You Cannot Succeed Without Love & Emotional Support!!!

[Dont@Me]

I'm tired of family calling me incessantly when I'm miserable and trying to figure out my life goals and make a plan. I'm not okay, and they know I'm not okay, but talking to them about it just doesn't help me at all and makes me worse sometimes. I know they love me, but why the fukk do I end up more miserable especially after talking to my mom? Ain't nothin she can tell me that will help. She just gives me moist ass female advice and I get irritated and I can't tell her everything I go through anyway. I love her, but She is far from a therapist.

I hate talking to my family when I'm like this because I just have to get through what I need to get through and then come back to them when I'm done. I've never been the type of dude to reach out for support like that and they never understand that and keep blowing up my phone and annoying me and I don't answer because I don't even want them to hear how miserable I am or go over what I'm going through which will only resurface those emotions tenfold for me. They offer me money which I could use, but I'd rather build my career for long term wealth, not temporary help for family which will cause me to be complacent with my goals.

I just get back into old habits and avoid everyone. It's a recurring theme in my life.

Damn a nikka just vented

 

[Super TD Jakes]

this was about the importance of love and emotional support right¿
i said that you should be the source on which you rely for both
and clearly you are showing that without mental health and perspective it doesn't matter if you are rich or not

you are mentally shackled money would only be a noose to you a tool of self torture

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Name me a person that is a success and did not receive love and emotional support from others???

 

[Super TD Jakes]

I'm tired of family calling me incessantly when I'm miserable and trying to figure out my life goals and make a plan. I'm not okay, and they know I'm not okay, but talking to them about it just doesn't help me at all and makes me worse sometimes. I know they love me, but why the fukk do I end up more miserable especially after talking to my mom? Ain't nothin she can tell me that will help. She just gives me moist ass female advice and I get irritated and I can't tell her everything I go through anyway. I love her, but She is far from a therapist.

I hate talking to my family when I'm like this because I just have to get through what I need to get through and then come back to them when I'm done. I've never been the type of dude to reach out for support like that and they never understand that and keep blowing up my phone and annoying me and I don't answer because I don't even want them to hear how miserable I am or go over what I'm going through which will only resurface those emotions tenfold for me. They offer me money which I could use, but I'd rather build my career for long term wealth, not temporary help for family which will cause me to be complacent with my goals.

I just get back into old habits and avoid everyone. It's a recurring theme in my life.

Damn a nikka just vented

I go thru the same thing with my mom bro!!! Let your emotions out and talk to someone even if it's just in this thread like you just did!!! Psycholigical air is real and you just came up for some!

 

[010101]

Name me a person that is a success and did not receive love and emotional support from others???

name me an individual that is a success that was dependent mentally/emotionally on outside sources¿

we see things differently that's fine find what is for you

we can cut it here

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[Super TD Jakes]

name me an individual that is a success that was dependent mentally/emotionally on outside sources¿

we see things differently that's fine find what is for you

we can cut it here

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How about you show me your success since you know so much???

Oh???

Now we can cut it here!

 

[Mr. Negative]

it's all 0's & 1's either or never both at once
believe what you will
i know what i know

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I wanna be mad, but I know it to be true

 

[Super TD Jakes]

A lot of "successful" "well off" brehs postin' in this thread with advice on how to be successful

 

[Mr. Negative]

How about you show me your success since you know so much???

Oh???

Now we can cut it here!

No, he's right.

There comes a point where we stop chasing what's good for us and we start only chasing the support of others.

It's not an easy truth to swallow.



Contrast with the people we see that have the support of others, but will readily tell you that they made it fully of their own merit.


It's a trap. Neither person in the above scenarioes takes accountability.

Us "Have Nots" will wish we were in group B and blame our lack of support (others) on our shortcomings.


In reality, we choose people who don't support us, then get mad when they don't.

 

[Mr. Negative]

And that's not only relationships and people we're fukking.


"but what about the homeless? THEY have no support!"

that's something else entirely. Ask homeless people how they got there. lot of them will tell you it's cause they gave their all to other people.

 

[Super TD Jakes]

No, he's right.

There comes a point where we stop chasing what's good for us and we start only chasing the support of others.

It's not an easy truth to swallow.



Contrast with the people we see that have the support of others, but will readily tell you that they made it fully of their own merit.


It's a trap. Neither person in the above scenarioes takes accountability.

Us "Have Nots" will wish we were in group B and blame our lack of support (others) on our shortcomings.


In reality, we choose people who don't support us, then get mad when they don't.

You're him, so stop replying to yourself

 

[Super TD Jakes]

A lot of "successful" "well off" brehs postin' in this thread with advice on how to be successful

 

[Mr. Negative]

You're him, so stop replying to yourself

I'm who?

 

[010101]

because i am already everything i could hope to find in another
i draw more of the same into my life

because you seek what you can't provide yourself in others
you chase love and support out your life

@Mike Vice Vain peace be with you bro
don't @ me
let's leave it here cool¿

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