30+ year old brehs, what's your cutoff age

[A Woman's Opinion]

im 30 now and 23-27 is prime... 20-28 is tinder age range

jay was 30 beyonce was 19

Beyoncé was a 19 year old millionaire who traveled the world. Prior to dating her he was with "Free" from 106nPark. Closer to his age.

Please stop using them as an example. Their situation is extremely unique.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

No but it is true. Why on earth else would a great woman with great qualities remain unmarried into her 30's? It just makes no logical sense. Those women get scooped up mid 20's late 20's at most. 30's are the stragglers, and please believe she can put up a good front in the beginning but the horseshyt will come out eventually.

How old are you, 14?

Uh. Maybe she didn't want to get married before she turned 30? Most of the women I know didn't even consider or think about being married before they turned 30 even if they met the right man.
(Kandi Buress always says this when ppl would comment on her not being married before she met Todd)

As a married 30 year old woman myself... I know LOTS of women like this. They wanted to graduate from school, have their career, own property. Etc. Before they got married.

That way they didn't get themselves trapped in a situation/relationship they couldn't get out of, because they needed a man financially. (All of our grandmothers and great grandmothers warned us against doing this. Many of them
Stayed with their abusive husbands who were molesting their kids and cheating simply because they had no where to go, no education, and no way to turn)


So please believe every single 30 year old woman is not single because no good man wanted her when she was in her 20s. She prolly never planned on getting married before they age of 30.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

OK but the 20 year olds that are too emotionally stir crazy and inept with their finances don't magically change once they get older. Those unmarried spinsters are those previously 20 now 30 year old undesirables.

No. They don't "magically change" once they get older.

Maturity & life experiences change people.



Everyone is irresponsible at they age of 18-21. We all made bad financial decisions and relationship choices. Men included.

How old are you? You can't be over 25. If you are you know better. Are you as dumb now as you were at 20? Come on now.

IDK man I gotta disagree with this.

You gotta remember those young damaged chicks keep aging and become those 30+ damaged chicks. Women are like elephants, they never forget. They don't suddenly become "undamaged" just by crossing the age of 30 threshold.

I honestly think the problem with relationships comes down to social media. Everyone has this ideal relationship in their head that's not real and if they're in a situation that isn't "Facebook fabulous" then the grass starts looking greener pretty much anywhere. It's hard to keep something together when you or your partner have unrealistic expectations set by flaunting ass liars on instagram and whatnot.

/rant over

A damaged person is a damaged person, period. Regardless of age and gender.


But only a psycho has not matured or changed at 30 from their 20 year old self.

 

[sfgiants]

this age shyt is stupid
like being old excludes anyone from being immature and stupid
i dated a 23 year old in grad school with her own apartment who was light years more mature and responsible than bytches in their 30s

dumb ass shyt

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Also what's with the epidemic of broke women? Like I've only met maybe 2 women in the last two years who weren't perpetually broke. bytches with no retirement accts, no assets, flying to Miami or Vegas or NY every month, with a bank account balance that says -$13.19

Get yo shyt together, ladies.

Eh. I know some women who are broke. But even those "broke" women I know are hard working and responsible.

For example, They may be "house broke". Meaning... they have good jobs/careers, have their own car & place to live. But don't have money to take trips and all that other stuff often. Maybe once a year.


Men on the other hand?


Broke nikkaz have none of those things. They are broke, dependent, and irresponsible.

They have Jordan's and belts, but they live with their mother. Or baby mother and she holds down majority of the bills. He owes child support somewhere. Etc. always between his momma house and some girl he met a couple of months ago.


Get ya shyt together fellas.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

this age shyt is stupid
like being old excludes anyone from being immature and stupid
i dated a 23 year old in grad school with her own apartment who was light years more mature and responsible than bytches in their 30s

dumb ass shyt

With all due respect. She was the exception. Not the rule.

She probably had a very good foundation too. Meaning parents that could HELP her.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

That wasn't my point. My point was by the time you get in your 30s you might be considered damaged goods whether you think you are or not

Don't waste the key strokes.

