Admitted to cheating on my GF, where do I go from here?

[Jamesmac91]

We're broken up now.
I feel sick to my stomach.

This has been my girlfriend of 4 years and best friend of 9 years.

I didn't get caught and I doubt I would have gotten caught, but I kept telling myself that I was a coward for not telling her.

Thought I was doing the right thing but now I feel like I made the wrong decision and did serious emotion damage to her for no reason. I could have just broken up with her and let her have that peace of mind.

Never cheated before and don't know what happens from here, really want input from other people that have gone through similar situations.

We haven't talked since I confessed last night, I see that she's erased me off all her social media. I really want to talk to her again and continue to tell her how sorry I am, not because I want her back but I just want to do whatever makes her hurt less.

Or do I need to just let her have her space?

 

[Diondon]

Like I tell nikkas, if she takes you back, be prepared for some revenge dikk
Can you handle that?
Good luck

 

[Shabazz]

Back to your mommas crib

 

[The5thLetter]

Sounds like u told her to assuage ur own guilt. Now she'll have to deal w the pain, insecurity, resentment and everything else that will follow while u feel a sense of relief for telling her If u get back together that trust is gone. U should've either moved on or if u wanted to stay then stop cheating.

 

[Jamesmac91]

Sounds like u told her to assuage ur own guilt. Now she'll have to deal w the pain, insecurity, resentment and everything else that will follow. If u get back together that trust is gone. U should've either moved on or if u wanted to stay then stop cheating.

So I shouldn't have told her

 

[J.E.T.S]

Like I tell nikkas, if she takes you back, be prepared for some revenge dikk
Can you handle that?
Good luck

You know it!

Better yet. During this break... she's more than likely out doing some very nasty things, probably with a coworker because women usually hook up with people they already know.

And if she decides to forgive you. She'll PROBABLY tell you about it, but you can't get mad. Don't ask what she did while broke up either, "its none of your business because we weren't together. "

You ain't gonna be able to handle that shyt breh. lol

 

[J.E.T.S]

So I shouldn't have told her

You fukked up.

 

[The5thLetter]

So I shouldn't have told her

Depends on why u did it.
If my partner told me just so he could sleep at night while I'm stuck w knowing of the betrayal forever I'd be pissed. If u felt guilty enough to tell then what u prob shoulda did was bounce or stop doin it.

 

[ORDER_66]

Why you asking us? Handle this shyt on your own... once you admit to cheating on this woman, what incentives does she have to trust you again, you might as well toss this entire thing into the bushes...

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

So I shouldn't have told her

can't answer that but why you did it was for selfish reasons just know that. you didn't do it for her benefit..

I thought about telling one time I'm not a cheater but I've been there. I was feeling the guilt of betrayal

broke up with the girl instead.

 

[MikelArteta]

You're cheating scum tough luck nikka , doing the right thing would have been keeping your dikk in your pants instead of betraying your so called best friend and love of your life over some puzzy.

Iife is to short for anyone to trust someone again who has cheated on them. You only admitted it to relieve your guilt, let your faithful now ex get a breh who will treat her right

 

[WaveGang]

You ain't no rapper

Why da fukk u snitching on yourself lol

 

[Jamesmac91]

I don't think I want to get back with her.
We had problems with sexual chemistry and had no solution in site.

I should have broke up with her before this happened.

I just want to know what I can do now to make this less ugly.

 

[Abstract83]

Give her some space. Shes probably processes everything and going thru the motions. If she loves u she'll contact u to get clarity on everything. If not she'll just move on. Thats some courage to admit ur mistakes. shyt is hard to do when ur careless out here. But like I said give her some space for awhile.

 

[Jamesmac91]

Give her some space. Shes probably processes everything and going thru the motions. If she loves u she'll contact u to get clarity on everything. If not she'll just move on. Thats some courage to admit ur mistakes. shyt is hard to do when ur careless out here. But like I said give her some space for awhile.

Don't reach out to her at all? Wait for her to talk to me for how long?

And I thought this confession was gonna go a lot differently. Early in the relationship she cheated and I had to find out on my own, I didn't get angry I just charged it to the game and said it was proof that we weren't supposed to be in a relationship but we can still be friends.

We got past that and got back together, but I always told myself if I cheated I would admit to it because I would never want to have her find out on her own and feel the way I felt.