I get that. I have seen white parents playing with their kids and calling them "cheeky monkeys". I have seen them destroying watermelon. At some stage the psychological prison these stereotypes place us in become ridiculous.Control our images in the media
Honestly i dont know how to fix it, but i think a great sign of growth will be when we can move past certain stereotypes.
I have been to supermarkets looking to buy watermelon and find myself glancing around to see if any cacs are looking at me. These things are silly.