"All Girls Are The Same": What Makes A Woman Typical or Boring To You?

[N711oir]

I am a girl.

I know what you claim to be I asked had it been confirmed? Self proclamations are rather meaningless

This isn't about what a woman should be. Trying to be what a male wants isn't a good idea anyway.

It's good if you aren't trying to become a cat lady.

I make lots of dating/relationship threads (mostly about cheating) asking for male . That is what I use this site for. To ask for male opinions. When I want female opinions on these things, most of the time I go to lsa.

I guess I just didn't get your angle or shtick you must be the young Mary J. Blige of the Coli


Only advise i could give is enhance your patented move when you take hot Nut shot to the face don't swipe I want you to lick

 

[Throwbacksample]

As long as a woman is open to new things she will never be boring.

To an extent...a chick can be open to new things but if the chick is dumb as rocks with no sense of humor, she will get boring.

 

[Blackout]

To an extent...a chick can be open to new things but if the chick is dumb as rocks with no sense of humor, she will get boring.

If she is "dumb" but is open then she can learn by exposing her to knowledge.

If she has no sense of humor but is open then she can get one by exposing her to comedies.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

My hobbies are conducting research to find the cure to HIV/AIDS
I opened an orphanage in South Carolina last year
I enjoy watching weekly debates on CSPAN
I am a professor at Howard University and running for Mayor

I hope I'm not boring

u a professor at HU?

 

[agnosticlady]

u a professor at HU?

LOL no, but I think after working in my field of speech pathology or occupational therapy for a while I want to teach sime classes at a University level. I am planning on living in the NorthEast area. I am really interested in conducting research and writing peer reviewed articles\journals.

 

[Lo-Co]

Boring is someone is someone who has no actual hobbies. Someone who has no interest in expanding their parameters to find new interesting things, to find some new possibility of fun an entertainment.
I like to have an open mind and I'm open yo trying new things. Eating new foods. Doing new things for fun.
Someone who can't be by themselves for a day and find entertainment on their own. Someone who can't or won't even try to keep up a conversation or just has little input.
I'll at least try to dig for a diamond in the grounds of conversation. But after a while it gets exhausting.


I can't necessarily call it all off the top of my head, but someone who doesn't feel the need to keep up with the trends, who has her own lane, someone who isn't afraid to express their opinion, someone who's self worth isn't defined by what others think of her. Someone who can be blunt when its needed. Someone who's the opposite of the cons in the first question.

 

[PortCityProphet]

My hobbies are conducting research to find the cure to HIV/AIDS
I opened an orphanage in South Carolina last year
I enjoy watching weekly debates on CSPAN
I am a professor at Howard University and running for Mayor

I hope I'm not boring

Let me be your campaign manager. I got you girl

 

[Music Fiend]

I've heard lots of guys say that most girls they've dated are boring, typical ("all girls are the same") or have no personality. I usually think they mean boring to talk to. In my opinion, men usually have better social skills than women beacause they have to.

Anyway, In your opinion, what makes a girl boring and/or typical (actions/reactions, things they say)? What makes a convo with a woman boring/typical? What things do women do that make you say they're "all the same"?

What would make a girl different to you? What would make her not seem typical/boring or just like every other woman that you've dated? What would make her stand out to you and consider "locking her down" or "wifing" her?


Answer my questions please


I'm positive repping everyone who answers all of the questions in depth. lol pls do.




I used they instead of we, I know, I took myself out while writing.

These two types of boring women imo.

There's boring in the sense of a lack of energy and theres boring in the sense of a lack of activity.

Usually the boring ones who lack energy IMO are not boring ppl per say, they are just guarded/reserved and hard to get to know and don't have good convo. You know the type who feels you have to earn getting to know them. Ego that doesn't match their esteem. one on one they come off boring because they don't really reveal anything about themselves. usually tho with a few drinks they become much more revealing of who they are.

Then theres the ones who lack activity. The typical "focused" woman who doesn't really live life. You know the type to go to college/work mon-fri, come home and watch netflix and just kick back. Boring friends and lack of hobbies.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Personally, when a women can't have a interesting conversation that's boring to me. some examples would be like
1) Whst do you think about the water crisis in Flint Michigan?
2) What about the Iran prisoner swaps do you agree or disagree?
3) what would you change about our healthcare system?

