'You're Not My Child" Mother Kicks Her Own Son Out The House On Live Once He Turned 18.. Called The

[Barlow]

coli will see a 30 year old woman twerking on IG and blame the parents, but see mom calling her son all types of nikkas, hoes and bytches and go "man he's dysfunctional, why he talking to her like that"
and yall wonder why kids dont respect "elders" anymore. like these kids just magically became disrespectful.


Is the father there? No. But thats the point, that nikka could be dead, in jail or not even known at all. All the kid sees is the person raising them, you cant be blaming a ghost for 18 years.
She had ample time to find a step father or mentor.

You cant be "my body, my choice", choose to have a kid, than take no responsibility. I see why alot of these rappers leave their mothers in the projects tbh.
Im so tired of people bringing life that didnt ask to be here and expecting them to be their doormats.

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

You're not getting my point. Men are the sole providers of the seed of life. The responsibility ultimately falls on us to choose who we give it to. Again, there's a big difference between just sex and making a child.

You looking at this from a basic perspective of options.

And it falls on the women to choose who they let give it to them

So now what?

 

[invalid]

A comment from WSSH.

Smh.

Damn.

Aside from trying to put him out, this is prime example of how parents can handicap their children by not giving them any life skills.

You should not be an 18 year old male with no plan.

Sad that he had to put his life off for over decade to do what he should have done at 18.

Not his fault but damn did he not have no drive?

All men have some type of drive. They should at least.

 

[Turbulent]

coli will see a 30 year old woman twerking on IG and blame the parents, but see mom calling her son all types of nikkas, hoes and bytches and go "man he's dysfunctional, why he talking to her like that"
and yall wonder why kids dont respect "elders" anymore. like these kids just magically became disrespectful.


Is the father there? No. But thats the point, that nikka could be dead, in jail or not even known at all. All the kid sees is the person raising them, you cant be blaming a ghost for 18 years.
She had ample time to find a step father or mentor.

You cant be "my body, my choice", choose to have a kid, than take no responsibility. I see why alot of these rappers leave their mothers in the projects tbh.
Im so tired of people bringing life that didnt ask to be here and expecting them to be their doormats.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Damn.

Aside from trying to put him out, this is prime example of how parents can handicap their children by not giving them any life skills.

You should not be an 18 year old male with no plan.

Sad that he had to put his life off for over decade to do what he should have done at 18.

Not his fault but damn did he not have no drive?

All men have some type of drive. They should at least.

There’s always two sides to every story but I’ve seen that scenario play out too often.

Chris Tucker had that joke during his Def Comedy Jam set:

“When you’re young, you’re mother’s special little boy, and once you turn 18 you become that nikka in the house?” He wasn’t lying.

I’ve seen the difference between those growing up in impoverished environments compared to those from privileged backgrounds: opportunity.

The stark difference is crazy. I had friends from both ends of the spectrum. One where they didn’t know if they would live to see 18, with a mother who hated them because they reminded them of their baby dad. An educational system that looks to expel them from as young as possible.

Then those who have little to no pressure apart from deciding whether to be a doctor, lawyer etc. Their parents support them and don’t want them to leave. They stay with their family until they have enough to move out with their fiancée/partner.

 

[Barlow]

Ima just be dead honest because I know where breh is coming from.

My mother decided she wanted to live her second childhood a few years after my little brother was born and when i was in my early teens. She was choosing aint shyt nikkas over us and bringing them thru the house. I didnt argue with her like the video, but i had an obligation to look after my brother so i told her straight up that i didnt like the dudes she had around. Thats when she ramped up the choking and hitting.

Some connection in my brain broke and a few months later the dude i told her about put her in the hospital and honestly i didnt feel shyt. Me and her are cool now but honestly i dont have that maternal love for her anymore.

you can say im fukked up, but im not bringing any babies that didnt ask to be here.

 

[DropTopDoc]

Like @ThrobbingHood said, it’s two sides to every story, she didn’t start acting that way today, he didn’t have that contempt for his mother starting that day, that looks like a lot of dysfunction that has been going on for a while, and it’s so cyclical

 

[CW_1991]

And it falls on the women to choose who they let give it to them

So now what?

Obviously both parties have to be responsible, but ultimately I put more responsibility on men. We're supposed to be the ones who ultimately lead the household and raise our children up with our wives to be positive and constructive members in their communities when they come of age and have families of their own. When you make up excuses and try to forfeit that responsibility as a man like you seem to be doing, you have a trickle-down effect that negatively impacts the community at large.

Look up the statistics on broken homes and the correlation that it has with mass incarceration and crime.

Look up the statistics on the millions of black aborted fetuses over the past decade or so.

If you want to wash your hands of all responsibility and say it's the woman's fault that their sons are out of control and will likely become slaves to the prison industrial complex or dead, fine. I can't make you think on a higher level

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

Obviously both parties have to be responsible, but ultimately I put more responsibility on men. We're supposed to be the ones who ultimately lead the household and raise our children up with our wives to be positive and constructive members in their communities when they come of age and have families of their own. When you make up excuses and try to forfeit that responsibility as a man like you seem to be doing, you have a trickle-down effect that negatively impacts the community at large.

Look up the statistics on broken homes and the correlation that it has with mass incarceration and crime.

Look up the statistics on the millions of black aborted fetuses over the past decade or so.

