Being told you're cute for a big girl

[Ain't That Something]

I'Ve Been Called Rude Before But That Bc I Dont Mince My Words. If A Person Is Big She Is Big Brehs. Back In My Ski.Ny Days Mofos Use To Call Me A Skinny nikkas All The Time Did That Make Them Wrong No. I Just Got In The Gym And Got My Weight Up. Rather Blunt Honesty Then A Misguided Lie. You Cute But You Are Big, Change That And Lose Weight.

 

[Poitier]

So OP got exposed as also being behind the @Obsession alias

@StLady

 

[Dwolf]

I describe myself as black, so if someone says you're cute for a black guy I can't get mad?
Yes being big is a changeable characteristic but it's still rude to say. I'm skinny but if some girl was like you're cute for a toothpick I'd be like

You trying to make it like a physical characteristic is just as bad as someone pointing out your race. Its not

 

[SouthernBelle]

You trying to make it like a physical characteristic is just as bad as someone pointing out your race. Its not

Both have negative connotations...that's the point. It's rude.

 

[Ooh Marty]

I've said it to other ppl about white girls but never to there face but I guess a more accurate example would be you've "you've got a nice butt... For a white girl"
Happy?

Not happy at all because u tried to make it seem as though black men and white women find it hard to found attractive in America when actually its the other way around

Yo i'mma start sayin that shyt.

cuz shyt ain't fair out here

 

[Dwolf]

Both have negative connotations...that's the point. It's rude.

When you put it that way.....

I guess thats just a bad analogy to me.

 

[Ice Cold]

lol...the most frequent backhand compliment that I hear from black people is, "she/you are cute/pretty for a dark skinned girl"

Lol I think you're probably right

Not happy at all because u tried to make it seem as though black men and white women find it hard to found attractive in America when actually its the other way around

Lol I just chose random examples I wasn't trying to make a representative statement.
I didn't mean for it to be deeper than that.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

People have different view on whats attractive and whats not.

You're cute for a _____________

This means they see the group of people you're associated with unattractive. But, at least they think you're attractive. Nikkas/bytches out here just being called ugly with their best clothes on.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

People use qualifiers all the time. They're only offensive when you get slapped in the face with one. Separate the compliment from the backhand and move around.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Jesus fukking Christ.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

You look cute for a big girl

lol sounded like old boy was spitting game.

He was basically giving you a compliment but bringing you down a peg at the same time. Lots of girls are subconsciously attracted to that shyt and will try to seek your approval.

 

[Jone2three45]

So OP got exposed as also being behind the @Obsession alias

@StLady

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

How big are you? How much do you weight?

 

[mrken12]

My hisband introduced me to one of his coworkers. After the meeting he told my husband he thought I would be shorter, darker, and more boned.

Not sure if that was a compliment or insult towards me or my husband

 

[chief_keef_stan]

So OP got exposed as also being behind the @Obsession alias

@StLady

how are nikkas missing this lmao