Your Lady Going Solo

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Fellas how would you feel about your lady going out solo for the evening? Like going to dinner and the bar looking cute. Thoughts?
You insecure jealous brehs need to understand one thing:

There are two reasons your girl is going to cheat:

a) She ain't shyt. In that case, choose better next time and stop worrying about that bytch.
b) You fukked up. This is a drawn out process and by the time you notice your lady checked out of the relationship, it's probably too late. So getting jealous and throwing a fit is going to do nothing but make you look weak. The relationship is over, do better next time.

If it's neither a) nor b) get your insecurities in check and stop pestering your girl because she wants to go out and have fun with her friends. If it is a) or b), no amount of jealousy is going to change the fact that the relationship is over. Move on.
 

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Getting all dressed up and hitting a bar or club. Fukk no.

Now grabbing a quick bite to eat alone dressed casually I’m cool with.

Me and wife do it all the time, when we want a break from each or our daughter, one once will hit up a bdubs or Texas Roadhouse. I ain’t got no problem with this
 
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I'm a bit baffled cause there's HELLA people I know who's girls go on holidays, out to clubs with friends etc. so are we saying that it's 80-90% chance that whenever a girl goes out somewhere without her man, she's cheating? :patrice::jbhmm:
 
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:whoa: big red flag...HOWEVER.

If you got young children and no baby sitter and the mother needs a break :patrice:

But even then it's suspect :francis:
 

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That's kind of suspect if she going to the club by herself. I mean you could be still sharing that girl if she's going out with her friends. But if she was going by herself and didn't ask me to come that would be a big red flag.
 

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I use to do it all the time years ago. We had moved to Arizona and I didnt know many people, my husband didnt drink or go to club. I'd go and have drinks by myself, I felt like a weirdo but I use to enjoy myself. The last time I did it, I was back here in Chicago were I know everyone and ended up seeing some people I knew, had a few drinks with them and went home. I dont see anything wrong with it unless she doing it all the time.
 
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