'You're Not My Child" Mother Kicks Her Own Son Out The House On Live Once He Turned 18.. Called The

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London baby.
Their dynamic reminds me of something my grandma used to remind me during training, “the father is the backbone of the household, and once removed, the family is crippled.”

It was never her job to raise him by herself.

This is a man who is going to struggle with discipline and anger when he steps out into the real world and no one is going to argue with him like she does; they’ll just get him removed from their premises via authorities.

He doesn’t have the tools to make it.
 
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Kick his sassy disrespectful ass out if he isn’t going to follow the rules established in the household....I don’t ask for much after 18 you need to be moving in a positive direction school/trade/something and respect the rules you can stay...If you aren’t doing anything positive yes you can go...

it is promised that I have to let you stay with me until you get your stuff together. But what you won’t do is disrespect me or your mother.

I agree.

There is no manual on parenthood tho.

My uncle tried so hard with my cousins and they were ungrateful and rebuffed his effort.

Sometimes even with the father there, the kids turn out bad.

He blames himself now that the youngest one is doing life and regularly chants the mantra, “don’t wait until the twig is a cane to bend it.”

He left it too late to put his foot down.
 
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Went thru this shyt too exactly at 18. Now it was a mix of a couple of things that i wont go into but
we cool now.

And i was the furthest thing from a bad kid, and thats 100 honest. I still dont understand why but there was alot going on
for a few years so i chalk it up to that. We cool now.
 
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If he stole from his OWN mother then he can’t be trusted.


There is an easy way to learn life lessons and a hard way. You don’t disrespect the woman who pit food on the table since you were baby by thieving under her household. So now he’ll learn the hard way.



shyt shouldn’t be on fukking live though:scust:
 

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Dysfunctional black family

no father at all, kid disrespectful.
Mom prob had the kid when she was 18 looking like a old thot still

kid will end up in jail or dead at a wart age or have a bunch of kids out of wedlock

sad
 

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Nah anglo cacs do it too. Some make their kids pay rent at a young age as a life lesson too.


I don’t see it practiced often, but sounded like a good idea to me: once they’re over 18 they pay rent if they stick around/don’t go to school/trade school, parents put that money away and return it to the child in full when they move out.

Assuming the parent(s) can afford it.
 

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I think @Lord Scarf ’s family supported him while he saved money.

The concept makes sense. We all know there’s a systemic issue at hand with the circumstance in the video though.

Edit: God willing, I’m going to support my future children as long as they need granted that they’re actually doing something with themselves.
 

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Ultimately I blame the father.:yeshrug:

Got to choose the right female to impregnate, got to be a present and constructive figure in the household with something to teach.

Dudes these days will nutt up in anything just because the ass fat and the p*ssy good. Don't take the time to really vet these females and their behavior.
I always blame the woman. She is the one that gets pregnant. These women let any dude fukk and nut up in them for the dumbest reasons. Then be surprised that he ain't shyt. Like he wasn't shyt from day one:russ:
 

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Damn.. you said that sis
:whoo:
my father was in the home, parents were married and my dad would go into panic mode if she left us alone with him for more than 4 hours :mjlol::mjlol:
She had to go to the hospital for in-patient surgery, he couldn’t cook for nothing - had us eating undercooked pancakes with the batter still oozing out when we went to eat it, after the first day he had my aunt stay with us until she recovered
:mjlol:
I was 6 yrs old and he’s calling me to help change my little brother’s diaper and warm up the baby bottles
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Picked up my kids from their father - had the baby’s onesie on backwards. I don’t know how he managed to do that bc it was the one with the little footies built into the outfit
:dwillhuh:

- I say all that to state that there’s a huge difference between raising a kid 24/7 day to day, over being there part time. Most of these dudes responding do not have kids- they wouldn’t begin to comprehend the complex nature of parenting. Real easy to judge what you’re not responsible for doing yourself and have not experienced. And it’s not always absent dads either-if a father is not emotionally available to the kid, that’s just as detrimental. I know kids from 2 parent, middle class households, good schools etc , that stayed in and out of juvie or sent up to alternative schools. Everyone is not built the same and every situation can’t apply to everyone. Parenting is not a damn choose your own adventure manual.
This facts. I don’t know how I would be if I had to be a single parent for 24 hours. shyts tough man. That’s why whenever I get off I go straight home and grab my son out his moms arms, cause I know she need her mental time for sure.
 
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