you ever feel like you've been slept on?

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Often, I feel people always underestimate me. Creativity, ability, my dreams, standing up for myself whatever. I don't know if its cause I look young or talk softly most of the time. When people don't really know me it seems like automatic doubt for whatever reason. It is worse when people think they know you.

Its always that tone of surprise like "Oh, you did that?"
 
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Often, I feel people always underestimate me. Creativity, ability, my dreams, standing up for myself whatever. I don't know if its cause I look young or talk softly most of the time. When people don't really know me it seems like automatic doubt for whatever reason. It is worse when people think they know you.

Its always that tone of surprise like "Oh, you did that?"

I feel that. People underestimate me too...or think that I'm not capable of certain things simply because of...I don't know.

I've felt like I've had to work twice as hard to be considered half as good as other people.
 

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Naw not really, just beat out 20+ with more experience than me for a job at an airline, just picked up einsteins theory of relativity and I understand it when I read with patience, people say I'm smart, and to round things off I come on here and troll/shyt on nikkas.

I feel like I wish people would sleep on me so I'd know how it feels to be one of these people that I smh @ in real life.
 

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I feel that. People underestimate me too...or think that I'm not capable of certain things simply because of...I don't know.

I've felt like I've had to work twice as hard to be considered half as good as other people.

I don't know either smh. I just love to prove them wrong by just doing me. I stopped caring about who thought what about me. It is freeing to not worry about other people. I just have to meet my own standards which are sometimes harsher than theirs ever were.
 
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I don't know either smh. I just love to prove them wrong by just doing me. I stopped caring about who thought what about me. It is freeing to not worry about other people. I just have to meet my own standards which are sometimes harsher than theirs ever were.

In regards to the bolded...yes.

I feel I've just have had no choice but to prove naysayers wrong all my life. Like, I've always had to prove myself to other people. It got tiring, but it made me who I am and made me value hard work and determination.
 

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Btw although everything I said is true in my last post, I probably should have came off in a different way.

Tbh funeral bro, you can't make people recognize greatness, you honestly have to live life and those who catch on, catch on.

Does that make sense?
 

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I guess I have issues at times. Being somewhat Mexican, I've had some shyt thrown at me.

"You look like a strong worker."
"I think you would be good at landscaping." :stopitslime:

Now I will say off the bat that I am far from the smartest person you will ever know, and that I probably will never be uber rich. Being said though I am dedicated at trying to achieve more than my parents. My dad used to be illegal, and he did cross over the border back in the 80's to try and achieve the dream.

What did that get him, dishwasher duties and 3rd shift jobs because there was no 'room' for 1st shifts. :stopitslime:

There are just times where I swear I am perceived as something, and somebody who is destined to fail. Still though I am at the point in my life where I just don't give a shyt what people think of me. Just because in a sense while my life isn't perfect I am having slow strides in becoming something better. There is some shyt I wish would happen in my life, but I got to go what is dealt so far. :yeshrug:
 

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If you are black, you will always get slept on because whites make an instant pre-judgment on you based solely on your skin color...

c/s.. my boss ask me did i have a high school diploma :what: i was like i have a college degree as well.. not all black men are 8th grade dropouts
 
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If you are black, you will always get slept on because whites make an instant pre-judgment on you based solely on your skin color...

True sooo true. Especially coming up as a first gen African/West Indian in Pittsburgh. But I' ve been slept on by black folks too whoadie.

Coming up as a house/electronica DJ/Producer...and hell, even when I was younger in high school... I've had many other black people that approached me about the music I liked, why I skated, why I did this why I did that..

"you skate?"
"you like techno?"
"why you messing with that white boy shyt?"

Because I didn't play basketball, skated, wore skate clothes, I felt like a leper to black folks. Thank god I'm older now and things have slightly changed.
 
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Btw although everything I said is true in my last post, I probably should have came off in a different way.

Tbh funeral bro, you can't make people recognize greatness, you honestly have to live life and those who catch on, catch on.

Does that make sense?

Yeah...

At the end of the day, we all gotta do us. Cause that's all we can do.
 
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