"You can't be pro black if you have a white spouse"-Tommy Sotomayor

[DaChampIsHere]

Yes your confused u failed to realize I was talking about something completely different because u only read 3 or 4 words in a sentence. That not only makes u confused. But it also makes u a complete d1ckhead

When people ask a question, the next response is an answer. That's how basic communication works. Like I said, you conviently switch things up which is why you're deleting whole parts of your posts when you finally realize that youre wrong and don't make sense.

They could be pro-mixed but instead forego their community and racial make up to tend to black people. That's not denial/self-hate?

 

[Lavish]

When people ask a question, the next response is an answer. That's how basic communication works. Like I said, you conviently switch things up which is why you're deleting whole parts of your posts when you finally realize that youre wrong and don't make sense.

Ur the one quoting portions of my post and yet I'm the one deleting it?

And basic communication is more like this: you first need to listen or in this case read a whole post to get a full understanding of it. Otherwise you can Go off on a completely other topic and end up looking like a d1ckhead


Which is what u did

You seriously only read 5 words of a sentence?

This is straight comedy right now

 

[Lavish]

This dude really went to my post, took out 5 words, highlighted and cut it into his post and didn't even Bother looking at the words after it? And had the audacity to post it as some sort of defense????

 

[Lavish]

They could be pro-mixed but instead forego their community and racial make up to tend to black people. That's not denial/self-hate?

It's denial. But denial doesn't mean self hate

You can choose sides and have no hate towards your other side fam

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

This can't be reality

nikkas who was out there fighting for racial equality in the 1800s aren't pro-black but, HelgaPataki from TheColi.com is? Yall do know Martin & Malcolm had a love of white flesh too?

bytch need to take her ass back to lipstickalley

 

[emoney]

Curious as to how many people listened to the clip in the OP. Why isn't anyone commenting on the fact that he views people who have taken up with a non-black spouse as people who have left the black community?

when u marry outside the race, you have in fact left the race

I used the word race instead of community, because there is no "black community"

 

[emoney]

See... what did I say in the other thread? This whole "anyone with black in them is still black" mentality ultimately means you think the black woman's womb is useless. Every man in every other group knows in order to have babies that are the same as them they need a woman that is the same as you. This is what happens when you decide to embrace this open door club where everyone is invited.

BE CONSISTENT!

c/s

a lot of our people have a problem with logic and consistency. This is why it's very difficult to implement solutions because we can't even agree on what the actual problems are.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

typical black man thinking all the worlds problems can be solved with his penis and out of wedlock kids

at you passing out judgement

 

[emoney]

why would i accept someone with 50% white blood as one of my own? you notice blacks are the only ones stupid enough to perpetuate this belief? you dudes are going to obliviously breed yourselves out of existence with this non-sense.

exactly!

there are access to resources, benefits, perks, privileges that come with membership to their race or ethnic group

with black people, NOPE!

we have no real power

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Or someone claiming to be pro-Christianity and being married to an Athiest.

this happens all the time.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Ur the one quoting portions of my post and yet I'm the one deleting it?

I read your post, by the time I quoted it, you decided to delete it. You're mad now posting up a storm.

This dude really went to my post, took out 5 words, highlighted and cut it into his post and didn't even Bother looking at the words after it? And had the audacity to post it as some sort of defense????

I read the whole post. But you answered the question with that response.

And even so, now you are trying to state that fighting for the rights of another race while disregarding your own race is NOT self-hate? You've gotten yourself into a logical mix-up.

It's denial. But denial doesn't mean self hate
You can choose sides and have no hate towards your other side fam

But you said in another thread that someone denying themselves was them not being proud of themselves nor respecting their heritage. We now have people who fight on behalf of other races and forego their own and you're somehow trying to insinuate it's a good thing that they forego their real race, but earlier, gave it negative connotations?

if your half your half.
be proud of who are and be respectful of both your parents.

Like I said, very convenient. Apparently many civil rights activists aren't proud of who they are they aren't respecting their parents.

 

[Lavish]

I read your post, by the time I quoted it, you decided to delete it. You're mad now posting up a storm.



I read the whole post. But you answered the question with that response.

And even so, now you are trying to state that fighting for the rights of another race while disregarding your own race is NOT self-hate? You've gotten yourself into a logical mix-up.


But you said in another thread that someone denying themselves was them not being proud of themselves nor respecting their heritage. We now have people who fight on behalf of other races and forego their own and you're somehow trying to insinuate it's a good thing that they forego their real race, but earlier, gave it negative connotations?



Like I said, very convenient. Apparently many civil rights activists aren't proud of who they are they aren't respecting their parents.

1. I didn't delete anything in that post. You jus feel stupid for not reading it through

2. Also I Never said choosing sides was good OR bad.

You keep trying to make me say somethingi didn't say.

All I said is it's not self hate. Of u wanna choose a side and be pro that side. iTS NOT self hate in my opinion. It's jus choosing sides. I personally think u should stay true to both sides. But if u choose a side it doesn't necessarily mean u hate ur other side. There are people who do hate their other side. And yes they are self hating. And there's people who choose a side and aren't self hating. U for example don't seem to hate that ur 1/4 CaaC. You jus identify with black more. Are u self hating?

Not being self hate, or whether choosing sides is good or bad, is two completely different things

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Ok LAvish. We get it. Fighting for another race while foregoing the concerns of your own is not the slightest thing near self-hate. I understand that you are backtracking as to not ignorantly step on the toes of the people who allowed your African ass to even be where you are. They chose their black side, but I can catch in another thread saying that choosing sides is wrong and that they should say mixed, not black, and that mixed people claiming black is them denying their heritage.

I'm sure I will catch you in some thread calling someone a c00n for sticking up for another race and being pro-white/asian/etc. (which I have before, ie. some Nigerian thread) But this is action of downplaying your own race for other races is cool when it's convenient for you right? You don't even have to answer that.

 

[Grifter]

What if I treat my white wife like shyt?

 

[Lavish]

Ok LAvish. We get it. Fighting for another race while foregoing the concerns of your own is not the slightest thing near self-hate. I understand that you are backtracking as to not ignorantly step on the toes of the people who allowed your African ass to even be where you are. They chose their black side, but I can catch in another thread saying that choosing sides is wrong and that they should say mixed, not black, and that mixed people claiming black is them denying their heritage.

I'm sure I will catch you in some thread calling someone a c00n for sticking up for another race and being pro-white/asian/etc. (which I have before, ie. some Nigerian thread) But this is action of downplaying your own race for other races is cool when it's convenient for you right? You don't even have to answer that.

maybe you should look up the defination of self hate. that should help you comprehend a little better.

when you learn the definition of self hate. you'll realize that you made a d1ckhead of yourself once again.