Your man should love you more than you love him, he needs to be borderline obsessed with you

[Turbulent]

I disagree. Obsession is not love. Obsession is toxic.

The man is leading the relationship therefore he will naturally love (real love) more than the woman. Real love sometimes means checking the girl, sometimes it means letting her go. The woman will typically be more obsessed with the man. She will typically be more needy than the man. The OP suggests that the man should be more needy than the woman, i disagree.

One last thing. The man will be more loving in a healthy way but both should be striving to love that way. And the woman will be more needy but both should be striving to be less needy and obsessive.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

What about just giving the same energy and effort you recieve?

 

[Peruvian Connect]

If she a solid chick sure, but if she a bird nah, thats how shiit go real bad.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

But I’ve heard dudes claim the same thing. So obviously this is just bullshyt and more psychological warfare.

I wish hurt people would just stay out of the dating game. Just allow yourself to heal. Because a lotta these slow ass hot takes are just based on defensiveness.

If somebody likes u more, they are easily controllable. That’s what’s REALLY being said. But people too p*ssy to admit to that. Love is about reciprocity, compromise and mutual respect. People scared of getting hurt so they outchea choosing people they can control instead of people they respect.

That’s why divorce is so high. People more worried about control and the damaged individuals they court to get control is leaving them with an assload of dysfunction, violence and drama.

I think it's OK for dudes, reason being a lot of men have no other options. While the woman is with another man the next week, a man has no choice but to build himself back up. If he handsome it would probably apply.


Like I said before though, only give the same energy and effort you recieve, this way both parties are good.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

All this talk about how much a man is supposed to love a woman, but I'm not reading anything about what she needs to do to earn that love.

She earned his love in his eyes, but that don't mean she a solid chick. She should be happy with the man who loves her and treats her like a queen/[princess, but she don't she wants the nikka who treats her like shiit.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

I think it's OK for dudes, reason being a lot of men have no other options. While the woman is with another man the next week, a man has no choice but to build himself back up. If he handsome it would probably apply.


Like I said before though, only give the same energy and effort you recieve, this way both parties are good.

Every man has options. He may not like his options but he has them.

 

[tuckgod]

 

[Mike809]

Women are not natural lovers and nurtures

Yall really be saying anything on the coli


There's a thing called mothers, and they do nurture their babies. We even see this with wild animals.
crazy aint it?

 

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I think it's OK for dudes, reason being a lot of men have no other options. While the woman is with another man the next week, a man has no choice but to build himself back up. If he handsome it would probably apply.


Like I said before though, only give the same energy and effort you recieve, this way both parties are good.

Nah it ain’t okay for men either. Their ego causes them to fukk it up even when they have a good thing. Even when a man ain’t got options and got a good thing at home, many will leave in the pursuit of new p*ssy. Liking or loving somebody with that type of lack of self-control more only exacerbates the issue. But I do agree that people just need to love themselves and each other equally and mutually and stop trying to control others. Or stay single.

 

[Estarossa]

@Kamala Harris be running experiments to see just how stupid these nikkas are

NOBODY actually read the op…

 

[mag357]

Not strictly for women, but one person has to love the other more for a relationship work. I don’t feel reciprocity is a thing in romantic associations.

It's always lop sided in a relationship...

But it should be lop sided in the man's favor...

If you love her more....then that shyt is unattractive to her.
That shyt don't keep their p*ssy wet.

They'll do you dirty...

A man is naturally able to take the extra amount of love that a women who loves him more can give..
And not become turned off by it.

It fuels a man to go out and do better .. hustle harder, etc

 

[Standing on business]

Am I missing something? I don’t see that nowhere in that long ass post…

@Kamala Harris be running experiments to see just how stupid these nikkas are

NOBODY actually read the op…

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Am I missing something? I don’t see that nowhere in that long ass post…

LoveHack: Your man should love you MORE than you love him. Women are natural born lovers and nurturers. A man has to be borderline obsessed with you to MATCH your level of love and loyalty for him. As women, we know this could all change, but when a man really feels as if he ‘lucked up’ by getting you, his actions are usually different from a man you had to chase down and beg to even notice you or be with you. (Ladies) Our love is so DEEP that we real life SNAP when they do us dirty. So, it’s only right that we require a man who can OUTLOVE us. Cause a woman’s love is already UNMATCHED #TurnsCommentsOff #ArgueWithYaMammy

 

[tuckgod]

 

[Rawtid]

It's always lop sided in a relationship...

But it should be lop sided in the man's favor...

If you love her more....then that shyt is unattractive to her.
That shyt don't keep their p*ssy wet.

They'll do you dirty...

A man is naturally able to take the extra amount of love that a women who loves him more can give..
And not become turned off by it.

It fuels a man to go out and do better .. hustle harder, etc

It depends on the individual. There are plenty of love starved women who thrive better when a man is more in love. Maybe she’s been treated poorly or was the one muling in the past. Same in the reverse situation when a man has been treated poorly by women for so long.

I also thing both parties can become overwhelmed with too much love and affection. Again not a gender specific thing to me.