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What was her reaction when you told her your ex had a miscarriage?

She was devastated as well. We were actually looking forward to the kid cause as soon as she was born, she and I were gonna treat it like our own when we all were together. Not excluding the babys mom or anything. My current gf was definitely willing to be apart of the childs life had she lived. Ride or die.
 

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Thats messed up. I understand though. I just think its a double standard for a lot of single black fathers to be penalized for a mistake (not insinuating that the child is a mistake), whereas a lot of single black mothers out here still getting play and have guys willing to be a father to their child.

Actually there are a lot of men who refuse to date single mothers...
 

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She was devastated as well. We were actually looking forward to the kid cause as soon as she was born, she and I were gonna treat it like our own when we all were together. Not excluding the babys mom or anything. My current gf was definitely willing to be apart of the childs life had she lived. Ride or die.

So you were in a relationship, and you cheated on her because?
 

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So you were in a relationship, and you cheated on her because?
:what: I didn't cheat. I wasn't in a relationship. Me and the babys mom had been broken up. The child was the only thing that connected us. When my current gf came along, I told her I couldn't be in a relationship because I had a kid on the way and didn't want her to have to deal with "baby mama drama".
 

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:what: I didn't cheat. I wasn't in a relationship. Me and the babys mom had been broken up. The child was the only thing that connected us. When my current gf came along, I told her I couldn't be in a relationship because I had a kid on the way and didn't want her to have to deal with "baby mama drama".

Some time later, the chick miscarried

How many months was your ex girl?

You telling half of the story breh. Just add details man.
 

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Some time later, the chick miscarried

How many months was your ex girl?

You telling half of the story breh. Just add details man.

Why you wanna know the details brah? I posted on the 1st page how the babys mom lied and tried to trap me by not telling me she had miscarried. The miscarriage happened obviously during or around the first trimester. 3-4 months. These are all the details you need homie. Aint tryna hide anything, and obviously I don't like delving to deeply into such a dark subject. Chill.
 

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My black queen is sleeping next to me as I type

Been engaged since July 12..almost 1 year :blessed:

Met at 12 and now we like 27 :-)

A dude preparing our food at the grocery store said "I didn't know love still existed" after he saw us messing around and hugging and shyt :whoo:

The dating game is hard outchea
 

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Why you wanna know the details brah? I posted on the 1st page how the babys mom lied and tried to trap me by not telling me she had miscarried. The miscarriage happened obviously during or around the first trimester. 3-4 months. These are all the details you need homie. Aint tryna hide anything, and obviously I don't like delving to deeply into such a dark subject. Chill.

YOU made the thread. though story telling may not be your strong suit.

Anybody can type some shyt, put black love in their and think it gravy. Bottom line, you dipped out. Shawty got prego, and instead of being there for your child and child mother. You couldn't handle the pressure. True, sometimes real men and women get hard to deal with baby mamas and stuff. But you stick it out. Thats what separate a man from a boy. Had the baby got here. Y'all don't want to be "together"......cool. long as you taking care of that child. But you dipped out, some men have it some don't.

You dont have it champ:yeshrug:

My short time here on the coli, I always see us hating and talking down on each other; pointing out flaws and how we fail as black men and women in regards to healthy relationships.
 
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YOU made the thread. though story telling may not be your strong suit.

Anybody can type some shyt, put black love in their and think it gravy. Bottom line, you dipped out. Shawty got prego, and instead of being there for your child and child mother. You couldn't handle the pressure. True, sometimes real men and women get hard to deal with baby mamas and stuff. But you stick it out. Thats what separate a man from a boy. Had the baby got here. Y'all don't want to be "together"......cool. long as you taking care of that child. But you dipped out, some men have it some don't.

You dont have it champ:yeshrug:

I'm confused. When did I ever say I wasn't gonna take care of my child had she lived? I was very prepared, excited and willing to handle my responsibilities towards the child. I think you're getting me not being with the babys mother confused with "dipped out". I was there for her and took care of everything she needed. We just were no longer in an intimate relationship. You don't know the story brah so respect that fact and don't assume and make silly insinuations like. But I'll let you cook and poke your imaginary holes though fam.
 

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I'm confused. When did I ever say I wasn't gonna take care of my child had she lived? I was very prepared, excited and willing to handle my responsibilities towards the child. I think you're getting me not being with the babys mother confused with "dipped out". I was there for her and took care of everything she needed. We just were no longer in an intimate relationship. You don't know the story brah so respect that fact and don't assume and make silly insinuations like. But I'll let you cook and poke your imaginary holes though fam.


Some of us can't handle the pressure, it's okay breh. Men do what they want. Boys do what they can.

:russ: at her sending you Valentine's gifts and diapers lol.

"Its okay, I understand you got a chick pregnant and we cant be in a relationship:mjlol:

But I'll send you stuff and drive and come see you:mjlol:


:stopitslime:

shawty just waiting on somebody worthy to be honest with you. I can see it in her eyes in that picture. :ohhh:

She ain yo wife yet right?:smugdraper:


ppst some more pics of ol gurl
 
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