Metta World Movement
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I really don't see what's so hard about this situation, other than the initial realization of betrayal.
Just take that L the proper way. Walk away, call a lawyer and prepare for a divorce.
Doesn't make sense going into the room to kill. I really can't see how killing one or both of them can improve the situation or make you feel better because after you're done, you still have to deal with the fact that she had the audacity to cheat on you after everything you've been through together, and you'll still be pissed over it. Also, NO CHEATING WOMAN IS EVER WORTH RISKING YOUR FREEDOM FOR. 'Crime of passion' can only help you so much; it ain't gonna help you get off scot-free. You're still likely to get some years.
Doesn't make sense bursting into the room with just the intent to fight because your ass can still end up get in trouble for that, depending on what you end up doing. Not to mention the possibility that something can happen during the fight that'll cause you to go from just whoopin' ass to killing someone anyway. Not to mention the other dude might be bigger than you and end up kicking YOUR ass, like that one nikka on that Cheaters episode....two L's in one.
Doesn't make sense even just bursting into the room, just with the intent of letting them know they've been caught, on some "A-HA! I caught you!" shyt. Other dude will just sneak out with the
face while she rattles off lies and excuses to you, and you have a pointless argument with her.
The only reason I might go in the room is if I happened to have on me something to record them with, so I'll have some ammo for the divorce. Record them actually smashing, then burst in the room so she can incriminate herself, like
[ame=http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh3FaDIX79bLcl401D]Video: Actin Up: Man Busts In On His Girlfriend In Bed With Another Guy![/ame]
Otherwise.....just walk away. Walk away from the room, and the marriage. And don't ever be retarded enough to let her or anyone else try to talk you into working things out, especially if you have kids together. "Won't you please think of the children"......well, I'm sure she didn't think of them when she let Tyrone hit it
The moral of the story is: only marry a decent woman with morals....preferably a religious woman (a real one, not one of those fake-ass "be in church on Sunday, act like a ho the other days of the week" women). Get to know her first so you'll know for sure what type of person she is. Surprisingly, a lot of people don't realize that marriage - a REAL marriage - isn't for everybody. Too many people wanna have the family life, AND new dikk-p*ssy on the side. That's not a real marriage. Marriage is for people who understand sacrifice for the sake of maintaining a home and a family. Part of that sacrifice is to no longer be able to fukk random people. Like I've said before: "real love is not fukking anyone else".
Mind you, marrying a woman who appears to be this type still won't 100% guarantee that she won't cheat (after all, people can change), but you'll definitely have a better chance of an infidelity-free marriage than the clowns who only marry a chick because she's fine, or because she seems nice. There are a lot of attractive, generally nice women out there who are capable of selfish acts such as cheating, and who don't have a strong-enough moral character to say to themselves "Yeah that guy's attractive, but I have a husband, and I love him and would never hurt him by cheating on him".
Just take that L the proper way. Walk away, call a lawyer and prepare for a divorce.
Doesn't make sense going into the room to kill. I really can't see how killing one or both of them can improve the situation or make you feel better because after you're done, you still have to deal with the fact that she had the audacity to cheat on you after everything you've been through together, and you'll still be pissed over it. Also, NO CHEATING WOMAN IS EVER WORTH RISKING YOUR FREEDOM FOR. 'Crime of passion' can only help you so much; it ain't gonna help you get off scot-free. You're still likely to get some years.
Doesn't make sense bursting into the room with just the intent to fight because your ass can still end up get in trouble for that, depending on what you end up doing. Not to mention the possibility that something can happen during the fight that'll cause you to go from just whoopin' ass to killing someone anyway. Not to mention the other dude might be bigger than you and end up kicking YOUR ass, like that one nikka on that Cheaters episode....two L's in one.
Doesn't make sense even just bursting into the room, just with the intent of letting them know they've been caught, on some "A-HA! I caught you!" shyt. Other dude will just sneak out with the

The only reason I might go in the room is if I happened to have on me something to record them with, so I'll have some ammo for the divorce. Record them actually smashing, then burst in the room so she can incriminate herself, like
[ame=http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh3FaDIX79bLcl401D]Video: Actin Up: Man Busts In On His Girlfriend In Bed With Another Guy![/ame]
Otherwise.....just walk away. Walk away from the room, and the marriage. And don't ever be retarded enough to let her or anyone else try to talk you into working things out, especially if you have kids together. "Won't you please think of the children"......well, I'm sure she didn't think of them when she let Tyrone hit it

The moral of the story is: only marry a decent woman with morals....preferably a religious woman (a real one, not one of those fake-ass "be in church on Sunday, act like a ho the other days of the week" women). Get to know her first so you'll know for sure what type of person she is. Surprisingly, a lot of people don't realize that marriage - a REAL marriage - isn't for everybody. Too many people wanna have the family life, AND new dikk-p*ssy on the side. That's not a real marriage. Marriage is for people who understand sacrifice for the sake of maintaining a home and a family. Part of that sacrifice is to no longer be able to fukk random people. Like I've said before: "real love is not fukking anyone else".
Mind you, marrying a woman who appears to be this type still won't 100% guarantee that she won't cheat (after all, people can change), but you'll definitely have a better chance of an infidelity-free marriage than the clowns who only marry a chick because she's fine, or because she seems nice. There are a lot of attractive, generally nice women out there who are capable of selfish acts such as cheating, and who don't have a strong-enough moral character to say to themselves "Yeah that guy's attractive, but I have a husband, and I love him and would never hurt him by cheating on him".