You Still Keep Up With Your High School And College Friends?

[maxamusa]

high key thats something you should keep to yourself OP; says more about you than them....and not in a good light.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

HS? Yes, several.
College? Yes, several.

Folks know me best.

same here. Mainly through IG

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

i didnt go to college but HS yeah

 

[The Pledge]

I just found out early this year my breh from HS was a perchead.

Felt like I got punched in the stomach when I saw him.

 

[904Lurker]

College a few but yes
High school hell no

 

[Unolove]

High school? No

Military and college? Yep

 

[Flexington]

I have a few friends I keep in touch with from HS

My college crew and I speak damn near every day

 

[Laidbackman]

Both, but can't say it always feels like it paid off, including old buddies I met along the way.

 

[s@n]

I still tap in with homies all the way back from elementary school. I’ve lived close to high school and college friends almost everywhere I’ve lived as well, but that’s more random because I don’t live near my alma maters

 

[Unknown Poster]

They dead to me. i'm like "fukk em" now. I've been 21 years removed from high school and 11 years removed from college.

The majority of my high school and college friends were racist surburban bred cacs that talked shyt behind my back and I didn't discover it til later so no...I threw them in the bushes over the years. They exposed themselves as the years passed and I dealt with them accordingly. They were actually amongst some of the reasons I moved away from Pittsburgh and never moved back.

I deleted my Facebook cause I didn't want them following me...

I post on Twitter and Tumblr cause only the people I'm actually cool with from those days follow me and I follow them on there. The rest of those jackasses were all on Facebook. And people on Facebook get real annoying when you don't wanna connect with them...like fukk you.

I stopped posting on Instagram cause I didn't want them following...it's not like they would support my music and art anyways when I post it...so fukk em.



I'm still cool with the Black friends I made in NYC after college and outside of college...but man...fukk that shyt. I hated high school and college...those people didn't want to celebrate my success or current state...they wanted to revisit those years when they looked down and talked down on me.

I recognized they weren't "friends" at all and told em "fukk you".



Sounds harsh but this is why I don't fukk with white people like that anymore...they were calling me a drug addict, "mentally handicapped", "slow"...they said I was gay cause of the music I liked and cause I was a skater and wore glasses all of that all behind my back...i fukking hate those people.



Last time one of them called me after not talking for 6 years, I told em "fukk you" and called him a bytch for running off to a bar while I got jumped by 5 people on the way to a college party in 2007. He was being really condescending during the whole text exchange too. Tried to talk down to me...did that "you're an intelligent guy" white giy shyt like I was a child...then compared me to the mentally ill and drug addicted black men he worked with at John Hopkins.

I called him a racist and he blocked me.


So...fukk that.

 

[Jasonmask]

One homie from HS. One from since kindergarten one bro from college I’ve seen or heard from them in the last week or so

 

[Yinny]

Yes, even down to middle school, very proud to be their friends and still be in each other’s lives

 

[Solomon Lurke]

All my homies I’ve known for 20 years or more. Ironically I didn’t meet any from actual school. Mostly from my hood or people I met through them then became cool. Alot of my homies are older than me, always been that way. Don’t keep up with anyone from HS. Cordial when I see them but that’s it. Had one homie from college but he did some ho shxt so that’s it for anyone like that.

 

[africngiant]

They dead to me. i'm like "fukk em" now. I've been 21 years removed from high school and 11 years removed from college.

The majority of my high school and college friends were racist surburban bred cacs that talked shyt behind my back and I didn't discover it til later so no...I threw them in the bushes over the years. They exposed themselves as the years passed and I dealt with them accordingly. They were actually amongst some of the reasons I moved away from Pittsburgh and never moved back.

I deleted my Facebook cause I didn't want them following me...

I post on Twitter and Tumblr cause only the people I'm actually cool with from those days follow me and I follow them on there. The rest of those jackasses were all on Facebook. And people on Facebook get real annoying when you don't wanna connect with them...like fukk you.

I stopped posting on Instagram cause I didn't want them following...it's not like they would support my music and art anyways when I post it...so fukk em.



I'm still cool with the Black friends I made in NYC after college and outside of college...but man...fukk that shyt. I hated high school and college...those people didn't want to celebrate my success or current state...they wanted to revisit those years when they looked down and talked down on me.

I recognized they weren't "friends" at all and told em "fukk you".



Sounds harsh but this is why I don't fukk with white people like that anymore...they were calling me a drug addict, "mentally handicapped", "slow"...they said I was gay cause of the music I liked and cause I was a skater and wore glasses all of that all behind my back...i fukking hate those people.



Last time one of them called me after not talking for 6 years, I told em "fukk you" and called him a bytch for running off to a bar while I got jumped by 5 people on the way to a college party in 2007. He was being really condescending during the whole text exchange too. Tried to talk down to me...did that "you're an intelligent guy" white giy shyt like I was a child...then compared me to the mentally ill and drug addicted black men he worked with at John Hopkins.

I called him a racist and he blocked me.


So...fukk that.

im basically having the same type of internal dilemma. “friends” betray you then act innocent while you question your existence/relationships and go off the radar from self destruction.

then they want to do these fake ass check ups to see if they still have access to you when you peep game and start moving more serious.

it’s funny when they still try to act virtuous and “real” on social media lol. i dedicate my life to shytting on them, so i keep them following me but ignore them when they message me. they always try to play the fence and still try to reach out once they start to realize the bridge they’re burning.

i recently had a lifelong mutual who i grew up in the same neighborhood with who i was always good to who unfollowed me for literally no reason (likely local gossip and collusion) just to follow me again months later and congratulate me on graduating. fukking fakkit

dudes put you into a vunerable state then gaslight you as the villian and ostracize you when you self-destruct from their bs. while they try and recruit others with their one-sided ass stories and lies to protect themselves and get people to hop on their bandwagon.

i got dudes acting indecisive behind my back because they want to follow the rhetoric and hype of some fukking snakes lmao. knowing ive always been a kind person.

i hate people man. it be your own kind too. now i understand why pac was always mad at nikkas

i can’t be mad at people who self destruct because they were probably betrayed

 

[Bunchy Carter]

High School: Yes
College: Not really