Your Lady Going Solo

[SNG]

I use to do it all the time years ago. We had moved to Arizona and I didnt know many people, my husband didnt drink or go to club. I'd go and have drinks by myself, I felt like a weirdo but I use to enjoy myself. The last time I did it, I was back here in Chicago were I know everyone and ended up seeing some people I knew, had a few drinks with them and went home. I dont see anything wrong with it unless she doing it all the time.

Did you ask your husband if he wanted come?

 

[AZBeauty]

Did you ask your husband if he wanted come?

Nope, because I knew he would say no. I use to try to get him to go all the time. He'd drop me off and pick me up sometimes. He thought it was weird too. I'd go to concerts by myself too. It was a rough 3-4 years when I lived there lol.

 

[SNG]

Nope, because I knew he would say no. I use to try to get him to go all the time. He'd drop me off and pick me up sometimes. He though it was weird too. I'd go to concerts by myself too. It was a rough 3-4 years when I lived there lol.

That's fine then you an individual first. I don't see an issue with this.

 

[AZBeauty]

You insecure jealous brehs need to understand one thing:

There are two reasons your girl is going to cheat:

a) She ain't shyt. In that case, choose better next time and stop worrying about that bytch.
b) You fukked up. This is a drawn out process and by the time you notice your lady checked out of the relationship, it's probably too late. So getting jealous and throwing a fit is going to do nothing but make you look weak. The relationship is over, do better next time.

If it's neither a) nor b) get your insecurities in check and stop pestering your girl because she wants to go out and have fun with her friends. If it is a) or b), no amount of jealousy is going to change the fact that the relationship is over. Move on.

I agree with this.

 

[DanniC]

I’m a brehette brehs

 

[Family Lives Matter]

Thought this was about her randomly masturbating in front of you not about you sharing her smh

 

[King Khufu]

Chase a bytch? shyt, she not stepping a foot in the door near me! Ha!

 

[Jhoon]

big red flag...HOWEVER.

If you got young children and no baby sitter and the mother needs a break

But even then it's suspect

She needs a break. Have you ever raised a kid?

 

[75 Others]

She coming back home single

 

[Mr.bocario]

I'm a bit baffled cause there's HELLA people I know who's girls go on holidays, out to clubs with friends etc. so are we saying that it's 80-90% chance that whenever a girl goes out somewhere without her man, she's cheating?

Bruh just because goofy nikkas normalize shyt don’t make it right

 

[RJThaGreat]

Bruh just because goofy nikkas normalize shyt don’t make it right

I know I know.

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

She needs a break. Have you ever raised a kid?

I have two of em.

I thought I made it pretty clear lol. In my case, by all means take some time for yourself...but some of these women yall be with out chere can't be trusted

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

If your girl wants to cheat, she’s going to cheat.

 

[Jhoon]

If your girl wants to cheat, she’s going to cheat.

This should be a golden rule. If someone wants to cheat, they will.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Going out solo and going out with your girlfriends are different things.

I'd feel concerned about the former, admittedly. But while you wanting to go out on your own is not disrespectful of the relationship, if you want to get into something that disrespects the relationship, you'd do that shyt where you're out alone, with your girls, or even with me. Women are scandalous enough to where they'll have their man dapping up the side nikka and he'd be none the wiser.

The point is, go ahead and have a good time. Respect our relationship while you're out, though. That's it.