Being told you're cute for a big girl

[Dwolf]

yep basically

Hypocrite. Just be glad they didnt call you cute for a fat chick.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

Well, It could be worse, ladies... You could be a fat man and not be sexualized at all unless you're rich and or famous/powerful. Be grateful that men still find you attractive.

 

[Arabial Knight]

don't have full body pics

Why don't you take some

 

[Ice Cold]

Yeah that's a mean thing to say, to me it's not really different from saying "You're cute for a white girl" or "You're cute... for a black guy"
If she's cute she's cute, if she's big she's big no need to throw in these insulting qualifiers. Y'all can call me a simp if you want but you wouldn't want someone saying that about your sister

 

[MekaCatt]

Not saying it's all their fault but if your child is 100 pounds and still in primary school wouldn't you do something?

My coworkers godson is 8 years old and wears a size 42 pant in men. The shyt is ridiculous and disgusting.

 

[pickles]

it started when I was a little kid and my parents never pushed me to be active or work out or taught me how to eat healthy so I didn't have a good foundation and it got worse as I got older....

No offense but it is never too late to start. Also you are making excuses, stop blaming others. You are your own person.



Mannnnnn I am holding my tongue on what I want to say to your original comment. Stay fluffy or "thick" or whatever the big girls are called nowadays. Since I can't use the F word.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

no worse than ud be cute if ud smile sometimes

 

[Remote]

My coworkers godson is 8 years old and wears a size 42 pant in men. The shyt is ridiculous and disgusting.

Child abuse?
Letting an 8 year old get that big is just crazy

 

[Luke Cage]

Op can get it though.

 

[StLady]

No offense but it is never too late to start. Also you are making excuses, stop blaming others. You are your own person.



Mannnnnn I am holding my tongue on what I want to say to your original comment. Stay fluffy or "thick" or whatever the big girls are called nowadays. Since I can't use the F word.

I already stated that I did start... not making excuses stating facts if a child is not shown a healthy lifestyle they won't know what it is....

 

[Desirous]

no worse than ud be cute if ud smile sometimes

I think that's different. If they said "You're cute even with those big/crooked/yellow/small teeth" then yah. It's just not really a genuine compliment so might as well not say anything at all imo...cause to say "for a big, white, black etc" girl insinuates that typically, those types are unattractive.

 

[360dagod]

big girls who sit on my face

 

[Diondon]

That person lacked class and tact.

 

[Remote]

big girls who sit on my face

 

[sanityovar8ted]

I think that's different. If they said "You're cute even with those big/crooked/yellow/small teeth" then yah. It's just not really a genuine compliment so might as well not say anything at all imo...cause to say "for a big, white, black etc" girl insinuates that typically, those types are unattractive.

i feel its backhanded cuz usually when someone says this to me they are really catching me at a bad time cuz im really a jolly person