"You find him Attractive..but his NICENESS...BORES YOU"- Female Spoken Word artist

[Gold]

I had this convo with my girl's sister yesterday actually.
We were coming back from a Nigerian event, and she was asking us questions about our relationship. She wanted to know if my girl gets jealous if other girls try to talk to me (cuz it happened at the event).

She says "No because he's rude to other girls, but nice to me. That makes it easier to trust him"





Brehettes is this one of the reason why you like guys who aren't overly nice to everyone? Does it have anything to do with trust?

I'm only asking cuz this is the first time i've heard this

 

[The Mad Titan]

I had this convo with my girl's sister yesterday actually.
We were coming back from a Nigerian event, and she was asking us questions about our relationship. She wanted to know if my girl gets jealous if other girls try to talk to me (cuz it happened at the event).

She says "No because he's rude to other girls, but nice to me. That makes it easier to trust him"





Brehettes is this one of the reason why you like guys who aren't overly nice to everyone? Does it have anything to do with trust?

I'm only asking cuz this is the first time i've heard this

If you are every nice to another girl in her eye's

 

[VFib]

I had this convo with my girl's sister yesterday actually.
We were coming back from a Nigerian event, and she was asking us questions about our relationship. She wanted to know if my girl gets jealous if other girls try to talk to me (cuz it happened at the event).

She says "No because he's rude to other girls, but nice to me. That makes it easier to trust him"





Brehettes is this one of the reason why you like guys who aren't overly nice to everyone? Does it have anything to do with trust?

I'm only asking cuz this is the first time i've heard this

What did she mean by you being rude to them? Meaning you brushed off their advances? Blatantly ignored them when they spoke to you?

 

[Gold]

What did she mean by you being rude to them? Meaning you brushed off their advances? Blatantly ignored them when they spoke to you?

Both, I can give 3 examples just this week past week.

1. Working out together at the gym, she was on the treadmill and I was.... as far away from a treadmill as a can get . One girl came up to me and started asking me questions and I was just like.. "they have trainers here, you can ask them" and put on my headphones.

2. We went to a party Friday night and as soon as she went to take a seat, Throw Dat ass in a Circle came on and some random girl started throwing it on me. I just shook my head, backed away and went to her.

3. At the event we went to, some girl I knew came up to me and was like, "its been such a long time, are you going to introduce me". But I forgot her name, so I was pretended not to hear her


I'm just not friendly to women in public when I'm around my girl. It doesn't feel natural

 

[CN793]

You only said nice guys.

What about the a$$holes? They can do whatever they want, huh?

Because this was about nice guys that's why I only mentioned them. A**holes don't get the time of day from me so I got nothing.

 

[Gold]

Brehettes, if your man is nice to other women around you, do you feel some typa way?

 

[-DMP-]

ok so, find another broad

 

[Larry Lambo]

Man, I hope these dudes complaining are in the 17-24 age range. Not that it matters, but once you hit 25 most chicks leave that stuff alone. The ones that are still on some dating unavailable guys flow, are disregarded.

It is tough for many guys at an early age, because women are at or near peak attractiveness, have a wide range of guys they can date, are realizing sexual freedom/open to casual sex. They are literally feasting on the opportunities they have and as a guy you have to get in where you fit in.

It gets better as you get older as long as you are social and continue to meet new people. It helps get get your finances and physique up, and learn how to effectively interact with women, But when it's all said and done, things get better as you get older.

 

[CN793]

Brehettes, if your man is nice to other women around you, do you feel some typa way?

Nope, that's some real insecure stuff right there.

 

[Ziggiy]

ath the end of the day, a woman's opinion on a man is meaningless. Men create kingdoms/empires everyday and 99% of women just hope they can marry into one.

 

[VFib]

Brehettes, if your man is nice to other women around you, do you feel some typa way?

Some or most I've dated were nice to other women. Most were very charming and women were drawn to them, especially one particular ex. He's held doors, offered seats to women standing, etc. I don't remember feeling any type of way. Other women's men have held the door for me and been nice/polite. I say thanks and keep it moving. Now, if she is flirting with him and he is entertaining it, that's another story.

 

[Gold]

Nope, that's some real insecure stuff right there.

 

[Gold]

Some or most I've dated were nice to other women. Most were very charming and women were drawn to them, especially one particular ex. He's held doors, offered seats to woman standing, etc. I don't remember feeling any type of way. Other women's men have held the door for me and been nice/polite. I say thanks and keep it moving. Now, if she is flirting with him and he is entertaining it, that's another story.

Yeah I do all of the bolded. And i'm very nice to her friends.

But if its a random girl coming up to me... I always ask myself "why am I having this conversation?"

 

[LEEeveryday]

Just be you....

Stop trying to be something else just to attract a female that probably isn't even compatible with you.

 

[VFib]

Yeah I do all of the bolded. And i'm very nice to her friends.

But if its a random girl coming up to me... I always ask myself "why am I having this conversation?"

If one of Coli ladies posted this, we'd be call every name in the book.
"That's why you're single."
"That's why I only date white women. Black women are soooooooooo mean."
"You should be happy anyone approached you at all. You'll be 30 with 5 kids and 10 babies daddies looking for a simp to save you."




But seriously, if I know that man is attached, I keep interactions short. I don't need his lady thinking I want them or anything.