30+ year old brehs, what's your cutoff age

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Say the woman is a 24 year old nurse with her own money. Would your opinion change?
My ex-fiancee was 24 at the time we were together a is a RN. She made good money but still had a lot of growing up to do. I work in the medical field and I run into a lot of new grad nurses that are 21-23 are crazy and immature. Not saying every young woman is like that but a good amount are like that.
 

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Young nikkas stay saying this.

When you turn thirty, a couple of things should transform. You should be steady in career, actively building up your wealth in preparation for either a family or making retirement easy to accomplish in transition once you hit your 50s or 60s.

If you're serious like that then you'll be serious about the women you court. My judgment of most of the women I have met in their twenties is that a lot are too emotionally stir crazy and inept with their finances. I don't have time for any of it.. If you ain't helping to build then I have no use for you outside of what you present physically..and I'll probably disregard those offerings as well. I ain't getting trapped.

That's not true, there are plenty of 30+ who are single and stable financially and emotionally, the reason they're not married is basically because men in their age are running after young thirsty chicks. Young chicks are far more damaged than 30+ women and they're broke, that's worst:francis:

Eh, this isn't really true in my experience. A lot of women in their thirties may have graduated college or have a steady source of income but that does not mean they are financially stable (student loans, car loans, and other financial baggage these women are likely to have). Also take into account that a lot of women may want to exercise their new found freedom to not do shyt once they link up with a guy who has it all together.

Even if you date an MD/Lawyer with the condo and Lexus, she'll likely owe 80K in loans.

Two of my buddies married women my age (33) and neither one of them is with someone who provides anywhere near the financial stability they do.

Case 1: My boy met his girl at work (she's a couple years older), they hung out and dated for awhile, they moved to California. She stopped working, he did not. He makes six figures but pays rent ($2000+), car (Infiniti), and all other expenses considering she does not make a dime. She isn't really going to school, they don't have kids, and she isn't working.

Case 2: My boy met his girl at school (she is five or six years older), they dated. He graduated, married her, got a job at Google. She didn't work for awhile but eventually got a job as an assistant at a top school. She works a shyt paying job (fine) but also has a significant amount of outstanding loans. He shoulders the majority of their financial load and will likely end up paying off her loans.

Both girls were out there from late teens to mid twenties.

On the other hand, I also work with an early-30's white girl who makes six-figures and seems pretty on point.

But the first two scenarios are much more common than the 30+ guy meeting a 30+ woman with her finances together and head on straight.

It depends on what you consider damaged goods. Trust and believe that what you might consider damaged goods can apply to many single men over 30 as well

Yes, but we're talking about women.
 

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34 - 38 maturity, seasoning, longevity, practical life intelligence that can be applied in real life (I also would appreciate book smarts but not as much). A slight sexual attraction *might be in dangerous territory as a woman with this age group...don't want to get sprung as men at this age are typically most mentally/emotionally/sexually stimulating off the charts* Got to be careful here!

Yea, but see we knew all of this. Men from 31-45 age who are interested in having their shyt together are likely to be top notch.

But we discussing women.
 

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24-40...maybe a 43- in this era of immortal women hitting the gym and moisturizing to keep that skin youthful.

I told my bro...just because a chic is in her early 20's doesn't always make her a drain, dumb, or shallow. A 24 year old that is IG stuntin versus one that's midway through a masters degree; reveals a lot of gray space. Date within that gray space for well rounded younger women, or lean toward the club hopping IG insta's for the young and reckless ones.
 

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Yea, but see we knew all of this. Men from 31-45 age who are interested in having their shyt together are likely to be top notch.

But we discussing women.

And why can't I play too? Let me take my little ball and go play in another thread-sandbox then. :wtb:

ETA - Wait, hold up...you aren't even the T/S. :francis:
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