I just dont get why it all comes back to us as if we're opressing you and viewing you as inferior.
It's used to deflect.
Point blank, period.
You come across any black person with contempt in their heart for white people and/or other groups, and it's almost guaranteed that it's a case of hate creating hate.
Marginalize and actively terrorize a group of people who are powerless and when they began approaching interactions with you skeptically and develop hatred for those who look like you, just point and scream "You're the real racist!"
It keeps people from looking in the mirror and keep the status quo. AAs have all the reason in the world to exercise prejudice.
Being radical and aggressive is the only way their condition will ever change which is why their is such a movement to qualify blacks as "racist" and to "turn the other cheek."
It's used to deflect and pacify. The goal is to make you expend your energy defending yourself so you won't have the energy to address the crux of the issue, and they won't have to defend themselves.
Other races (and even other black people) are scared shytless of AAs rocking the boat and demonstrating the same tenacity, prejudice and aggressiveness to get ahead as every other race and group (from the LGBT community, to immigrant Nigerians, Indians, ect, to the Jewish community and White people) does and has.