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Lol I was just joking. Are you trying to go to Howard though? I know several people who go there and could give you some tips on getting in. I would have applied, but they didnt have my intended major.
"All Girls Are The Same": What Makes A Woman Typical or Boring To You?
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Lol I was just joking. Are you trying to go to Howard though? I know several people who go there and could give you some tips on getting in. I would have applied, but they didnt have my intended major.
I don't mind paying.
Just atleast offer to pay
Just atleast offer to pay
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Yup.
The type who even list travel as a hobbie are also culprits, they go to x country and stick to resorts. Boring af.
Things that make her standout:I've heard lots of guys say that most girls they've dated are boring, typical ("all girls are the same") or have no personality. I usually think they mean boring to talk to. In my opinion, men usually have better social skills than women beacause they have to.
Anyway, In your opinion, what makes a girl boring and/or typical (actions/reactions, things they say)? What makes a convo with a woman boring/typical? What things do women do that make you say they're "all the same"?
What would make a girl different to you? What would make her not seem typical/boring or just like every other woman that you've dated? What would make her stand out to you and consider "locking her down" or "wifing" her?
Answer my questions please
I'm positive repping everyone who answers all of the questions in depth. lol pls do.
I used they instead of we, I know, I took myself out while writing.
- ambition - You gotta want to do something with your life
- sense of humor/cleverness - I'm sure most guys will tell you they don't know too many funny/clever woman. I'm legit surprised when a woman says some clever shyt to me. I'm always like
- intelligence - Intelligence/cleverness are somewhat intertwined in my opinion. But I can always appreciate a woman that has an opinion on life and is well spoken
- open to trying new things
- nonjudgemental
- not overly sensitive and can handle pressure
EpicStoryTeller
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I never said it was an issue before you jump down my throat, I said some might consider that boring because every 3 in 5 females take the easy road by jumping on nursing programs when they have no real interest in the field. Some men actually want a woman who isn't the norm.
Stop trying to start a argument, that's not what I commented for.
EpicStoryTeller
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This THIS! A lot of women these days settle for being boring because they want men to make their lives exciting, but when they meet the men who posses qualities like the ones above they don't know how to correspond. They end up being boring to the man and you know how the story plays out after.Things that make her standout:
- ambition - You gotta want to do something with your life
- sense of humor/cleverness - I'm sure most guys will tell you they don't know too many funny/clever woman. I'm legit surprised when a woman says some clever shyt to me. I'm always like
- intelligence - Intelligence/cleverness are somewhat intertwined in my opinion. But I can always appreciate a woman that has an opinion on life and is well spoken
- open to trying new things
- nonjudgemental
- not overly sensitive and can handle pressure
EpicStoryTeller
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You are or were either 1. A Tom boy 2. A lonerI have a problem with that because I don't have a lot of female friends simply because I'm into a lot of things that the typical female isn't into because i grew up in a male dominated family (my dad and three brothers, no sisters). For example, my little brother and I stayed up until 4am talking about the comic book movie/video game industry. I can't think of a lot of females, even my closest females friends that I do have, I can do that with.
Then again, I usually hang out with either my boyfriend or my brother and his friends so
A lot of women don't have female friends, but it's also not a good look if a woman doesn't have a single female friend and all male friends. I included it because women are saying more and more " I dont have girl friends" and it's nice when my girl friend or female associates have lady friends for my male friends.
It's gonna be pretty awkward if me and the boys are hanging out and my lady is the only girl there
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FYI, I was a nurse. Unless she went to an actual 4 year university, she's probably in the same boat as the thots I went to nursing school with that had nothing to do but that to get out of their moms/baby daddy house.
I play call of duty
But I think a lot of the things you all are claiming are boring about females I agree with. I don't have many friends that are obsessed with social media, and I've found guys are just as obsessed too.
I don't know where you all meet such a concentration of these types of women though. But I'm guilty of some of these things too lol. I like traveling, and who doesn't like brunch?!
You know what sucks about men and women these day's? We dont want a partner we want entertainment.
I don't need my women to entertain me, if we can have stimulating conversation I'm golden. As long as she isn't a air head that cares more about Love and hiphop and money then I'm good. She doesn't have to contemplate what space holds, or be financially ambitious, she doesn't have to be crazy smart or anything so superficial
Just be a down to earth genuine person with common sense, morals and some desire to be a better human being that is interested in me like I'm interested in them.
Ironically that's really hard to find nowadays.
I don't need my women to entertain me, if we can have stimulating conversation I'm golden. As long as she isn't a air head that cares more about Love and hiphop and money then I'm good. She doesn't have to contemplate what space holds, or be financially ambitious, she doesn't have to be crazy smart or anything so superficial
Just be a down to earth genuine person with common sense, morals and some desire to be a better human being that is interested in me like I'm interested in them.
Ironically that's really hard to find nowadays.
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EpicStoryTeller
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Maybe you aren't aware of how boring you areI play call of duty
But I think a lot of the things you all are claiming are boring about females I agree with. I don't have many friends that are obsessed with social media, and I've found guys are just as obsessed too.
I don't know where you all meet such a concentration of these types of women though. But I'm guilty of some of these things too lol. I like traveling, and who doesn't like brunch?!
and hearing a woman say they are a gamer because they play COD can be a real mood killer for some men who are real gamers lol and even a deal breaker.Put it like this, if you were a hiring manager and you looked at 4 resumes with the exact same skill, format, and past jobs you are most likely going to be a little annoyed that you didn't have at least 1 candidate who was different from the rest and brings some type of flavor to your company.
EpicStoryTeller
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Is there a pot of gold at the end f the rainbow as well?
In all seriousness this is all a lot of men want in a lady, problem is some women think men like that are boring. There really needs to be some type of gathering where black men and women can meet up and hopefully find a match. I really would put something together if it were in my power.
I'm in college for 3D Animation and everyone seems awesome, unique and interesting. 9/10 times if you think all men are stupid/primitive and all women are lacking/vain it's because you're spending time in the wrong environment.
EpicStoryTeller
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What school you attending?
Digital Media Arts College in South Florida