their men, but would die for him.

I know a girl who cheated on her man, but went broke and put herself into debt bailing him out of jail.

I know a woman who cheated on her man, but would sacrifice anything, even all her friends for him.

And ya not just "broke dudes" getting cheated on.

It's not as black & white as men think with women.

 

[MWinn]

Nah Bruh. I'm a woman, and let me tell you...

Until after that first comma, I was reading your posts in a deep male voice. Just threw me off
Aside from that, it's true. A hoe can change over time, basically a woman can mature. Some don't.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

[QUOTE="SheWantTheD, post: 19574104, member: 26867"]

What do you mean by 100% faithful? Would you consider a woman flirting with other men and using them for attention to boost her ego as not being 100% unfaithful? Why do you think women yearn so much for male attention and affection? I truly don't understand it, a lot of women out here are thirsty as hell for attention it's scary.

The amount of women that will get naked and sexually pleasure themselves on camera for hundreds of strangers for attention and validation is scary. Ranging from little girls to old ladies

Oh and since you always had a boyfriend does that mean you jumped from relationship to relationship? Oh and just because a woman doesn't jump from bf to bf, doesn't mean she doesn't have fukk buddies in between. How can I go about spotting chicks like this? [/QUOTE]





I consider cheating having feelings for, or an emotional, possibly physical attraction to another man.


With a lot of women, it's an EX or baby father they can't let go of. Or some guy who always treated her like a "drive by", or basically ignored her SHES longing for.


It's some guy she WOULD be with, but HE chose someone else, or is unavailable. (For whatever reason, and she's settling for who she's with)



As for me...

I worded that wrong. I have been single a lot too, but I have had long term relationships. It's weird, but I've always had the same men in my life. (But not always romantically.

I'm 28 years old. My first BF was in HS. We were together for over 5 years.

My first love/lover was my brothers friend. We grew up together. We were never a couple, but had a sexual sorta friendship. That ended when I went to high school. (9th grade) but he's still like family to me. He was at my wedding.

I met my HS boyfriend in 11th grade. We stayed together until I was in my mid-early 20s. He's married now too, and was at my wedding.


I dated other guys here and there. Prior to meeting my husband, there was another guy in my life. But aside from them. That's it.

And I had other offers. It's just not me.


I'm married to a man I have been with for a couple of years. He's 40. I'm about to be 29.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Until after that first comma, I was reading your posts in a deep male voice. Just threw me off
Aside from that, it's true. A hoe can change over time, basically a woman can mature. Some don't.

ANYONE can change...


But how often do people REALLY change?

 

[Super Future Luther King Jr.]

Half these can land your ass in prison.

The first two things he listed was fear and intimidation

 

[SheWantTheD]

Yup. But don't think that a woman doesn't love you, because she cheated.

I know women who have cheated on their men, but would die for him.

I know a girl who cheated on her man, but went broke and put herself into debt bailing him out of jail.

I know a woman who cheated on her man, but would sacrifice anything, even all her friends for him.

And ya not just "broke dudes" getting cheated on.

It's not as black & white as men think with women.

Yeah I definitely understand that. Some do it because they think the grass is greener on the other side or maybe for revenge or vengeance even though they still love the person. Or there's something about new dikk or p*ssy who knows.

In my opinion though love is just not an emotion. Even if these women would break their backs for their partners, they still cheated and that in itself is not an act of love. Cheating is a deal breaker for me. I wouldn't be able to trust her and I don't want to be a woman who I no longer trust. I don't care if we have children either or have been married for years. I'm a very loyal man and I would never cheat on my partner. Not cheating is easy. There's a build up to it most of the time unless they go out of their way to cheat.

 

[MWinn]

ANYONE can change...


But how often do people REALLY change?

Depends, if the hoe-ism was during late teen/early 20's then change can happen. After 21, nothing is probably changing. Still a few who do.