You should always be better than any woman you deal with.

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Respectfully the thread is about men being better than women in their relationships which your post directly spoke to. Idk how opening a door makes a man better to woman. My parents have been married for 30+ years and neither of my parents feel better than the other. Again, your experience is yours but I don't feel a man needs to look down on a woman to make relationships successful. Not only do i feel it but I see it every day. I'll use the successful model I see.

i feel like both men and women view each other in weird ways

women will call out certain things same way men will call out certain things , its a balance thing but in alot of relationships people switch roles
 
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the world isnt set up to put women up, they literally get raped everyday and no one believes them or takes them serious , pay gap is still a thing too , health wise poor women get the least amount of help , just saying

also a lot of "men" forget they are their mothers child, if you came from the womb of course, you are your motherss child and her mother more than your father


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How do you know how your parents feel?

I'm not telling brehs to go around announcing that they're better than a woman. That's stupid

If your dad felt this way, he wouldn't tell you and he definitely wouldn't tell your mama :mjlol:

Nah goofy I read minds. Because ya know, knowing people your whole life and seeing how they treat each other and hearing about how they speaking to and about each wouldn't be good enough.
 

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Never put a woman on a pedestal period, because that same pedestal you put her on she'll use it to look down on you from.

I usually reciprocated on the energy given.

If a woman likes you and sees you have other options and you aren't really sweating her like other men are they are quicker to fall in line.

Carry yourself like its a privilege for you to even be sharing your presence with her. Don't ever be to hesitant to walk away from a situation either.

This, they will respect you more for it and won’t play silly games.
 
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Nah goofy I read minds. Because ya know, knowing people your whole life and seeing how they treat each other and hearing about how they speaking to and about each wouldn't be good enough.




:russ: black pearl we ain't never had no issue before. Why are you so triggered by this topic specifically?

There are many conversations that men get together and have about women that yall never know about, things that we tell each other to do that we would never reveal to women

Just like women do the same thing when it comes to us :yeshrug:
 

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:russ: black pearl we ain't never had no issue before. Why are you so triggered by this topic specifically?

There are many conversations that men get together and have about women that yall never know about, things that we tell each other to do that we would never reveal to women

Just like women do the same thing when it comes to us :yeshrug:
I'm not triggered. You asked a silly question and I gave a silly answer. You want a respectful conversation then come at people in a respectful way. I'm not sure how you can hide a superiority complex for 30 years but I can assure you I know my father well enough to know how he feels about my mother.
 
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I'm not triggered. You asked a silly question and I gave a silly answer. You want a respectful conversation then come at people in a respectful way. I'm not sure how you can hide a superiority complex for 30 years but I can assure you I know my father well enough to know how he feels about my mother.




So there are no things that your father keeps hidden from you? From your mom?

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Why are you so triggered by this topic specifically?
How do you know how your parents feel?

I'm not telling brehs to go around announcing that they're better than a woman. That's stupid

If your dad felt this way, he wouldn't tell you and he definitely wouldn't tell your mama :mjlol:
I get what you're saying. It's just the way you're wording it that is off-putting for some women

Same way you stir up a hornets nest using the words submit or submissive amongst black women.

At the end of the day it's just biology. A woman is naturally going to be attracted to a dude who is "that nikka". The strongest, tallest, smartest, most resourceful, most whatever trait matters for her, she can attract. Example If she make 100k/yr she ideally wants a nikka making at least that or more. She ideally wants a nikka her height or taller

For her offspring, her security, etc. whatever

The way your shyt make it sound it's as if you feel a woman should literally be beneath you. I doubt that's what you mean tho

It's a yin yang approach. You balance each other out. You can still be that nikka in her eyes while also respecting what she brings to the table.

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