You should always be better than any woman you deal with.

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Na, negatory! You should always get with a woman, you're not emotionally dependent on. Check your posture, keep ya head up and love yourself. Learn to embrace and have fun being alone. They'll either fall in line, make you miserable or leave but always be true to yourself. Don't bend for no one.




We literally saying the same thing breh :mjlol:




This is good advice for people that can actually understand the point of the message and aren't fukking retarded :unimpressed:

I don't think most women can handle being the prize in a relationship.



Nope. I truly believe once upon a time women existed that men could refer to as their "better half" and they could write them simp songs to her and love letters and she would actually :queen::wub:


Nowadays tho... something happened in the culture in the past 30 or 40 yrs... and I'm using that timeline cause my dad was single back in those days and this was how he got women

He tried to tell my bro to do some of that simp stuff one day and I didnt say nothing out of respect. But I had to pull my bro to the side later on and be like "Dad was never single in this savage era. Dont do it:whoa:"


Our culture flipped on its head, the women are heartless. Yall brehs better get with the times :youngsabo:






YOU EXPLAINED YOUR POINT POORLY. YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID "DON'T BE CONSTANTLY DEPENDENT ON YOUR WOMAN".

YOU JUST DON'T WANT TO BE IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU CAN'T FUNCTION WITHOUT THE CONSTANT AID OF ANOTHER PERSON.



I'll take that :ehh:
 
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Just give me one that will shut the fukk up and I will be cool :yeshrug:



If they ain't talking to you, they talking to somebody else :whoa:


I used to feel like that till I realized that women talk your ear off when they like you. If they dont like you, they ain't tryna say 2 words to you:heh:

Them being chatty patties is a necessary evil unfortunately :francis:
 

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If they ain't talking to you, they talking to somebody else :whoa:


I used to feel like that till I realized that women talk your ear off when they like you. If they dont like you, they ain't tryna say 2 words to you:heh:

Them being chatty patties is a necessary evil unfortunately :francis:




I can agree with your post breh ( I have no problem with them talking my ear off ), maybe I just attract combative temper tantrum damaged women :francis::snoop:
 

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I can agree with this. But are we really comparing mens and women's looks? :rudy:

Obviously that ain't what I was talking about.








She shouldn't be doing better in life than you. She shouldn't be more intelligent than you.

And she shouldn't have more sense than you.

You should be able to lead in every meaning and sense of the word.
if you aren't more intelligent than any woman out there then you're in trouble
 

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why not just date a woman on “your level”?
In what way? Intelligence? Finances? Pedigree? I ask bc this is where i think modern ppl, esp women, get some things wrong. You can be equals in some ways, but not others.

My man and i are equals in intelligence (tho he'd argue opposite bc I'm more of a generalist while he drills down on a few subjects), but he's better than me in some ways too. I legit look up to him in many ways, ie, he's morally better than me. :francis:

This maintains a good tone in the relationship, one of mutual respect and admiration.

Over the span of 20 yrs, we've gone through a few different relationship configurations. The results echo theories of evolutionary biology. When he put me on a pedestal, the end result was a lack of attraction (on MY part). Hewasnt acting like his normal self, i became increasingly bytchy and shrewish, it was a vicious cycle. We saw what was happening and tried the other way, me admiring him, and things normalized. In fact, they improved. I was even more attracted, he liked that feeling and decided to chase it with continual self improvement- a virtuous cycle where we're both striving to be good enough for the other.

Part of our purpose as humans is to use this dynamic towards a goal of continual mutual betterment. That's how you as a couple go on to raise good kids, help your community, etc. You push each other to become better, regardless of who started out 'better'.
 
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