You're only a c00n when you try to demean those who don't fit your preference(which happens the majority of time with rac-niggs).
Colorstruck men are one of my number one turn offs.When black men compare me to Kelly Rowland, I roll my eyes even though they mean it as a compliment when they approach me.The only reason they say that is because we're both dark skin.Can you see me for more than my skin tone, please?I am not my skin tone.It's funny how black men don't want to be judged by society by their "blackness," but when it comes to dating, skin tone is something a number of them they quickly take heed to.
How ever, there was one time when I was told "You cute, you look like a dark skin Patti Mayonaise."
I couldn't even be mad, I found it hysterical.