Bridesmaid, 31, hanged herself after struggling to cope with seeing her friends get married...

Weaver31

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Y'all saying she pretty...she aight but I seen better looking cac chicks. I guess it's that white privilege. Chris Rock said that even Rosie O'Donnell can go to a black club and pull a lot of niqqas and she don't like men. That says a lot.

Anyway it seems that even though she was fun loving and extroverted...she had internal issues that her outgoing personality covers up. She was a manager at her age and that's an achievement right there. Plus she had a job so she could've easily found a man. And if she liked bruhs...she would've raked in so much with how c00nish our folks are. She probably just curved a lot if not all the men who approached her. She is too established and eligible to have a problem finding a man. A white woman with education, gainfully employed, has own place, and extroverted with lots of friends and love to have fun and drink. All this would've made her desirable. She must have been depressed and it's probably clinical depression and her friends weddings probably triggered it more to a dangerous level.

RIP....I feel for her family and friends.

Lesson to all...don't let societal pressures get to u. Don't let ur family, friends and coworkers successes make u feel inferior or that u behind in life. Don't even let social media and ur friend and all who post pics making their lives look perfect fukk ur self esteem up. And don't let work stress u out. It's just a job....yes we need a job but don't let the stress kill u.
 

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Has nothing to do with patriarchy. Everybody, both men and women, feel certain societal pressures and various gender expectations. The same way women are pressured to find a guy to marry and have kids....guys are pressured to make alot of money and become the men women value or else they're losers. It's never that bad to take your own life though. Things will always get better, one day you'll look back and realize it wasn't the end of the world, just a road bump. She was a pretty girl. She just had a bad night and made a horrible decision.
Both men and women are affected by this patriarchal society we live in, but in different ways. I do agree with the other part of your comment though. Some type of therapy may have helped her.
 

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she was probably holding out for the "perfect man" that dont exist....women need to stop watching movies and falling in love with the lead character



every female basic requirement list should be

1. he dont stink
2. he dont hit u
3. he got a FT job
4. he has morals
5. he works out
5. has his own place or the ability to have his own place.

@Caliban

:ehh: I can dig this for basic requirements
 

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RIP and don't want to be disrespectful but fuk it :francis: she has that crazy chick look, lots of baggage and all that fun stuff ( the type i keep dating :snoop: ) . He was likely that one guy she couldn't let go of and in addition to the pressures of life she finally just snapped.
 
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