god shamgod
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That obsession chick disappears then this chick pops up both from st louis both inquiring peoples opinions on big girls 
Being told you're cute for a big girl
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Its very different cause that shyt is racist. Also she called herself big, she can't really get mad if people call you what you describe yourself as.
Some people really lack social tact. Whether or not you are chubby, thats not something you say to someone you just met
USSInsiders
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knew where you were going with it as soon as I saw "chip"
what are you talking about and I'm not asking for anybody's opinions just told something that happened to me.... have a nice day thoughThat obsession chick disappears then this chick pops up both from st louis both inquiring peoples opinions on big girls
USSInsiders
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Not fat just bulking
stepbackj34spud
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I remember this chick was like 2 shades dark than me, and told me " youre cute for a darkskin guy "
I think people in general doesnt understand the concept for " for a whatever "
If another bytch the same complexion as me or darker calls me blackass again I'm going on a killing spree.
Desirous
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If you're big, you're big. If you're slim, you're slim. If you're black, you're black. If you're white, you're white. I don't think that by pointing these obvious things out they're telling you something you don't know...just insinuating that usually this type is undesirable to them, but "you're the exception" which really isn't a compliment at all, I don't think. It's like, "how surprising that you can actually be cute AND big at the same time, cause usually big people are ugly by default of being big."
Did you tell this person they were rude, or did you say nothing and come on here to vent?
BlvdBrawler
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I told them they were rude, out of line, and if I wanted all of that I would have asked
Being told you look good for some attribute you have no control over is not the same thing.
Desirous
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So what if it's phrased differently? "You're cute for a pale girl" - technically, said girl can get a tan and no longer be pale...there's bleaching, tanning, etc...while we cannot control the race we are, we can control our look...but why insinuate someone has to change something about him/herself just to be considered attractive?
USSInsiders
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Aren't you Somali though?
you guys can't help it Who knows you could always be an extra in a Black Hawk Down sequel or become a world-class long distance runner
LolAren't you Somali though?
Who knows you could always be an extra in a Black Hawk Down sequel or become a world-class long distance runner
Took me 3 years of hard training to get to 185