Men NEVER think they are damaged goods.


Even though most women with standards consider them damaged goods if they have even ONE kid.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

18


Spare me the bullshyt



A fine chic is a fine chic

Right. Because looks are the ONLY thing these men should be concerned about, right?

 

[getmoney310cpt]

im 27 and dating bytches younger than me is hit or miss....these new age bytches play a dirty game....they think like nikkas now....if she listen to trap music she is going to play you one way or another....i dont care how classy she look if she play shyt like moneybag yo, yfn luci, gucci etc you in for trouble

 

[scarlxrd]

I'm 33 so 19? :shrugs:

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

18 - 22 for raw uninhibited energy, fun, exerting my dominance & blushing/laughs. No lust on my behalf but definitely appreciating the firm tauntness, freshness, & muscled body - eye candy.

26 - 30 for mutual raw sexual attraction/energy but can handle drawn out anticipation *as a woman I enjoy the feeling of buildup/anticipation more than the actual act*, fondness & mental stimulation but with friendly detachment.

34 - 38 maturity, seasoning, longevity, practical life intelligence that can be applied in real life (I also would appreciate book smarts but not as much). A slight sexual attraction *might be in dangerous territory as a woman with this age group...don't want to get sprung as men at this age are typically most mentally/emotionally/sexually stimulating off the charts* Got to be careful here!

42 - 48 Just so sociable, unpretentious masculinity, confident, independent and chivalrous - I can even get my Princess on and be indulged.

50 - 55 Feel really admired, doted on, enjoy him feeling his wishes for younger days in my presence, lol. Quiet time, wisdom, and being appreciated. No sex.

I'm sure in the next 5-10, my life spared, my thoughts will shift on this age range cut off thing.

Please expound on this if possible.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

18



Nah im playing... Idk, depends on the girl. I don't think I've ever talked or been in the position to talk to anyone younger than 24.

My dad dating a chick like 2 years younger than me though

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Eh. I know some women who are broke. But even those "broke" women I know are hard working and responsible.

For example, They may be "house broke". Meaning... they have good jobs/careers, have their own car & place to live. But don't have money to take trips and all that other stuff often. Maybe once a year.


Men on the other hand?


Broke nikkaz have none of those things. They are broke, dependent, and irresponsible.

They have Jordan's and belts, but they live with their mother. Or baby mother and she holds down majority of the bills. He owes child support somewhere. Etc. always between his momma house and some girl he met a couple of months ago.


Get ya shyt together fellas.

It's all personal (anecdotal) experience, I guess.

I know zero broke dudes like the ones you describe. Living with their momma or off their girl? ? Maybe cause I'm older. I did live with my folks after college when I was broke, for example.

OTOH, at least half the women I know are the ones I've described. Living instagram fabulous lives whilst racking up cc debt.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Please expound on this if possible.

Hi, I don't mind explaining further...what else specifically do you want to know about my thoughts on men in this particular age group?

I think they are more experienced in life than younger age ranges but necessarily older men but sufficient enough to make informed intelligent life decisions, settled/know where they are going & how to get there, can navigate women without the awkwardness/messy games/know how to seamlessly rotate different women, are knowledgeable in a variety of topics/book smart, are more sexually appealing/adept at this age.

This is what I have gathered, from this age range, in my personal experience with one serious boyfriend, guys who were interested but things never left the ground (I have a habit of running away from guys that I'm highly attracted to - yes, I know it's weird/odd but I don't know how else to handle the overwhelming feeling and until I do, then I will be detached because I feel safer emotionally being in control) and platonic male friends.
It's the 'ideal' age range for me...if I could overcome my inhibitions and fears...one day.
The other age ranges I navigate with no problems at all and come out unscathed/intact.

 

[ndthentherewasx]

Right. Because looks are the ONLY thing these men should be concerned about, right?

Obviously not but that's how things usually begin, with some type of attraction