I was going to start this same thread for the same reason! To contribute:
My husband and I have been together for 13 years, and we have the GOAT marriage. You know that feeling you have when you first meet somebody and everything is sunshine and flowers and happy feelings and you just fukking love that person and think they are the best collection of molecules to ever grace the face of the earth?
I've had that for 13 fukking years brehs!
He's my 6'3" Gawd. Slim, toned, sexy as fukk!
Friends tell us we're the standard for black love. They say were like best friends who get to fukk.
And let me tell you about the fukking...









If he tells me to jump, not only do I say, "How high?" I ask him if he needs me to get anything while I'm up there.
And he does the same for me.
He supported me through three natural childbirths, two at home, and delivered his own children. I mean this man pulled them out and the first human contact they had outside of the womb was their father.
We don't let each other stay stagnant or wallow in our own bullshyt. We push each other and have each started successful businesses.
Our four kids (15, 11, 6, 2) are smart, healthy, gorgeous, well-behaved, straight-A students and I know it has everything to do with the home life we provide.
ln short, my Black relationship is