Your Close Friends

[Desirous]

Are most of your close friends the same sex as you, or the opposite sex? Why do you think that is?

If the latter, have you found it difficult to stay platonic (either from your end or theirs)?

Most of my really close friends are females.

 

[observe]

If your close friend is guy he's most likely trying to fukk you

 

[Swiggy]

I got a mix, but last week at a halloween party, I was cuddling up to 3 different of them (got nothing ), but that's just the real of it all. If you got females in the kliq and are single, you're prone to be flirtatious to a degree, even if you only embrace them as homies.

It's just how it goes, no one catches feelings

 

[Elle Driver]

If your close friend is guy he's most likely trying to fukk you

 

[observe]

Damn gurl..you turning me on and I don't even know ya face

 

[MikelArteta]

male

lol at a close female friend.

 

[Desirous]

If your close friend is guy he's most likely trying to fukk you

Thanks for answering my question! lol

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Both sex. A lot of my close friends are in their 30's or 40's though.

 

[Desirous]

I got a mix, but last week at a halloween party, I was cuddling up to 3 different of them (got nothing ), but that's just the real of it all. If you got females in the kliq and are single, you're prone to be flirtatious to a degree, even if you only embrace them as homies.

It's just how it goes, no one catches feelings

Mannn see - I was organizing my birthday dinner this month and I hesitated to invite a few guys I'm cool with (we're platonic, but not really close friends or anything...so I guess they are more so acquaintances) because they've expressed either feelings or sexual desire in the past...and I kept thinking "Umm say if a couple of them do come, and both try to flirt or something - that's just gonna look very weird" - cause I can't be cuddling with them like that as you say lol but then who knows if that's what they'll expect, cause maybe in the back of their head they're thinking "Yah, she wants me" cause I'm inviting them for my birthday. Maybe I'm over-thinking it, but I just left them out. So basically, everyone going is a female...my one male friend who is married and I'm cool with his wife, so she's coming as well...or my girls' boyfriends lol

 

[Elle Driver]

Damn gurl..you turning me on and I don't even know ya face

But to answer op's question, all my friends is women, I only have male acquaintances though.

 

[OfTheCross]

my close friends are guys. and we're not trying to fukk eachother.

the women that I'm currently close to, I'm trying to fukk them all.

 

[Malta]

Close female friend?

 

[Swiggy]

Mannn see - I was organizing my birthday dinner this month and I hesitated to invite a few guys I'm cool with (we're platonic, but not really close friends or anything...so I guess they are more so acquaintances) because they've expressed either feelings or sexual desire in the past...and I kept thinking "Umm say if a couple of them do come, and both try to flirt or something - that's just gonna look very weird" - cause I can't be cuddling with them like that as you say lol but then who knows if that's what they'll expect, cause maybe in the back of their head they're thinking "Yah, she wants me" cause I'm inviting them for my birthday. Maybe I'm over-thinking it, but I just left them out. So basically, everyone going is a female...my one male friend who is married and I'm cool with his wife, so she's coming as well...or my girls' boyfriends lol

Don't get it twisted, tho. You can cuddle and bs like that if you more than just acquaintances

Truth is, there's gotta be some trust and shyt to get away with that. There are other cats in our crew that try that same, but got intentions. I got so much love for my female friends, but truth is you can't keep people in your life if you start asking them for more than they willing to give. Plus, I'm not about fukking up the friend situation by shytting where I eat. They know, I know, it's just friends being friends.

Don't be lettin no nukkas rub up on you unless they potentials or you trust them

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

If your close friend is guy he's most likely trying to fukk you

One of my best friends in the world is a guy. He's not trying to fukk though, I don't have a dikk.

To answer OP though, other than him, they are women. I have 2 that I have been friends with for 20+ years, and another that is newer, but I know we'll be friends forever.

 

[Desirous]

My close male friends all live far away...none in Toronto. My friends here are basically all women.

And, the platonic male friends I've had...if they weren't trying to have sex with me, they tried to get with my girls and in the end, they end up not liking each other, I side with my girls and then lose that male friend cause of their bullshyt.