Not having stimulating debates is boring.

Another example: what are your favorite hobbies? Having no hobbies outside of looking beautiful is boring.

Stuff like this just adds up. If I just wanted some p*ssy I would try and get a Fukk buddy. But for a relationship you have to have some intellectual depth plus some hobbies. Anything else is just boring.

 

[Giselle]

What would make a girl different to you? What would make her not seem typical/boring or just like every other woman that you've dated? What would make her stand out to you and consider "locking her down" or "wifing" her?

Just not being a bird brained idiot makes you different from 90% of other women. Well for example my current GF of 1 year 1/2 stands out too me a lot. She has volunteered and cooked for the homeless every Saturday morning since she was 15( shes 22 now). This let's me know she's a kind spirited person on top of all the other things she does for me. example Showing up to my job with my favorite meal, always siding with me. And most importantly letting me be a man. Never telling me no, or shes "too tired" for sex. Also she isn't prissy, entitled or frail and handles pressure extremely well for a woman i love her.

How long did it take you to recognize that she was different?

But for real on the serious tip

If she has no knowledge of self, no pride in her blackness, and doesn't at least have a MILD curiosity towards black history or culture I'm going to lose interest REAL quick.


A woman who doesn't have a backbone. I was dating this woman who was super cool, but she let any and everybody take advantage of her. She was getting sexually harassed by her boss and wouldn't do ANYTHING about it but complain to me. Her best friend was taking advantage of her, borrowing money and not paying her back. Her roommate was chumping her. I remember a time where she was low on money and had no food so I brought some groceries for her to get by for the week, her roommate ate ALL that shyt and she didn't want to confront her. I'm like "this bytch ate ALL the food I brought for YOU and your scared to set her straight?!!?"


Couldn't do it brehs

I can't stand weak/pushover/doormat women either.
This reminds me of this book.

Unfortunately, most women never had to really pick up any real hobbies or interests to get attention from men. They just had to show up. Most women I meet say the same ish..."I like brunch, online shopping, reality TV, "travel" aka go to Miami or the islands to take photos for IG and FB, "career driven", etc". I know what to expect when I meet a regular, college educated woman for the first time.

to be fair, a lot of brehs are the same too and have nothing out of the norm going on...most people are average...I really find that people who read a lot have more interesting things to talk about....and I don't mean Harry Potter books or erotica....most people don't read

What do you expect?
I agree that people who read have more interesting things to talk about.
What did you mean when you said "most women never had to really pick up any real hobbies or interest to get attention from men"? Males get hobbies to attract women?
I think most women lack social skills and aren't really good at communicating with the opposite sex. Men usually have to do all of the work, start/lead the convo, have/show personality be funny and entertaining. If they aren't, they won't really be able to date many women. Women don't usually have to have/show any of that to get male attention, but I do think they need it to keep it/him or to keep a relationship going. Women improving their social skills could help at work too.

My hobbies are conducting research to find the cure to HIV/AIDS
I opened an orphanage in South Carolina last year
I enjoy watching weekly debates on CSPAN
I am a professor at Howard University and running for Mayor

I hope I'm not boring

wow

You do a lot. It sounds like you're really smart too. You sound busy, not boring.

 

[iBrowse]

I don't deal with a female like the ones nikkas complain about here

 

[Reginald Noble]

Your membership will be reviewed asap

What is the criteria for expulsion?

 

[ben anderson]

How long did it take you to recognize that she was different?

on the first date actually. she refused to let me buy her food( if i offer to take a girl out i always pay.) I was like then . Then we talked for a few hours about actual meaningful things. After we asked for the check, she left her money out for her half of the bill. I put it back in her purse and paid for it. She didn't realize until after i dropped her offshe hasn't stopped calling me since.

 

[ben anderson]

My hobbies are conducting research to find the cure to HIV/AIDS
I opened an orphanage in South Carolina last year
I enjoy watching weekly debates on CSPAN
I am a professor at Howard University and running for Mayor

I hope I'm not boring

can you finesse me into howard?

 

[Action Mike]

Men that say that either have very little experience with women, or they keep dating the same type of women. The problem is usually with the men and not the women they're dating. There's someone for everyone, keep trying, change it up a little bit and you'll meet them eventually.