it's really a world of folks tryna run from the fact they want more than they are naturally due for
damn...that’s some harsh truth
it's really a world of folks tryna run from the fact they want more than they are naturally due for
most these cats just was born from the wrong parents
ain't no way around that unhappiness
it's really a world of folks tryna run from the fact they want more than they are naturally due for
salute to you though for being positive
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that's lifedamn...that’s some harsh truth
man if you can finesse it go aheadBreh said their lineage doesnt even deserve to live on![]()
Honestly and i'm let you on something women love being with a man that they want to improve. If a women finds you to perfect as a man they lose interest. You have to be the perfect balance of knowing when to be sweet and know when to not put up with bullshyt and don't be afraid to call them out on there bullshyt. You can be the richest dude in the world treating your lady as best as possible and if your not challenging her she will find someone else to get that from.
Honestly this shyt is a no no. If a women feels like that I get rid of her. I'm not one of these "you make me a better man as nikkas" . I'm be a better mad with or without you . God comes first in a nikkas life next to my mental peace.
Respectfully the thread is about men being better than women in their relationships which your post directly spoke to. Idk how opening a door makes a man better to woman. My parents have been married for 30+ years and neither of my parents feel better than the other. Again, your experience is yours but I don't feel a man needs to look down on a woman to make relationships successful. Not only do i feel it but I see it every day. I'll use the successful model I see.I see you dapped this, black pearl. I don't disagree, it sort of is an illusion. Like, i could very easily open my own door, but the illusion is that he opens it to lighten my load or whatever. These illusions maintain a tone, one that is helpful in maintaining a long term relationship where you both care for each other even when it's not necessary.
Whoever disagrees, no disrespect, but i need to know how long your longest relationship was/ has been and how y'all work it out among yourselves.![]()
that's life
man if you can finesse it go ahead
but too many uggamugga nikkas want to eat like they are blessed
naturally there's a hierarchy to who gets puzzy
either you naturally pull & women are cooperative
or you gotta work & pay for it
i call it breeders & feeders
some men women value for babymaking other cats gotta work out some kind of financial agreement
i just eat where i am naturally catered to i ain't thinking too deep into it
make peace with the nature of life my brothers ha
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It’s a catch 22The only caveat I'll say is to be careful because you can end up realizing that you don't really need or even want a woman around at all.
So even if he makes less than you (within reason) as long as he provides some type of utility for you it’s okay. I respect the honestyI don’t know if I would use the term “better”, but me and all of my girls want someone who can “enhance” us. I have to be with someone who enhances many parts of my life. Someone who can teach me something and/or has an understanding of certain concepts that I do not. I’m a young professional woman who just started making a lot of money. My man doesn’t make more than me but he makes enough and knows how to manage it better than I do (saving and investing) so I’m learning from him. We are both intelligent but he is a mechanical engineer and has a completely different skill set than I do. I have an embarrassingly poor understanding of mechanics, and it turns me on watching him work on cars or fix things around the place when prior to meeting him I wouldn’t have to hire someone to do it or try (and fail) at doing it myself.
Everyone is deficient in some aspect of their lives, we should all strive to find someone who complements us.
Respectfully the thread is about men being better than women in their relationships which your post directly spoke to. Idk how opening a door makes a man better to woman. My parents have been married for 30+ years and neither of my parents feel better than the other. Again, your experience is yours but I don't feel a man needs to look down on a woman to make relationships successful. Not only do i feel it but I see it every day. I'll use the successful model I see.
Some of y'all wanted me to cook so I'm cook on this subject ...it feels strange talking about this but here you go
Most black males in this country I would say is raised BY women . Which means that they are behind the 8 ball when it is time to leave the house and grown into man. I want get into that mom's doesn't have the best character when it comes to picking men or choosing men. When you start you school journey as a man it is pretty obvious that school favors women a lot more so than boys and or black males .
With this you might NEVER hear girls or the women you grow up around say that "women are better than men" but if you like me at this age of 36 it was implied and indirectly said. The only way to combat that thinking as a young man to develop into a fully fledged man is hopefully get mentors. If not it will be a feeling of some form of resentment with women and many misunderstanding.
I learned to love my self and put myself on my own pedestal and in the last 4/5 years I've spent time into being a thinking black man . I can give women the work these days when they want to challenge as a man ...women seem to get off on this shyt . Women love to throw how many degrees they have and how smart they are in your face and is insecure when doing that. Hell I remember in highschool and in sex ed the only thing they taught the boys in that class was how to put on a condom , what an STD is and where you penis goes. It never really got I to the TRUTH about the male sexual reproductive health . I didn't learn the truth until I was in my late 20s about that shyt . This society just has a lack of empathy for men but more importantly black men for the shyt we got throw mentally and even physically. Validation is feel good and it need here and there but it's bad when nikkas go fishing for it . These days I don't need it or LOVE from women . All I want is respect and cooperation from women. I want get married or have kids but everyday thoe I see how society nis setup for women it deep brehs this shyt goes down to an economical level and beyond ....it's deep. A man should starve to be better that his women it part of what makes you attractive but it's also a part of you that should be kept off limits ....I can teach what you know as women but I haven't and want teach all the things I know . The world and feminism made it a competition ....today and going forward as it shown how many men don't want to get married men are just responding in kind . Look how long it took for a lot of men to love themselves that great cause everything starts internally but that means men just see women for what they are ....and you many not need'em the more you mature.