Your girl just moved in with you...

[Soundbwoy]

Lol chicks making more than brehs and saving their money while your using everything

Ive been living on my own for 10 years I dont need someone to cook and clean so that excuse always got me to me as a couple you should pool your resources together for a common goal

 

[The M.I.C.]

thats the market in toronto right now for an house

Gotdamn

I heard of there being a bubble out in Vancouver but I didn't know it was like that up in T.dot. That's ridiculous.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

What the hell happened in this thread? We all started beefin' with each other, shyts random as fukk.

Same thing happened in the spin off thread

 

[blackzeus]

does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill?

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half

It's circumstantial. Do they have kids? Is he rich? Did she save his life? In short if it is a financial burden for him and/or they do not have kids yes she should help out with some of the bills. But if she has kids or his living costs are negligible compared to his income I don't see the issue. But the fact that this is a discussion doesn't bode well for your bro If a chick moves out and the first thing she tries to do is live for free that's a bad sign. Also depends on who wanted it. If he really wanted her to move in then it's on him to make it work financially. But if it was mutual or if she was pushing for it yes she should help out. This is pretty much why you should have your sh*t right before shacking up with a chick, this discussion shouldn't really come up in a relationship.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Honestly, if I'm in a relationship my woman, it wouldnt feel right to have her paying rent and utilities. As a man, it just doesnt feel right. However, she would be buying all the things needed for the house, including groceries. Furthermore, she would be cooking and cleaning.

A question for the folks in this thread though: what if you and your significant other was splitting the rent, and then this person lost their job? What would you do?

Im 22, got my own car/apartment/ etc but this is outdated thinking. Its hard enough out here to be on some "Oh im a man, i can handle all the financial responsibility!"

At least for me down the line i would want my lady to pay something. And are me and here combing (at least some of) our income?

I know women who dont make a lot of $$ and women who do. Some dont mind going half and some knowingly finesse this game of life just bc they're women

 

[bordeaux]

Moving in before marriage is a bad move on the woman's end to begin with, she better at least be engaged. But anyway, If you're planning on going this route I don't get why she wouldn't be expected to help with the rent or at least a bill or two. And I'm not ashamed at all

 

[Wild self]

a couple million californians who a lot of them make more than you what kinda dumbass statement is this

Hope you don't have kids. Imagine having nothing to pass down to them?

But basically, everything is overpriced and that's the sign that America will go through another economic downturn soon. High prices, low wages, no one is willing to buy = depression.

 

[Black_Panther_JS]

Mine wouldn't have to pay cuz that's my girl and real nikkas take care of theirs

I would only make one pay if I'm broke and need help with bills and all that other buuuullshyt

 

[Jahmal]

Let Women Move In With You And Not Pay Rent Brehs

 

[itsyoung!!]

Hope you don't have kids. Imagine having nothing to pass down to them?

But basically, everything is overpriced and that's the sign that America will go through another economic downturn soon. High prices, low wages, no one is willing to buy = depression.

who said those people will never own anything eventually but in the mean time they rent til they save up enough to get their own

someones current situation (renting) does not mean itll always be their future situation (mortgage)

why does this have to be explained

 

[Wild self]

who said those people will never own anything eventually but in the mean time they rent til they save up enough to get their own

someones current situation (renting) does not mean itll always be their future situation (mortgage)

why does this have to be explained

Man, California weather ain't worth them exorbitant prices, especially when living in an earthquake line that can end shyt.

 

[Sterling Archer]

who said those people will never own anything eventually but in the mean time they rent til they save up enough to get their own

someones current situation (renting) does not mean itll always be their future situation (mortgage)

why does this have to be explained

Because theyre idiots breh.

 

[invalid]

Where I'm from, it is a status symbol to be in a position where your girlfriend/wife is able to stay at home and take care of the house. It says "I make enough money that I'm able to carry all the expenses and take care of a family without a second income."

With that said, this idea is sometimes ludicrous to certain black folks because financially they are just not on that wave. Most of us are in a financially precarious situation. So it's just a different mentality. For those black folk, they should do whatever is financially sound for them. If that means sharing the cost with their significant other, then they should do so without any shame.

 

[Sterling Archer]

Treat girlfriends like wives brehs.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Ladies if your man was moving it with you would he have to pay half of rent or would you be cool with him cooking and providing hard dikk on demand?

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