Your Successful Black Relationships

[intruder]

I never understood all the drama people talk about on here with relationships and chicks they deal with. All the women I've been with were rather healthy relationships.

Granted SOME of them were just physical and while these wanted more they understood my preference to not be attached and still held me down.
Out of all the women I've had relationships, flings or straight up just slept with I can say there is only one that I'm not on speaking terms with and thats because after all I did for her she disappeared with $2,000+ of my money

 

[Medicate]

My short time here on the coli, I always see us hating and talking down on each other; pointing out flaws and how we fail as black men and women in regards to healthy relationships. Wanted to see if some of yall are actually in or have ever been in a good relationship with someone. Some of yall probably gon front, but we all have had that one chick or for my ladies, that one guy, whom have held us down.

Me and my girl been together since '11. I was in school (Alabama A&M) and slipped got a chick pregnant. Soon afterwards I met my current lady and we became friends but I knew she was feeling me so I told her straight up like yo I got a kid on the way, but me and the babys mom ain't really together like that. She understood and still would drive up to see me (bout a 2-3 hour drive). She would visit often, and even went out her way and mailed me a huge box of baby clothes and items on valentines day. Some time later, the chick miscarried and I was like but then I was like. Can't even lie. I was devastated over the miscarriage (it was gon be a girl). But I was happy for another start and I HATED the babys moms anyway. Hooked right up with my girl and she been holding me down ever since. We just hit our 4 year anni today. Show ya boy some love. Ima Black King with a Black Queen. Where yall at?

What happened to the Black woman you skeeted in and dipped on? This is a feel good thread huh?, but has all sorts of L's in your story breh..........

You slipped up? The fck that happen? And she happens to "Miscarriage", meaning a black life gone and you "happy".....and happens to find another sister who looks great and innocent btw to fck with you? I can already see you doing her the same way....

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Good story but yall niccas know that if it was the other way around and a dude was doing all that for a girl who was currently prego (and later miscarried) He would be called all types of simps and fathless fakkits Congrats on finding you a winner though breh

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

salute to you brother you and her both seem happy!

 

[BigL187]

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

So, you been with this female for four years and still no wedding.

Chick has already shown she will hold you down.

​

 

[Amy Traphouse]

So, you been with this female for four years and still no wedding.

Chick has already shown she will hold you down.

​

This, you know you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her then what are you waiting for?

 

[WaveGang]

My girl now is a true Black Queen, my first serious black girlfriend and I'm loving it. She;s soo real, never been like this before. And I was with my last girl for 4 yrs but this one is 100x better and I've known her for 9 months

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

So, you been with this female for four years and still no wedding.

Chick has already shown she will hold you down.

​

Why ruin a good thing?

 

[Aceofspades404]

Good story but yall niccas know that if it was the other way around and a dude was doing all that for a girl who was currently prego (and later miscarried) He would be called all types of simps and fathless fakkits Congrats on finding you a winner though breh

they don't hear you though
I find nothing to awe about in this story.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Why ruin a good thing?

Why take a chance on losing it because you didn't lock it down?

Me: So, you been with your man for 5 years? How are things going?
Her: Okay, I just don't know if he wants anything more than this. I know I do.
Me: So, you're doing everything a wife does without any of the benefits of being one?
Her:
Me: And you've been doing it for 5 years. How much longer you gonna keep doing it?
Her:

Me: ​

 

[AtomicUse]

So you're with the kind of woman who openly plots on a man who's already in a relationship with a woman, who's about to have his child, who then celebrates when his child dies and immediately ditches the would be mother and jumps into another relationship.

That's the best one you could get huh?

 

[Ziggiy]

My short time here on the coli, I always see us hating and talking down on each other; pointing out flaws and how we fail as black men and women in regards to healthy relationships. Wanted to see if some of yall are actually in or have ever been in a good relationship with someone. Some of yall probably gon front, but we all have had that one chick or for my ladies, that one guy, whom have held us down.

Me and my girl been together since '11. I was in school (Alabama A&M) and slipped got a chick pregnant. Soon afterwards I met my current lady and we became friends but I knew she was feeling me so I told her straight up like yo I got a kid on the way, but me and the babys mom ain't really together like that. She understood and still would drive up to see me (bout a 2-3 hour drive). She would visit often, and even went out her way and mailed me a huge box of baby clothes and items on valentines day. Some time later, the chick miscarried and I was like but then I was like. Can't even lie. I was devastated over the miscarriage (it was gon be a girl). But I was happy for another start and I HATED the babys moms anyway. Hooked right up with my girl and she been holding me down ever since. We just hit our 4 year anni today. Show ya boy some love. Ima Black King with a Black Queen. Where yall at?

GOD BLESS BLACK LOVE!!!!!!

 

[MikelArteta]

And the hate begins the coli.com

 

[Tapp]

Man y'all done came in the thread and sht all over everything