You should always be better than any woman you deal with.

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So I have a question
If a woman rejects you is she better than you?

Maybe yes, maybe no. Could be that ya'll just want different things. Could be that she's better than you. Could be that she knows she can't give you what you need... etc.

There's no one size fits all answer.
 
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Man , you dont get it ..... you speak from the point of view of someone that strategizes on how to get women ,

This stuff that you spouted is not who you are , but the persona you want to take on in order to get women , its the shyt that guys that cant get women do


Let me tell you some real shyt , and not this nonsense that you wrote

Im going to show you the difference between a real alpha male and someone like you that is faking being an alpha male in order to get women


Firstly , its never about the woman , its about you

Ive never put a woman on a pedestal , I have never met a woman who i thought was too good for me or who I thought was out of my league , Ive never ever been intimidated by a woman , I dont give a fukk what she looks like who she is or what she makes I dont think shes better than me

I think Im the shyt , I have always had self confidence , and its not even based on anything , not because of my looks or money etc... Its just how my parents brought us up .... i believe in dealing with people how I wish to be dealt with which is why Ive always treated women well , I honestly dont think Im better than anyone Im not arrogant , I just simply have never been intimidated by a woman ,

If I step to a woman shes either going to say yes or no , she says no I keep it moving ..... I just dont see what the fuss is about , if there were a shortage of women then maybe I would see things differently but there are women everywhere

historically , the issues I had with women were not getting them , it was always things like trying to maintain a sexual relationship without serious commitment

The biggest problem with a lot of guys is that they think that because a woman behaves a certain way with them they are like that with all men ... its not the case , women know who they can and cant fukk with

Im extremely easy going and chilled , but Im not one for nonsense , if I see it Im gone ... simple

If you gotta change your behaviour or character in order to get a woman in different ways you're not real

If you simp or feel you have to treat a woman badly in order to keep her you arent real

Once you honestly feel confidence within you wont feel intimidated by anyone




How you got any of this from what I said I don't even know :deadmanny:


I never once brought up money as an indicator of whether or not someone is better than someone else

If anything that's the most false indicator in the world. Money means nothing as you making more money than me can be happening simply because you were in the right place at a time I wasnt or you know someone that I don't know

Yall keep trying to "false equivalency" my points away when definitions have been given in this thread for everything we're talking about here

You say there's no way someone can be better than you. If someone is more intelligent than you, they cant be better than you? If they're more strategic, they're not better than you?

If anything, your refusal to acknowledge that there might be a person that's better than you in some regard comes off as a false confidence because there's no way you can make that statement and make it stick. Furthermore you're setting yourself up in life, because if you never acknowledge that anyone is better than you, then it means you dont have an objective view of yourself. And without an objective view of yourself, how can you ever go about any form of self improvement if you have the attitude of "I already made it. I'm here."

Sounding like the coli's David Ruffin "I dont think I can get any better than I already am"
 
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It's funny how nobody challenge the society when they want to bend the rules to have women EQUAL with men ...but then society also pick it moments when they want to hold men to a HIGHER STANDARD . God, man ....than women . The only thing that is above a man is GOD . Which is why in history man of great men that have almost RULED the entire world something bad happen to them when they thought they was about to be a GOD . In other words everybody has their place.

Y'all anit going to like this .....God greatest super power he gave man was men can be alone ....women can't . Women find it difficult to do that because it's just not in their biology . How man men got calls from women when this covid-19 shyt kicked off that they haven't heard from in a while ? Women's greatest weakness is vanity and pleasure. Just like a man's weakness is ego ....for the most part.

Hell the wallstreet journal will tell you that women spend MORE money than men do in this country. Most advertisement etc is made for women just go people watch this week and take a look at the environment and the advertisement that around where you live . I good deep economically but I want .




Men can be alone only when they reach that point when it becomes a chase to be the best that they can be. That's what some of us were talking about a few pages back. Once you truly realize the meaning of life, its no longer about the women, not even the stuff. It's a chase to become a higher version of you and the fulfillment from that will be greater than anything else. Women come as a result of that and when they come, you will realize that you will be fine with or without them. And once you have that attitude, strangely enough, that's what attracts them to you.

I love the statement about men becoming their greatest when they truly thought they were about to be or were God. Powerful posting bro.

And of course the statement about God, man and woman is Scripture, 1st Corinthians 11:3 I believe it is.

And i too got them calls from women after COVID-19 :bryan:

In fact, theres a woman I talk about on this board, as shes top 10 beautiful, motivated and driven. She and I hadn't talked in nearly a year and she keeps calling me. So you are definitely right about that.
 

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I have to agree as a black man on the aspect of work and money

ive literally dated women with somewhat good jobs who past relationships was with broke, no job having dudes and I knew from the stories they was telling me they had total control in those relationships cause they control the 2 most important shyt.. the finances and having a roof over they head

those chicks I dated all cried or got mad when I decided to dump them cause I was controlling my own finances and have my own place and never depended on any of them
 

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Maybe yes, maybe no. Could be that ya'll just want different things. Could be that she's better than you. Could be that she knows she can't give you what you need... etc.

There's no one size fits all answer.
Interesting, because I know some women will give a guy a shot even when she thinks she is better than him :patrice:
 

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I can pull out my tax bracket
I will not entertain a woman on my level(Fairly low tbh)
U crazy
 
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I'm a million dollar mack that need a billion dollar bytch :blessed:


I see some of y'all the type that'll leave your girl if she gets a promotion :mjlol:




Why cant it just be that if my woman gets a promotion, imma make sure that whatever I'm doing, I'm doing my absolute best and using my drive to continue succeeding and always be on my purpose to be a better man :jbhmm:
 
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:wow::wow::mjcry:


All the shamming language in this thread people tried to do Patrice just stomps it out in the video wow man ...

One of the girls was like "only insecure men think that way "

Patrice was like :ufdup: this the shyt I'm talking
 
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