You ever start to panic while in a dry spell?

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Breh. ... one thing you need to learn in life is how to be humble and to not be so prideful. Don't ask for advice and then deflect because you'll miss out on wisdom.

I've never subscribed to any PUA or dating gurus nonsense. Everything I've learned and honed has been through trial and error, so I'd like to believe I know what I'm talking about.

If you notice only one of the posts focused specifically on getting money and power. The rest focused on bettering yourself. You automatically listed your degree and the money you're making as an affirmation that you're bettering yourself but that's only service level improvement.

It goes beyond what's in your bank account when it comes to self improvement. You're coming across as desperate and women can smell that off men a mile away.

Now if you want some solid advice then I'm more than happy to indulge you. If not then god speed.

Again, more misassumptions. In terms on being in my purpose, bettering myself would be earning a life more reflective of what I want. That is also personal development. But if you want to talk personal development outside of jobs and money, how many books have you read this year on personal development? I've read a few. Are you active in mental health development? I've stayed up on my mental health by working on exercises and personal development while in therapy. Have you? I'd have to actually be getting rejected to be coming off as desperate,, and that's not the case or why I'm in a dry spell. You see how stupid ass assumptions renders your opinions moot? I wasnt asking for advice on getting p*ssy. I was asking if anyone ever experienced what I have, and so far the answer has been yes. Humble myself? Some people talk just to talk and you're one of them, homie.
Are you thinking about sex the moment you wake up?
like before any responsibilities you might have?
are you watching porn daily?

I have a high libido, put it that way. It may actually be an addiction...I'll need to really think about that.
I wasn’t saying it like “you ain’t on your purpose, that’s why you’re in a drought.”

I was saying it like when you’re handling your business, it’s very easy to go months without sex because you’re prioritizing other things over getting p*ssy.

That doesn’t necessarily mean you’re in a dry spell. I’d only start to be worried after 6 months.

I’ve been working hard these last few months, so I haven’t really had time to pursue anything. I was just saying that sounds like the case with you too.
You're right though, I was trying to keep busy with switching jobs and trying to move. It was all self imposed. I guess I need to keep that in perspective and look at this situation differently. Thanks.
 
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Ever been in a couple months long dry spell and start to panic when you cant find a way out? Like your dating life is barren as hell and then your go to booty calls that have held you down for ages have disappeared? If so, how did you make your way out?

I've been in a dry spell since September when it comes to new p*ssy, and have been in a dry spell overall since October when my regular booty call for years just up and disappeared. I actually made the choice to quit going out to the same places for one night stands, and still havent really gone out honestly. That's when it started. So then I turned to online dating just to find a way to get a nut and I got so turned off by that shyt that I deleted my shyt. Had stopped online dating for all of 2019 just about, since I was getting laid regularly from randomly meeting women while out at the bar/club scene.

Anyways I'm a few months in on a dry spell and man that shyt sometimes makes me feel panicky as helll lol. Of course its delusional to believe that that shyt will last forever, but a nikkas mind plays games sometimes :francis:

Breh

Women not that damn important

Get a hobby
 
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