Young Daughter Speaks about absent father

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My take is...why corrupt her mind with bias at such a young tender age? Very impressionable mind.


I always heard, you don't bad-mouth the other parent in front of the child(ren)....let them come up with their own opinions. She clearly is saying SOMETHING off camera, cuz there's a couple times the girl sounded like she was finished, she'd look over, get some kind of coaching/instruction and continue on.

We gotta BREAK the cycle. Teach that young princess that, even tho daddy's not around, he still loves you. Then as an adult, go talk to the child's father. My thing is, even if he never shows back up again, you keep family biz inside the four walls... :yeshrug:
 

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She's on the right path at such a young age.. she understands.. Mommy doing a good job :wow:

She won't turn out like this

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where are these two thots located?:ghghgh:

imma rape both these bytches throats :dre:
 

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You can tell a lot about the mother by the way and manner that he daughter speaks. The momma ain't shyt and is some ratchet ghetto hoe.
 

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"Grown folks matters..." A child has the right to have a say or an opinion on anything that affects their life. And the behavior of an absent parent most certainly qualifies.

Please, you know damn well that little girl is gettting her talking points straight from her mom. You can tell she's mimicking her moms mannerisms.
 

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Yeah ok, a young child talking about she don't care for her daddy .......I'm sure she came up with those thoughts on her own
People who aren't around kids daily aren't aware of how aware these kids are nowadays. These kids are smarter and as they become 8yrs and older they notice whats going on around them and don't want a sugarcoated answer.

That lil girl wanted to know where her daddy was and all her mommy had to do was show his social media pages with pictures of him and his gf kids or showing off money and new clothes. Then she's gonna ask why is it like that? Why isn't he doing for her. Is this why he keeps flaking on her visits and phone calls?

Its a sad reality that's being bred when absentee parents choose to not be apart of their kid's life and the other parents has to explain why. It may not be pretty but its the truth. Now the little girl has came to her own conclusion and probably wouldn't want anything to do with her dad now.
 

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People who aren't around kids daily aren't aware of how aware these kids are nowadays. These kids are smarter and as they become 8yrs and older they notice whats going on around them and don't want a sugarcoated answer.

That lil girl wanted to know where her daddy was and all her mommy had to do was show his social media pages with pictures of him and his gf kids or showing off money and new clothes. Then she's gonna ask why is it like that? Why isn't he doing for her. Is this why he keeps flaking on her visits and phone calls?

Its a sad reality that's being bred when absentee parents choose to not be apart of their kid's life and the other parents has to explain why. It may not be pretty but its the truth. Now the little girl has came to her own conclusion and probably wouldn't want anything to do with her dad now.

Baby girl stop, how are you going to act like you know everything that transpired here? Did she show her daughter her pics of dad doing those things on social media or did the daughter overhear her going off on him about it? Or maybe she heard her talking bad about him to friends? Or did she tell her that her dad aint shyt because this is what he is doing? You dont know neither do the ppl in this thread. I'll I pointed out (and several other ppl in this thread) is that the kid is CLEARLY being coached off camera. That you cant deny. That is poor parenting also. You really think that little girl came to "her own conclusion" without the mothers conditioning? :rudy: It's also obvious the father is not in her life that much if not at all and he aint shyt either but I always see you in these single mother threads absolving the mother of any wrong doing and that shyt is bogus :camby:
 

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I don't apologize to nobody my daughter said what she said on that video came out with anger and hurt but in reality she came out for me to listen how she feels and what she sees how she is treated by him ... When she calls he hangs up when she text him never text back when she trys to see him he puts other kids that's not his over her so if u felt offended oh well .. I'll back my daughter and those who felt what she was saying u are true parents cause u understand .. -the mom's fb

 

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I don't apologize to nobody my daughter said what she said on that video came out with anger and hurt but in reality she came out for me to listen how she feels and what she sees how she is treated by him ... When she calls he hangs up when she text him never text back when she trys to see him he puts other kids that's not his over her so if u felt offended oh well .. I'll back my daughter and those who felt what she was saying u are true parents cause u understand .. -the mom's fb



Sounds exactly like err otha bird brained bish on social media.
 

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Baby girl stop, how are you going to act like you know everything that transpired here? Did she show her daughter her pics of dad doing those things on social media or did the daughter overhear her going off on him about it? Or maybe she heard her talking bad about him to friends? Or did she tell her that her dad aint shyt because this is what he is doing? You dont know neither do the ppl in this thread. I'll I pointed out (and several other ppl in this thread) is that the kid is CLEARLY being coached off camera. That you cant deny. That is poor parenting also. You really think that little girl came to "her own conclusion" without the mothers conditioning? :rudy: It's also obvious the father is not in her life that much if not at all and he aint shyt either but I always see you in these single mother threads absolving the mother of any wrong doing and that shyt is bogus :camby:
Breh, if the mother tried then she tried. I don't see what she did wrong if she's trying to get him invloved. No cape but it's the truth. How else should she explain her dad not being there? "Oh he's in the military or dead "

Again, people forget how smart and aware kids are. Kids can realize domestic violence or drug use amongst their parents even if it's not done in front of them. It's apparent the girl is mature enough to see what's going on and spoke on it. That's not uncommon regardless of age or social status among kids of a similar age group. Granted, some kids are still immature and not as knowing but you obviously have those who are and will either ask why or form their own opinion.
 

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Breh, if the mother tried then she tried. I don't see what she did wrong if she's trying to get him invloved. No cape but it's the truth. How else should she explain her dad not being there? "Oh he's in the military or dead "

Again, people forget how smart and aware kids are. Kids can realize domestic violence or drug use amongst their parents even if it's not done in front of them. It's apparent the girl is mature enough to see what's going on and spoke on it. That's not uncommon regardless of age or social status among kids of a similar age group. Granted, some kids are still immature and not as knowing but you obviously have those who are and will either ask why or form their own opinion.
Again, do you truly believe that she formed that opinion on her own based solely on the interactions (or lack there of) with her father? Without her mother polluting her views at all?
 

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Define "polluting her views"?
Telling her that her father aint shyt because ______ you fill in the blank. Thats horrible parenting in my opinion. Just like you said let the child form her own opinion since they are so smart at that age it shouldnt be a problem. The mother in this video is CLEARLY not letting the little girl form her own opinion and thats what Im trying to convey to you. The dad and the mom aint shyt in my opinion. Granted, I know we arent even having this conversation if the father was in her life but its still foul. I feel bad for the little girl. :mjcry:
 
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