Bridesmaid, 31, hanged herself after struggling to cope with seeing her friends get married...

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It be like that sometimes. I don't think people realize the pressure you feel as a woman to "settle" down and the stigma associated with it not happening according to society's timeline. It can be very difficult because as a woman, that's really all you're expected to do in life. You could be a neurosurgeon and the first thing you'll be asked is "When are you going to settle down and have kids?"
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Sad how gender expectations, cast down upon us by the patriarchy, are beginning to affect us more and more as a society. If we were to do away with such expectations, and just let people live according to their own interests--and not the ones that society associates with their genitals--then we'd all be so much more happy in certain aspects of our lives. Basically, live for you and only you.

Has nothing to do with patriarchy. Everybody, both men and women, feel certain societal pressures and various gender expectations. The same way women are pressured to find a guy to marry and have kids....guys are pressured to make alot of money and become the men women value or else they're losers. It's never that bad to take your own life though. Things will always get better, one day you'll look back and realize it wasn't the end of the world, just a road bump. She was a pretty girl. She just had a bad night and made a horrible decision.
 

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Stuff like this make me wonder, she wasn't some ugh moe. She could have def found her a boyfriend or husband if she wanted.

If anything she probably had certain criteria that wasn't getting met and she took her life.


I have a really really hard time believing she couldn't find a decent man to marry.

Maybe not a hot guy, or rich or both....but she could have found a guy. The pressures to get married seems like more of a keeping up with the jones issue than a " no one will love me issue"
 

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I always wonder if women like this had an extended bad boy attraction phase.

RIP
:yeshrug: Dude probably moved on long after the break up, which I'm sure she initiated. She most likely curved every stand up guy that came her way, hoping her ex would realize "his mistake" and when dude didn't come around she tried a last ditch effort.

RIP to her but this is a sign that women should stop trying to hold out for someone who may never come along.
 
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