If you want to wash your hands of all responsibility and say it's the woman's fault that their sons are out of control and will likely become slaves to the prison industrial complex or dead, fine. I can't make you think on a higher level

I never said it’s all the women’s fault but if you have most of the power, you have most of the responsibility. End of story. Everyone gets that except fakkit male feminists (who ironically are the biggest sexists out there)

 

[CW_1991]

I never said it’s all the women’s fault but if you have most of the power, you have most of the responsibility. End of story. Everyone gets that except fakkit male feminists (who ironically are the biggest sexists out there)

What power? The power of options? Sure, but the man has the power to decide if he's going to impregnate her or not. If he's careless with his sperm and passes it off to some low-level female or if he's just a low-level irresponsible dude who doesn't have anything constructive to teach that child then all the problems start. No matter how you slice it it begins with the decision of the man. And again for like the third time, I'm not talking about sex. I'm talking about creating children.

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

What power? The power of options? Sure, but the man has the power to decide if he's going to impregnate her or not. If he's careless with his sperm and passes it off to some low-level female or if he's just a low-level irresponsible dude who doesn't have anything constructive to teach that child then all the problems start. No matter how you slice it it begins with the decision of the man. And again for like the third time, I'm not talking about sex. I'm talking about creating children.

You can’t create children without sex
Women control sex barring incidents of rape

What is so hard to understand?

Women can have hood dudes, religious dudes, nerdy dudes, career focused dudes, mature dudes, immature dudes, straight edge dudes, dudes with substance abuse issues, mild mannered dudes, hot tempered dudes, tall dudes, short dudes, fat dudes, skinny dudes, artsy dudes, athletic dudes, extroverted dudes, introverted dudes, dudes of all ethnicities

The world is their oyster. Men take what we can get. They’re the choosers. I literally can’t make this anymore simple. If a women is getting impregnated by low quality men despite having access to a wide spectrum of men, that is her fault. The man is at fault as well but the women is at fault more so because she had options.

If you’re the CEO of a company and have access to a wide variety of people to hire and you’re continually hiring people and giving them lots of power within your company without doing background/reference/personality test checks...and things go sideways, that is the CEOs fault and more of an indictment on his hiring skills than the talent pool of potential employees. If the CEO gives the janitor control over the companies finances and things flop, that’s more the CEOs fault than the janitors fault

 

[BXKingPin82]

use that shyt as motivation simple muthafukka.
"get up
get out
and get something."

 

[semicko82]

You can’t create children without sex
Women control sex barring incidents of rape

What is so hard to understand?

Women can have hood dudes, religious dudes, nerdy dudes, career focused dudes, mature dudes, immature dudes, straight edge dudes, dudes with substance abuse issues, mild mannered dudes, hot tempered dudes, tall dudes, short dudes, fat dudes, skinny dudes, artsy dudes, athletic dudes, extroverted dudes, introverted dudes, dudes of all ethnicities

The world is their oyster. Men take what we can get. They’re the choosers. I literally can’t make this anymore simple. If a women is getting impregnated by low quality men despite having access to a wide spectrum of men, that is her fault. The man is at fault as well but the women is at fault more so because she had options.

If you’re the CEO of a company and have access to a wide variety of people to hire and you’re continually hiring people and giving them lots of power within your company without doing background/reference/personality test checks...and things go sideways, that is the CEOs fault and more of an indictment on his hiring skills than the talent pool of potential employees. If the CEO gives the janitor control over the companies finances and things flop, that’s more the CEOs fault than the janitors fault

Whoomp there it is

 

[Turbulent]

The cycle has to be broken at some point. Now that this happened, it's up to him to learn not to dwell on this, to learn to forgive his parents so that the anger doesn't fukk him up, to learn how to be self reliant and to build a prosperous life for himself.

I pray that along his journey he finds guidance to take these steps. He still has his whole life in front of him.

 

[CW_1991]

You can’t create children without sex
Women control sex barring incidents of rape

Yeah, no shyt. But you can have sex without creating children. It's called contraceptives and condoms.

The world is their oyster. Men take what we can get. They’re the choosers.

Speak for yourself, I don't settle for just anything

I literally can’t make this anymore simple. If a women is getting impregnated by low quality men despite having access to a wide spectrum of men, that is her fault. The man is at fault as well but the women is at fault more so because she had options.

Right, because the woman controls the man's body and decisions and makes him do it? It's more so the man's fault.

It would also be that females father's fault for not being a positive role model so that she would know what sort of man to go for. And his fault again for choosing a woman who would allow their daughter to turn out in such a way. He chose that woman, he decided to impregnate that woman.

If you’re the CEO of a company and have access to a wide variety of people to hire and you’re continually hiring people and giving them lots of power within your company without doing background/reference/personality test checks...and things go sideways, that is the CEOs fault and more of an indictment on his hiring skills than the talent pool of potential employees. If the CEO gives the janitor control over the companies finances and things flop, that’s more the CEOs fault than the janitors fault

This analogy doesn't really work in this case. If anything the man would be the CEO because he's the one who leads the household, the one who's supposed to be the provider and protector, the one who has the power to gift the woman with a child. He's also the one who has more at stake if he doesn't choose wisely.

IE, being ran through the white man's court system. Possibly going to jail over it. Possibly losing the respect of your children. Possibly having your children molested by some strange man that the woman would bring into the household after you're out of the picture. Possibly not being able to see your children unless the female decides she will allow you to. Your child possibly growing up and becoming criminals or slaves to the prison industrial complex because they were never raised by a positive constructive father figure. And then the cycle repeats with their children and their children's children. And before you know it the entire Community is fukked up like it is today.

Broken homes.

It starts with the man. That's all I'm saying. Women have their part in it as well but ultimately it's the man who starts the cycle.