First off, the general idea that children born to unwed parents are doomed. Comes from an old study that has since been thoroughly debunked. And even the original study didn't make any of the claims, that became the "single parent" rhetoric common in American discourse today. The study talked about the governments roll in dismantling families, and the effects of that on the communities. Racist white folks at the time took that report and spinned it into, "black people having too many out of wedlock kids". Basically the report talked about it as a SYMPTOM and racist cacs turned it into THE CAUSE to deflect from the systemic oppression of black people.
So from the jump we are starting with a faulty premiss. Regardless of what the out of wedlock rate is, it doesn't mean what you've been told it does. When real studies are done and adjusted for income level. "Out of wedlock" kids perform at a very similar level to non"out of wedlock" kids.
Next. The number is a ratio. The rhetoric is that the irresponsible pregnancy situation is getting worse in the black community. And as you can see in the table above that's not true. Young black women are much more responsible sexually than they were in the past. The reason the ratio has gone up is that married women are waiting longer to have babies and they are having less babies. In the past a woman would get married young and basically have babies for the next 10-15 years. Now married women are more likely to have a career so they are only having one or two babies. So while unwed teen pregnancies are down, married pregnancies are WAY down. Which makes the ratio go up. Just presenting that ratio without the context behind it is what makes the number misleading.
3rd. The "out of wedlock" rate really isn't accurate if you want to assess the situation of kids growing up with one parent. The "out of wedlock" rate doesn't adjust for kids who live with both parents who aren't married, or kids who's parents got married after the birth of the child, or kids who may live with a stepparent. Neither does the rate tell you which kids actually have a healthy relationship with both parents. A kid in a home where the parents are abusive to each other and the kid, is not better off than a kid born to a loving single parent with a good support system. So the "out of wedlock" rate really tells you nothing about the plight of the kids. The only real conclusions you can draw from the number are marriage trends.
Finally. The rhetoric is that the "out of wedlock" rate is harming communities, does not agree with the actual numbers. As the "out of wedlock rate" has risen in the black community, educational and economic achievement has also risen. If the "out of wedlock" rate was such a detriment to the community, then we would see young people achieving less as that ratio rises. The opposite is happening.
So as an intelligent person who now has more context/info. You need to ask yourself "why was I misled?" "why would a person manipulate the numbers and facts to paint a negative picture of young black women and communities?"
Think about it
As well as the study that black father's spend more time with their children than other race fathers.