You have to degrade a woman first before she will respact you

[jalamanta]

respact? assenshially, yes.

 

[Sam Peel]

 

[904]

This may work for some

Being a man works on all

 

[Ain't That Something]

Ya lil nikkas need mentors on this bytch!

 

[Nintendough]

A well experienced man knows when its time to flex and when its time to chill.

 

[Rominati]

Dont even waste ya energy being a a$$hole.

Just talk to multiple women at the same time. Everything will fall into place then.

 

[Strapped]

These dudes have Mommie issues, was yall mom a bussdown

 

[Mr swag]

you CANT make it seem like they are doing you a favor by hanging out with them

 

[cleanface coney]

Dont even waste ya energy being a a$$hole.

Just talk to multiple women at the same time. Everything will fall into place then.

yep i learned fukkin wit this website

these nikkas see every girl and they want a relationship lol

some hoes freaks, some nerds, some good, some sluts , some hoes

some bytches like gettin treated badly, some aint having that shyt

 

[Habit]

As long as you maintain your dominant status as alpha male, everything will fall in place

So true, these clowns don't get respect in all aspects of their life, but expect to have better luck with women. It doesn't work like that in the real world. Its usually beta males who do most of the complaining.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

real shyt.

a woman will stay with you cause you make her feel good and because she feels like there's no way at the moment she could feel better. so if you're trying to keep a girl, you're always walking that tightrope of making her feel good and at the same time making her feel like she wouldn't be shyt without you. but you will end up going crazy if you think that way.

that's why your mindframe should never be "I'm trying to keep that girl". Your mindframe should be instead "I'm trying to be happy. and if a woman is in my life, i'm either trying to get her to play her part in my happiness or i'm replacing her". the reason you go through the trouble of trying to get her to play her part is because you've already put in work and getting a new girl accustomed to your needs is long. so if you see it as fixable you work through it. but your got will tell you if she's too far gone and that's when you should cut your losses. all this depends on your patience and also on what she's willing to put up with.

she gets her happiness from feeling protected and guided because that means less responsibility for her. that's why she will always seek better than her. and once she finds it, she feels love cause it's a good situation for her. but she's always subconsciously looking for the next best thing. and she'll only stay with you if she perceives you as remaining the best option.



EDIT: the thread title is half true. if a chick percieves you as beneath her, the only three ways to get her are to either destroy her self-esteem, raise your value in her eyes or some sort of combination of the two. raising your value to her level in her eyes is the most effective way because you're focusing your energy on yourself instead of her. and if she has strong self-esteem, it might actually be more trouble breaking her down. PLUS building yourself up will actually help you in the longrun not only in pulling other chicks but also in other aspects of your life. meanwhile breaking her down won't help you out much personally.

I WAS ABOUT TO BOLD THAT LAST PART BUT IT'S ALREADY DONE. ONLY A nikka WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM HIMSELF FEELS HE NEED TO TEAR DOWN HIS WOMAN TO MAKE HIMSELF APPEAR SUPERIOR.

DON'T APPEAR TO BE WORTH A DAMN. BE WORTH A DAMN AND THEN FIND YOU A WOMAN THAT CAN SEE THAT. IT'S A HARDER ROAD BUT YOU'LL BE A BETTER MAN FOR TRAVELING IT.

 

[Turbulent]

I WAS ABOUT TO BOLD THAT LAST PART BUT IT'S ALREADY DONE. ONLY A nikka WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM HIMSELF FEELS HE NEED TO TEAR DOWN HIS WOMAN TO MAKE HIMSELF APPEAR SUPERIOR.

DON'T APPEAR TO BE WORTH A DAMN. BE WORTH A DAMN AND THEN FIND YOU A WOMAN THAT CAN SEE THAT. IT'S A HARDER ROAD BUT YOU'LL BE A BETTER MAN FOR TRAVELING IT.

exactly. the point is that a chick will only stay with you as long as she percieves you as better than her and that she can't do better. plenty of ways to achieve that cause it's all relative. but you'll be happier if you raise yourself than if you bring someone down (although it would also work).

but we focus too much on trying to keep chicks anyway.

 

[HookersandIceCream]

You can still be nice and have a female respect.You dont have to go all Ike Turner on her to keep her in line

Girls dont respect an a$$hole and take advantage of nice guys. Girls take advantage of pushovers, which everyone else does also.

Yall muthafukkas and your extremes.

 

[kevm3]

exactly. the point is that a chick will only stay with you as long as she percieves you as better than her and that she can't do better. plenty of ways to achieve that cause it's all relative. but you'll be happier if you raise yourself than if you bring someone down (although it would also work).

but we focus too much on trying to keep chicks anyway.

Yup, women always want a man they perceive as above them. And I agree that too many men worry about keeping a woman. She's the one that needs to be worrying about being kept.